forum Let's Talk The Birds & The Bees >>> (Mature Rating - For Authors Serious About Sensitive Scenes)

Started April 02, 2019 by @EternallyEris

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But that's what you're asking for right? (*gods excuse my whore ways*)

But that's what you're asking for right? (*gods excuse my whore ways*)

Like, the differences between/how it happens for like oral, anal, etc.

OoooooOOOoOoOOooooH

Gotcha give me a sec

Types of 'THE DO'

1. Traditional - Man v Woman and they battle it out. There are literally giant books (Kamasutra) dedicated to the number of positions that people can contort themselves into but at the end of the day the Pen enters the Vagoosh until completion.
2. Oral - Pretty much when the mouth does all the work. Mouth on the Pen until completion. Mouth on the Vagoosh until completion. Hands can be used to spice things up but that's optional, mostly its just the mouth.
3. Anal - This one can be pretty colorful just because pretty much all variations of couples (Hetero/Gay/Lez/etc.) have their own version. Hetero couple will have the male do the deed in the female booty. (Sometimes some straight men are into what is referred to as 'pegging' which is when a Female wears a strap on and does the deed in the male booty. see Deadpool sex montage for an example) Gays- everyone gets it in the booty, sometimes at the same time. Lez- kinda the same as gays but the fems wear strap ons. (kinda loses the *intimacy if you as this lez but idk some girls like it.)

….Im seriously blanking on other types.

That's all I can think of Eris 🤷🏻‍♀️

There's also scissoring and jacking off two dicks at the same time but I'm not sure if that counts

Oh huh… I think that would just be the 'traditional' gay/lez sex yea?

Also Idk if I should be censoring certain words so forgive my random names for things.

Lmao it’s fine

Oh shit should I be censoring too?

It took me longer than it should have to figure out what you meant by "lez" lmao

I honestly have no idea. Im gonna go with: maybe just the super intense words.

It took me longer than it should have to figure out what you meant by "lez" lmao

Lesbians around the world giggled. XD

Thanks Eris!
Also if anyone wants a good video on the dos and don't of writing sex scenes, the YouTuber Jenna Moreci did a really good one on Valentine's Day that covers stuff like 'sex things in books/movies that aren't as sexy irl' and 'the degrees of writing sex scenes' and it's just a good video in general to check out.

Just FYI - literally nothing about the act itself is sexy. XD
It's intimate and awesome and kinda funny.

Accurate

Oh God this is so awkward
So besides the basic stuff, what happens during sex? Is it just putting stuff in places or is there like….more?

From what I understand, there can also be a lot of kissing and touching. Kinks are also a thing.

Idk if this is too on-the-nose but what's the difference between a kink and a fetish?

Isn't a fetish something that turns one on and a kink is something one likes to do during sex?

well fetishes are more objects from what I've seen? and then kinks are just like the methods the character enjoys (rough, biting, that sort of thing)

Fetish: obsession with a specific thing that can be both sexual or nonsexual, though mainky leans towards the former (ex. cleaning)

Kink: extra enjoyment during sex by doing or using something (ex. biting)

Eyyyy I got it right!

That's my basic understanding of it though. I could be wrong, of course.

Thank you!