forum I'm uhhhh questioning my gender again
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So are you saying gender is based on feelings?

No. It’s the way your brain is wired. Gender dysphoria is a mental illness just like Autism Spectrum Disorder is. People don’t choose to be autistic yet they are, same with transgender.

Autism isn't a mental illness.

Umm yes. Yes it is. My brother has ASD.

moryonenn

So are you saying gender is based on feelings?

No. It’s the way your brain is wired. Gender dysphoria is a mental illness just like Autism Spectrum Disorder is. People don’t choose to be autistic yet they are, same with transgender.

Autism isn't a mental illness.

Umm yes. Yes it is. My brother has ASD.

I'm autistic. A wee bit closer to it than you, wouldn't you say?

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It’s medically considered a mental illness I’m sorry to tell you.

@RedTheLoveless

So are you saying gender is based on feelings?

No. It’s the way your brain is wired. Gender dysphoria is a mental illness just like Autism Spectrum Disorder is. People don’t choose to be autistic yet they are, same with transgender.

Autism isn't a mental illness.

Umm yes. Yes it is. My brother has ASD.

I'm autistic. A wee bit closer to it than you, wouldn't you say?

You may want to educate yourself a bit more on what you have…
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/autism-spectrum-disorders-asd/index.shtml

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I’m very involved with everything that’s happened with my brother. I know the condition inside and out at this point.

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Anyways, ASD being a mental illness is not what this chat is for. I appreciate someone trying to set things straight and it’s okay to be wrong just make sure you have the facts before accusing someone. Thanks.

moryonenn

Anyways, ASD being a mental illness is not what this chat is for. I appreciate someone trying to set things straight and it’s okay to be wrong just make sure you have the facts before accusing someone. Thanks.

You may want to read articles before linking them. "Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a developmental disorder" not a mental illness. A search of the page gives zero mentions of the phrase "mental illness". Don't try to tell about myself. I'm not going to reply again.

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Okay I’d prefer you don’t. It’s a mental illness that just like others, develops. I’ve had doctors tell me about it, I had to sit through a mental illness class.

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Thanks. My brother and I have quite an age gap so I remember every bit of him developing and getting diagnosed.

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The argument was dispursed and it’s over. As I said before it’s not what the post was for and we should get back to the original purpose.

moryonenn

guys… did you seriously have to turn this whole post into an argument? All I wanted was advice.

I'm sorry this happened, but misconceptions can be very damaging.

Advice wise, maybe your preference would be towards something between traditional masculine and feminine? You don't have to align perfectly to someone else's ideals. It sounds to me like body euphoria without social dysphoria. (And this is controversial to say, but some people grow out of it and some don't, so if it's not being going on for very long it's probably worth waiting to see if it persists before making any conclusions.)