forum The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :) Part 2!

Started September 25, 2020 by @Moxie group

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:AKFJ:LSKJF:SDFKJ ALSO I MADE A NEW FRIEND AND I MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE A CRUSH ON THE GIRL WHO SITS NEXT TO ME IN SPANISH

YAAYYYY I HOPE SHE LIKES YOUUUUUU

my friend came out as pan last week. we were the only ones talking in the discord group chat and she said she had to tell me something important and that's when she came out. And honestly, I'm so happy for her.

Me: sneezes
My mom: Bless you..? Was that a sneeze or a fake?
Me: It's… a real sneeze, mom.
My mom: Oh, I couldn't tell! It was dainty, a dainty sneeze. So dainty.
Me: internal screaming

So yes, that's how I now am having dysphoria over my own goddamned sneezes
T h a n k s, m o m

Ewwwwww that sucks

I hate that. My mom makes a point to call me her "beautiful daughter" and nothing else.
"Hello beautiful daughter, what are you doing beautiful daughter?" Multiple times in the same sentence. And I know she does it to "remind me" I'm her "daughter" because she does it in this grating tone, but I can't get mad at it or else she'll lash out on me and rant about how God made me. It's stupid.

^^^

My dad at least tries to not refer to me as 'baby girl' anymore, but my mom doesn't care. She always go out of her way to point out every little feminine thing I do/think/wear and at like that's proof I'm just a tom boy (her words- she really thinks I'm just a tom boy and confused because I 'like manly things')

Big yikes. Do you think your dad will ever be on the accepting side over time?

Me: sneezes
My mom: Bless you..? Was that a sneeze or a fake?
Me: It's… a real sneeze, mom.
My mom: Oh, I couldn't tell! It was dainty, a dainty sneeze. So dainty.
Me: internal screaming

So yes, that's how I now am having dysphoria over my own goddamned sneezes
T h a n k s, m o m

I mean I’d rather have dainty sneezes (which I do) than sound like a foghorn that you can hear from outside the house (like my best friend’s mum)

Big yikes. Do you think your dad will ever be on the accepting side over time?

No. He didn'tj ust drink the koolaid, he chugged the barrel and started making it himself
Says stuff like 'well I would never be gay because I think that's a sin for me, and would send me to hell. I won't tell other people what sin is though." While he's a pastor. And it's his job to do that. And expect other people to not take that as he thinks all gays are going to hell

Me: sneezes
My mom: Bless you..? Was that a sneeze or a fake?
Me: It's… a real sneeze, mom.
My mom: Oh, I couldn't tell! It was dainty, a dainty sneeze. So dainty.
Me: internal screaming

So yes, that's how I now am having dysphoria over my own goddamned sneezes
T h a n k s, m o m

I mean I’d rather have dainty sneezes (which I do) than sound like a foghorn that you can hear from outside the house (like my best friend’s mum)

Yeah, I have to agree. Still, I don't really have that dainty of a sneeze? Like, I do sound closer to an exaggerated loud obnoxious sneeze when I actually sneeze, I'm not sure how that's dainty at all

Me: sneezes
My mom: Bless you..? Was that a sneeze or a fake?
Me: It's… a real sneeze, mom.
My mom: Oh, I couldn't tell! It was dainty, a dainty sneeze. So dainty.
Me: internal screaming

So yes, that's how I now am having dysphoria over my own goddamned sneezes
T h a n k s, m o m

I mean I’d rather have dainty sneezes (which I do) than sound like a foghorn that you can hear from outside the house (like my best friend’s mum)

Yeah, I have to agree. Still, I don't really have that dainty of a sneeze? Like, I do sound closer to an exaggerated loud obnoxious sneeze when I actually sneeze, I'm not sure how that's dainty at all

my sneeze is a gender-neutral screeching sound so there's that

My sneeze is a scream and then a little 'cheep' noise, one of my friends has the cutest little kitten sneezes

My sneeze tends to be extremely loud and propel me at least a couple of centimetres across the room😂

Sometimes when I sneeze people just look at me because they don’t know if that was a sneeze or what it was lmao

Sometimes when I sneeze people just look at me because they don’t know if that was a sneeze or what it was lmao

right same

i inherited my sneeze from my dad, it's very violent and kinda has a recoil in my whole body
my qp calls them face explosions lmao

i inherited my sneeze from my dad, it's very violent and kinda has a recoil in my whole body
my qp calls them face explosions lmao

well…sounds…scary

Big yikes. Do you think your dad will ever be on the accepting side over time?

No. He didn'tj ust drink the koolaid, he chugged the barrel and started making it himself
Says stuff like 'well I would never be gay because I think that's a sin for me, and would send me to hell. I won't tell other people what sin is though." While he's a pastor. And it's his job to do that. And expect other people to not take that as he thinks all gays are going to hell

I mean… I personally don’t see an issue with what he said. If he believes that it is a sin for himself then that’s fine, but that doesn’t necessarily mean he thinks all gays are going to hell? Just because he’s a pastor doesn’t mean he’s that dense… right?

His actions have made it very clear he thinks all gays are going to hell, and will spend so much time trying to force down your throat he's incredibly intelligent it can be hard to tell but he is extremely dense about it. He's 'I listen to Ben Shapiro and agree with everything that man let's out of his mouth no matter what because ThE fAcTs DoN't CaRe AbOuT yOuR fEeLiNgS' dense.

Annoying mormon kids who found out I was pan this week: >:O wHaT dO yOu MeAn YoU cAn'T bE gAy YoU'rE gOnNa Go To HeLl FoR tHaT

Me, an atheist who doesn't give two flying shits: I guess Satan better pack his bags cuz that's my territory now [sips caprisun and turns up my music]

My friends: [literally applaud me]

Annoying mormon kids who found out I was pan this week: >:O wHaT dO yOu MeAn YoU cAn'T bE gAy YoU'rE gOnNa Go To HeLl FoR tHaT

Me, an atheist who doesn't give two flying shits: I guess Satan better pack his bags cuz that's my territory now [sips caprisun and turns up my music]

My friends: [literally applaud me]

Wow. I applaud you too! I need to aspire to be that cool when faced with adversity

Annoying mormon kids who found out I was pan this week: >:O wHaT dO yOu MeAn YoU cAn'T bE gAy YoU'rE gOnNa Go To HeLl FoR tHaT

Me, an atheist who doesn't give two flying shits: I guess Satan better pack his bags cuz that's my territory now [sips caprisun and turns up my music]

My friends: [literally applaud me]

Wow. I applaud you too! I need to aspire to be that cool when faced with adversity

as a queer christian, i don't understand things like this. god is the one person who isn't going to put limits on who you love. he is literally love. and if we do go to hell, all the gays'll be there so that's gonna be fun anyway

I want to yeet skeet myself into the fucking sun
Anyways, starting to draw a new au for my main fandom because I have no self control

I'm just used to it at this point so it doesn't bother me.

I've lived in Mormon culture for more than a decade as a non Mormon and I'm still not used to it lol

my parents are super homophobic and it sucks balls

I just get progressively more confused on my folks' stance on gay people as time goes on.
I know they're transphobic for sure. Think they might be kinda homophobic but wouldn't kick their own child out or anything. Probably don't think bi people exist if I had to guess.
Like I don't really plan on coming out to them ever bc I don't feel a need to, but it's really fucking annoying how vaguely homophobic they are.
And you'd better believe I'm never telling them about gender stuff.

Annoying mormon kids who found out I was pan this week: >:O wHaT dO yOu MeAn YoU cAn'T bE gAy YoU'rE gOnNa Go To HeLl FoR tHaT

Me, an atheist who doesn't give two flying shits: I guess Satan better pack his bags cuz that's my territory now [sips caprisun and turns up my music]

My friends: [literally applaud me]

Wow. I applaud you too! I need to aspire to be that cool when faced with adversity

as a queer christian, i don't understand things like this. god is the one person who isn't going to put limits on who you love. he is literally love. and if we do go to hell, all the gays'll be there so that's gonna be fun anyway

AYO SAME THIS IS EXACTLY HOW I THINK ABOUT IT

I’m currently going through a gay dilemma also—
My SO met someone doing a musical with them who ended up actually being my best friend’s boyfriend. He doesn’t want to tell my best friend that he’s doing theater which has put both me and my SO in a tough position. Also my best friend has trust issues and she really cares about him and like….idk how she’d take it.