forum For my fellow nonstrait peeps

Started September 12, 2018 by @Bremston

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Hi, I need help, I am going to tell my mom that I am pan and need help, anyone got any advice?

cough i havent come out to my family soo cough

oh, well that's helpful! lol
Well maybe you can ben-a-fit from this too.

I haven't come out to my family either… they would absolutely hate me though, so I can't… they're extremely religious and I'm afraid of what they'd do if I told them I'm bi…

Oh, you poor thing well we all shall help each other, so if you don't mind everyone say your sexuality please

Me, I'm Pansexaual

pan·sex·u·al
panˈsekSH(əw)əl/Submit
adjective
1.
not limited in sexual choice with regard to biological sex, gender, or gender identity.

though i would not date someone I am related too. lol

I'm bi and prob ace too
you guys prob already know what that means so I won't explain

oh hey Gabby I found a site you might want to look at.
http://www.whatisasexuality.com/am-i-ace/teen/

lol i know what ace is im good

I know but still I thought it was cool!

yeah I read through it
sounds like me

There is more than just what it is! It's saying… well a lot of facts and different things. So if someone wants to learn about ace just go to that sight!

I haven't come out to my family either… they would absolutely hate me though, so I can't… they're extremely religious and I'm afraid of what they'd do if I told them I'm bi…

Hey, it's ok so are mine, well other than my step mom and I am going to try to come out to her today that's why I made this! So… we are all here to help each other.

I havn't come out to my parents either, but it's not that I'm scared that they won't be ok with it, it's just…
how do I bring it up in a conversation?

It's hard!

basically my plan is to suddenly have a gf then tell them
then
they'll be like "whatttt a GIRLFRIEND??"
and I'll be like "yeah im bi" then walk away

lol yeah that'll sure work. But thing is when will you get this 'girlfriend' of yours?

idk

prob never lol

I came out to my family in a very low-key way. I first asked my mom what she thought of the community and she legit said she would love me no matter who I date/love, as long as they're a nice and respectful person. I asked my dad the same thing and he said the exact same response that my mother had. I later came out to my family as Demi-pan and explained to them what that meant. They were fine with me and my sexuality.

But I also have super accepting and loving parents so really it depends on what type of people your parents are.

my dad actually casually brings it up in a lot of conversation cause he thiks guys are dicks and I should just be a lesbian… so yeah I have v accepting parents

Thank you. We needed someone who actually came out. lol

Gabby, the next time he brings that up, you should just tell him "Hey, well I'm half way there in a way. I'm bi" or something along the lines of it.

but

Im Genderfluid, coming out is going to be hard
though, im pretty sure im ace

Do you have a idea of how you are going to come out?

Also, have any of you read the book, The Symtoms of being Human?