forum The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :) Part 2!
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@berlioz

Weird gender problem- wanting to wear flowy chiffon headscarves tichel and hijab style and feeling really good and real ~fetching~ in them, but not wearing them out in public because for no (objective) reason at all they have an incredibly strong womanly connotation and you don't wanna be mistaken for a woman more than you already are 👁👄👁
So you look up masculine wrap styles but they're mostly for desert wear, and you do live in a desert, but not that kinda desert and you don't like the way you look in those styles anyway so you just 👁👄👁

… only ever wear the style you feel nice in but never wear it out because then it doesn't feel nice even though you want it to

@berlioz

Heyo!
So I’ve tentatively come to the conclusion that I’m biromantic (I don’t know about my sexuality yet). But I’m super hesitant to give myself a set-in-stone label since I have no experience with relationships at all. I’ve always found girls really attractive, but whenever I thought about it I always passed it off as a passing thing until recently when I allowed myself to really consider it. As much as I research about pansexuality and bisexuality, it all gets really confusing because I don’t want to disregard any other gender or non-binary person.

Anyway if any of you have any advice or experiences related to this I would greatly appreciate hearing it :) But if not I would also love just to hang out on this thread if you’ll have me <3

Welcome to the thread! My only advice is if you're hesitant to give yourself a label, don't. "Queer" is a reclaimed slur for the most part, and a catch all term for anyone who's not straight. Until you find the right word to express your sexuality/romantic orientation (which might take time or experience or both!), identifying as queer might take the pressure of picking a specific label off your shoulders.

@ClownB*tch eco

Heyo!
So I’ve tentatively come to the conclusion that I’m biromantic (I don’t know about my sexuality yet). But I’m super hesitant to give myself a set-in-stone label since I have no experience with relationships at all. I’ve always found girls really attractive, but whenever I thought about it I always passed it off as a passing thing until recently when I allowed myself to really consider it. As much as I research about pansexuality and bisexuality, it all gets really confusing because I don’t want to disregard any other gender or non-binary person.

Anyway if any of you have any advice or experiences related to this I would greatly appreciate hearing it :) But if not I would also love just to hang out on this thread if you’ll have me <3

there's also this thing called polysexuality, where you don't necessarily like all genders but you like more than male and female.

@lavender_ladybug group

Heyo!
So I’ve tentatively come to the conclusion that I’m biromantic (I don’t know about my sexuality yet). But I’m super hesitant to give myself a set-in-stone label since I have no experience with relationships at all. I’ve always found girls really attractive, but whenever I thought about it I always passed it off as a passing thing until recently when I allowed myself to really consider it. As much as I research about pansexuality and bisexuality, it all gets really confusing because I don’t want to disregard any other gender or non-binary person.

Anyway if any of you have any advice or experiences related to this I would greatly appreciate hearing it :) But if not I would also love just to hang out on this thread if you’ll have me <3

Welcome to the thread! My only advice is if you're hesitant to give yourself a label, don't. "Queer" is a reclaimed slur for the most part, and a catch all term for anyone who's not straight. Until you find the right word to express your sexuality/romantic orientation (which might take time or experience or both!), identifying as queer might take the pressure of picking a specific label off your shoulders.

Tysm for the welcome! That’s good advice, I think I will stick with queer the time being <3 it does sound like it would feel a lot lighter than the pressure of a label

@lavender_ladybug group

Heyo!
So I’ve tentatively come to the conclusion that I’m biromantic (I don’t know about my sexuality yet). But I’m super hesitant to give myself a set-in-stone label since I have no experience with relationships at all. I’ve always found girls really attractive, but whenever I thought about it I always passed it off as a passing thing until recently when I allowed myself to really consider it. As much as I research about pansexuality and bisexuality, it all gets really confusing because I don’t want to disregard any other gender or non-binary person.

Anyway if any of you have any advice or experiences related to this I would greatly appreciate hearing it :) But if not I would also love just to hang out on this thread if you’ll have me <3

there's also this thing called polysexuality, where you don't necessarily like all genders but you like more than male and female.

Good to know! I’ll keep it in mind, ty!

@Becfromthedead group

So I came out to my friends as a she/they :)
And another one of my friends also asked if we could start using he/him for him.
So we're all out here with gender confusion ahdjdkls

@Musical_Queen

My mom watching my door close at 2am: Good, she's going to bed
Hears Jeremy Jordan through my door: She's not going to bed anytime soon