lol nice reference

today's aesthetic: ratty navy blue UC Davis hoodie, aglet from hood cord in mouth. hair pulled back in a loose braid. flower patterned shorts. tall yellow socks with dancing penguins on them.

So earlier my dad said something about how like less than 1% of the population is LGBTQ+ and it's rare to find one person who is. I was like are you sure? So he asked how many people I knew who were LGBTQ+ and I said I knew multiple, which was my mistake. My mom asked who and I said I wasn't telling because you don't out pipeline like that, but they didn't understand because oh you're out to a few people that means your out to everyone. Like no you can be out to your friends but not to your parents. Now my mom really wants to know who and my dad thinks I'm making it up, so yeah

Also Im supposed to be asleep right now so once I post this I will be going to bed so I won't be able to see anyone responses until the morning

Ha
This is why I never disagree with my parents out loud

Ha
This is why I never disagree with my parents out loud

Same

I did that all the time with my mom before I came out
I remember the day before I came out, I said something about bisexuals and then said "bisexuals are awesome" and she demanded to know how many bisexuals I knew
And it's like
Me :)
And then I came out

Oof.. I sat my mum down, my best friend next to me, and said to my mum that I’m bisexual. All she said was “Okay”.
About two years later I came out as genderqueer and she said she didn’t know how to feel about it.

My parents later used all of this knowledge against me in an argument, my stepdad said——and I quote——“Are you just going to keep telling us things until we give you attention?”

That was the last time I trusted my parents.

“Are you just going to keep telling us things until we give you attention?”

-_-

Exactly!!!
Since then I haven’t even told them anything about my gender identity. Although when my sister referred to me as ‘he’ and my mum corrected her to ‘she’ I looked my mum dead in the eye and said “I don’t mind what pronoun they use. He, they.. they is cool”

So, my moms side of the family is super religious and they were coming to say goodbye to my brother who was leaving for a job out of state. Well, I suddenly got really bad anxiety because I'm only out to my cousin, who isn't religious like her parents. All of the family was blocking the front door and I almost said "move, I'm gay" because the cousin I am outed too was quoting vines to help me laugh and feel better. And that is how I almost came out to my family tonight

i asked my mother once if i could cut my hair in a "boyish" hairstyle. that was my mistake. she immediately rounded on me with "what, are you gonna start calling yourself non-binary?" i said no, because i'm not. i just wanted to try out a shorter hairstyle. then she said, "oh are you trying to make yourself known to all the other dykes out there?" she spat the word out like it was something gross. as soon as she said that i really had to restrain myself from yelling at her. we spiraled into a conversation about my sexuality (i'd tried telling her i was bi a year or so back) and i told her i still liked girls. she immediately guilt-tripped me with the story of my uncle who couldn't come out as gay until his 20s, basically telling me that my feelings aren't valid because i'm just a teenager. and "i'll probably change my mind anyway". i cried myself to sleep that night.

@Max_Miracle_IsOnAKindaHiatus this is probably late but HELLO FELLOW FANDER!!!!!!!!
@ocean-bacon-thinks-u-look-cute-today I'm so sorry you had to go through this…
I was forced to come out to my mother, and the first things she said to me after I did was "Are you saying that's what you are?" and then "Don't worry, the Devil is trying to use you. We'll get through it."
I completely feel for you <3

@Odd_Potato3 holy shit that must have been horrible to hear. and thank u for the support, the same goes to u <3

Everyone Else: Drama, drama, drama, drama-
Me: Just happy I found a free manga to read

what is it, would i like it, and is it child-friendly

I take it back everything has gone to hell

what is it, would i like it, and is it child-friendly

tell us

Oof. Life is just BLEH.

what is it, would i like it, and is it child-friendly

tell us

Toilet-Bound Hanuko-Kun

thank you

Oh, that one.

HI GUYS GALS AND NON-BINARY PALS! _{(Quickly addressing any other Fanders in this chat, the new episode made me cry)}

BUT GUESS WHO ACTUALLY IS A SUCCESSFUL GAY NOW

YAY !!
THAT'S AMAZING !!

WOOT WOOT ♪~ ᕕ(ᐛ)ᕗ

YAY!!!
_{and you're not the only one who cried}

Ayyyyy thanks y’all!
_{I watched the new Sanders Sides episode over FaceTime with my significant other actually. They cried too :’)}

is anyone else on here a demigirl/boy? because i think i might identify with demigirl .-.

@i_made_dalgona I consider myself Queer because there's too much I fit into, and demigirl I feel like could be one of them :)

Me: I’m aroace
Mariah Rose Faith: exists
Me: ….I’m still aroace….but….why is she so hecking pretty

Like look at her

I’ve actually kind of started questioning if I’m oriented aroace because girls are really pretty and I’m definitely more aesthetically attracted to girls than anyone else, but romantic and sexual attraction, what are those

sakvlsdvn I have no idea who she is but?? Who gave her the right to look so gorgeous??? Especially in the second picture holy fuck

honestly same. girls are gorgeous, boys are meh, everyone please keep your lips away from me

Oh, this… looks at name Mariah person is really pretty. It's honestly not fair. Like she's really cute.

She looks very huggable
I like her

Since none of you know who she is, she's an actress. She was in the guy who didn't like musicals and also played regina in the mean girls tour, and in another musical you probably haven't heard of called Starry (very beautiful, 100000/10 recommend). She also has a YouTube channel which is how I found out about her

hey formal announcement that girl can murder me and i would thank her legally how is she so pretty