forum Your Personal Venting Space 3: Tokyo Drift

Started June 28, 2020 by @The-N-U-T-Cracker

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did this person do something wrong? Idk I've been here on and off I wouldn't know.

There is always some type of beef with another on here. But heyyy It's FINNEEE it's totally not like I feel distant to all my friends. Craving a girlfriend, wanting nothing more than to fit in with my showchoir. and well not be the failure my mom says I will be.

In some cases the beef a lot of people have with eachother is funny if you aren't involved, but when you are its s hi t

EXACTLYYY

Like, if someone calls me into help I'll do it as a middle party, because I like watching drama
But if one of my friends gets involved, heads will roll

Most people here have beef with others, for the most part I'm just sitting here with some level of positive relationship with almost everybody because I don't like arguments and lots of y'all are pretty cool

I don't have beef with anyone… and I think everyone here somewhat likes me

Honestly I just vibe for the most part, if someone's like trying to be an ass to a friend of mine then I'll get involved but like. Otherwise what's the point?? And I don't think anyone has beef with me?

I want anyone who has beef with me to like, tell me to my face

I try to keep a good ear open and keep an open mind that not everyone is the same on here. I know some people on notebook don't like me.

I want anyone who has beef with me to like, tell me to my face

^^^

I don't have beef with either of you.

I want anyone who has beef with me to like, tell me to my face

^^^

Especially on a text/forum thing. If I piss someone off, im not going to be able to tell from passive aggressive or sarcastic text. Especially since I very rarely intend to make anyone mad or argue, it was likely an accident but I can't fix the problem if I don't know about it.

I mean I THINK I'm pretty likeable [cue paranoia that will probably keep me up for the next few nights]

I mean I THINK I'm pretty likeable [cue paranoia that will probably keep me up for the next few nights]

mood

I'm not doing good in my english and math classes because I failed 2 tests at the beginning of the year. Well, we just took 2 more tests and I somehow did good on my math test (90%) and it brought me up to a D, but I did horrible on my english test (40%) and it brought me up to a C. These were both pretty low F's, so it wasn't like 1 was higher than the other. Also, neither of the tests were rounded

TW: weed? idk? also sorry i cant get the spoiler thing to work so i crossed it out so.. sorry

i want to get high so bad like all the time and i've literally NEVER been high also like hAlp

My mom just dragged me around after school when I should be doing work. Like, tuesdays are days I already get home late becuase of dnd, but now I have to fit five hours of homework into two.

TW: weed? idk? also sorry i cant get the spoiler thing to work so i crossed it out so.. sorry

i want to get high so bad like all the time and i've literally NEVER been high also like hAlp

1. You don’t need to cover weed.
2. Spoiler - click to show.

   But quote this to find out how.
3. Bruh you don’t want another thing that costs money dude. Nothing against weed. But I wouldn’t say go drinking just bc I like alcohol.

Most people here have beef with others, for the most part I'm just sitting here with some level of positive relationship with almost everybody because I don't like arguments and lots of y'all are pretty cool

Almost same. But I’m also willing to throwdown with anyone and shake and be friends after.

Made it through today, guys. 3 exams and I want to sleep forever.
I just have to make it through this week, and things are supposed to start getting better. Finally get my mouthpiece to help with my sleep apnea on Monday. I'm out of exam hell, work is going sort of okay. Still struggling, but I'm pushing through with all I have. It's not much, but I'm still kicking.

TW: weed? idk? also sorry i cant get the spoiler thing to work so i crossed it out so.. sorry

i want to get high so bad like all the time and i've literally NEVER been high also like hAlp

1. You don’t need to cover weed.
2. Spoiler - click to show.

   But quote this to find out how.
3. Bruh you don’t want another thing that costs money dude. Nothing against weed. But I wouldn’t say go drinking just bc I like alcohol.

I know some people get uncomfortable with even mentions of alcohol so I wanted to cover it just in case; I know how to, I just forgot the "/" at the end but thanks; and lastly I just need a solution that doesnt involve getting high, preferably

My drawing teacher thought it was just a dandy idea to trigger my into a sensory overload and even after I managed to say it was happening, kept talking to me

day? ruined
tears? shed
dad? yelled at me because i forgot to bring down my dirty laundry
mental stability? gone
hotel? trivago

I'm your dad now. I may not be a man but if the fishing cap and socks and sandals fit, fuckin wear 'em. That's a really stupid thing to yell at you about and you didn't deserve it at all.

Excuse me while I fight your dad for dominance, I'll be back to give you a hug(assuming you're alright with that)

i have just been having a shit week and i just wanna lay in bed with my cats because i hate school and people and i just want to go home

Hot take? Yelling at your kids is actually never okay <3
Unless you have to raise your voice a bit so they can hear you, which isn't "yelling at them" per se.
Anger doesn't teach better behavior or memory or whatever. It just teaches kids how to walk on eggshells to avoid problems.

Hot take? Yelling at your kids is actually never okay <3
Unless you have to raise your voice a bit so they can hear you, which isn't "yelling at them" per se.
Anger doesn't teach better behavior or memory or whatever. It just teaches kids how to walk on eggshells to avoid problems.

Addition to this Hot take.
Shaming your kids "Shame on you for x,y,z" Not ok, invalidating them by saying "That's not a very good reason to cry" That's not ok, Especially with a younger kid, that's unacceptable and you will get your good parent license revoked.
My Sister has been putting down boundaries with her kid and my parents and their reaction just make me want to send them over a freaking cliff. "Well we can't wack him when he misbehaves and we can't yell at him so we just have to let him do things he shouldn't be doing." Like really? No Wonder all of your kids have Mental issues, you can discipline a kid with out yelling or hitting, what the actual heck.

Maybe just… talk to them like a normal human???? Most kids don't like bad consequences for their actions. Like don't climb that, you'll get hurt. Don't hit your sibling because you wouldn't want them to hit you. Say please and thank you because it's polite.
Kids are so much smarter than we give them credit for! And when they get older, they obviously understand what you're saying. Punishment isn't super useful at that point. In fact, acts of "rebellion" usually indicate you've fucked up as a parent.
(Also, I'm a victim of "don't cry over that," and "you're too sensitive." I now have anxiety and depression and hate myself for having normal human emotions sometimes)

well aware some people don't like me
we are all young and therefore I understand that some people will hold onto grudges and not accept the truth.
quite frankly
I don't care
hate me all you want
I know the truth
and nothing you can say or do will change that
I'm happy in my real life
I have people that look out for me
so I don't need any validation from anyone here
this is just a fun site for me to come on and do what I do best
write good shit.