forum The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :)

Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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No.
Not untill you pay child support

but reeEeeEedyYyYyyYy

He's my son just as much as he is yours

Not untill you pay child support he's not

I'll pay in memes

Hmmmm, thin ice

Memes about our son
I have 2 planned
I just need to see him once

Hmm, I'll get my mom to email me the pictures

yaaay!

Hey, depressed trans man is back! for like a little bit. Highly doubt anyone noticed I was gone.

Hello people! I haven't been active in a while, hows everyone doing?

hi both of you!

hows life?

I….have just seen my significant other for the first time since we started dating.
I got to hold their hand (but sadly not for long) and I got to hug them and just A H
I’m a happy homo
But it’s definitely different from when we text

I was just at a party (which I was an hour and a half late to but that's not the point), and I was called by Zane instead of my dead name the whole time and I feel so euphoric I could explode

That’s great!!

So.
I am agender.
And I don't like 'they' as a pronoun. It feels like it's own gender at this point, and I am without that.
But is it invalid to legit vibe with "it" as a pronoun? I know people sometimes use it derogatorily.
But I actually like it :/

As someone who is also okay with the pronoun ‘it’ I don’t see why it should be a problem. I don’t think it is any less valid than pronouns like ‘she’ or ‘xe’ or ‘them’!
Vibe with it!

Thank-you <3 That means a lot, I've been stressing kinda about that

👏Being👏demi👏is👏the👏worst👏
On one hand you have a small queer community that can't understand you because they aren't you. It's not a simple enough identity for people to just be able to say "yeah, I get how that must feel". It's complex.
One another hand people inside and outside the community are telling you you don't exist, further pushing the "misunderstood" feeling onto demis.
On your third hand, even your minuscule demi community can't understand you. Every demi has different experiences. It's not like asexuality, where none of those aces experience any attraction, and it's not like allosexuality where attraction is just another fact of life. It's diverse.

Hey
hey guys
I found another frog
His name's pebbles and he's dating Bannana bell pepper

I got called a man by a stranger yesterday!

I look like a 12 year old girl with short hair. We were at lacrosse practice and I went to get some teammates to take them to the field. He was dropping off his daughter and talking with the school sports director. His wife started talking with her and he came over to me, shook my hand, gestured to the women, then us, introduced himself and said "Us men have to stick together, right?"

My first time being called male in public by a stranger, I'm so happy!!

Hey
hey guys
I found another frog
His name's pebbles and he's dating Bannana bell pepper

Yes we stan

I got called a man by a stranger yesterday!

I look like a 12 year old girl with short hair. We were at lacrosse practice and I went to get some teammates to take them to the field. He was dropping off his daughter and talking with the school sports director. His wife started talking with her and he came over to me, shook my hand, gestured to the women, then us, introduced himself and said "Us men have to stick together, right?"

My first time being called male in public by a stranger, I'm so happy!!

That’s great!!
A bunch of 12 year olds called me a guy.
And I mean they were making fun of me but I was like “I feel valid yay”

Hey
hey guys
I found another frog
His name's pebbles and he's dating Bannana bell pepper

Yes we stan

I found a mushroom and set it near bell. I was worried he wasn't eating enough.

@LaniGirl

I found another reason I don't really want to come out to my parents:

One of our family friends children recently (after lockdown ended in our country) started using a feminine name and female pronouns on social media. I have been using these and switched to them easily. Her mother, my parents and my brother, have been using he-him (hopefully accidentally) and calling her '(feminine name), formally known as (dead name)' or just (dead name).

They keep claiming how hard it is to switch names and pronouns for someone you've known their whole life. But they aren't making any effort and my brother has said he is going to keep using (dead name).

I don't want it to be like that for me

I'm sorry, that's gotta suck. There's no shame in not coming out, especially if you know you won't receive support. Do it in your own time, whenever you're ready.

I had a dream last night that public school was back and I was making my way through the theater to the gym, and on my way I noticed a new wing had been added so I went down that way instead and found a door that said "non-binary and transitioning". I went in and it was a brand new locker room for all the enbies (and people early in transitioning). I set all my stuff down and cried happy tears. I felt normal in there instead of out of place. I was proud to let people see me walk in and out of those doors, instead of awkward like the women's rooms.

I don't know I feel like that dream is pretty telling.

is it gay if i think girls are cute