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@SaltyLasagna

yeah, I mean I have no idea what to call myself since I'm such an oddball in the non-genderconforming/queer spectrums (I guess I'm agender, idk) and I'm into everything but guys (but I think I would date a masculine person? I legit don't know anymore) so I just use the umbrella term of "gay" lol

omg that reminds me in the locker room yesterday I was calling myself a lesbian and I pointed to my boots and said "these boots were made specifically for lesbians. Nobody else is allowed to wear them." and Kasey seemed annoyed and said "oh so you're a lesbian now? What are you gonna be next week?" And I literally said "No Kasey, I just like the word lesbian and I don't exactly have a label I like using. Lesbians are awesome and since there's no word for my sexuality I'll call myself what I want, get off my dick"

@evastardust groupRRAAAARRL

one of my best friends is asexual, and I completely understand not wanting to have sex. though in my friend's case he still wants to kiss people and have relationships and stuff, but not sex, and I don't get now you couldn't understand that. seriously, our society is so sex-centric it's ridiculous

And people want to force sex everywhere. They act like a movie without romance isn't worth watching, and while I enjoy romance sometimes, a movie can be fine without making-out romance. Look at Rogue One! Look at Zootopia! Look at Big Hero 6! Not everything needs to be a romance!

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Actually I agree with that. I’ve been in a few relationships and I couldn’t imagine myself having sex with that person. Whenever I thought about it, I was just like, “Yeah, that’s not me”.

So now I’m just confused

I might just be asexual

@evastardust groupRRAAAARRL

I have fallen down the Shakespeare hole even farther.
I'm literally creating a menu for a Shakespeare restaurant for my business class.
I ship Benvolio/Mercutio and Hamlet/Horatio more than most people's 'popular' ships.
I JUST LOVE SHAKESPEARE AND NO ONE ELSE MY AGE SEEMS TO!

@_sleeby_rat_

oof I know the feel when you eat too much sweets. though somehow when I ate a salad a few days ago bc I didn't want to eat a bunch I felt like I had gotten immediate stomach flu

@SaltyLasagna

But blehk… I hate this… I guess it's cheat-day…

I feel like we all deserve a cheat day every once in a while when it comes to food lol

@SaltyLasagna

oof I know the feel when you eat too much sweets. though somehow when I ate a salad a few days ago bc I didn't want to eat a bunch I felt like I had gotten immediate stomach flu

oh my god please tell me it didn't have romaine lettuce because if you did you might've actually gotten really sick from it

@_sleeby_rat_

no it wasn't romaine lettuce, the restaurant I was at literally told me that if I wanted a ceasar salad they would give me a salad mix or whatever instead of romaine lettuce lol

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

oof I know the feel when you eat too much sweets. though somehow when I ate a salad a few days ago bc I didn't want to eat a bunch I felt like I had gotten immediate stomach flu

oh my god please tell me it didn't have romaine lettuce because if you did you might've actually gotten really sick from it

I heard about that…

@SaltyLasagna

I know… Usually I do pretty good but I dunno… I just like being in absurdly good shape…

That's really good! But remember, one day isn't going reverse everything you worked for, you'll be okay lol

@SaltyLasagna

no it wasn't romaine lettuce, the restaurant I was at literally told me that if I wanted a ceasar salad they would give me a salad mix or whatever instead of romaine lettuce lol

Oh thank Jesus

@SaltyLasagna

I know… But thinking like thst is what gets some people to fail… Not me… But still…

As long as you keep yourself from doing it a second day, you should be fine. One day is super easy to bounce back from. Two is a lot harder for some reason, and beyond that takes a lot of willpower… at least for me

@SaltyLasagna

Oh… It's honestly a good thing to feel ashamed of it though… It gives you further motivation… At least for me…

I guess that's one way of looking at it