I… yeah, that does make sense. Still, I know he's been frustrated with work and me having so much schoolwork, and he's trying his best to not do this things and it's hard cause of his past.
Still, thank you, it's really appreciated <3Is it bad I was kinda expecting it? Like, he's acting super upset at what he did and stuff, but it's not that big of a deal to me? Like, I know he could have done a lot worse, at least mentally wise, and I honestly prefer the physical pain to other things he has done before…
Also everything I've seen says don't try putting your jaw back in place yourself, but I know I con't go to anyone who's a professional. Anyone have any advice on what to do..?
I… yeah, that does make sense. Still, I know he's been frustrated with work and me having so much schoolwork, and he's trying his best to not do this things and it's hard cause of his past.
Still, thank you, it's really appreciated <3Is it bad I was kinda expecting it? Like, he's acting super upset at what he did and stuff, but it's not that big of a deal to me? Like, I know he could have done a lot worse, at least mentally wise, and I honestly prefer the physical pain to other things he has done before…
Also everything I've seen says don't try putting your jaw back in place yourself, but I know I con't go to anyone who's a professional. Anyone have any advice on what to do..?
Some of these things may excuse his behavior, but it still doesn't make it right for him to hit you like that.
mmmmm, abusive mom found my tik tok and now she's going through it and such. I'm panicking becuase I made a joke about finally snapping and can someone maybe figure out how to log into my tik tok account and delete it? Please?
Hah, if they ever saw that they would yell at me again for "OH HOW DARE YOU TRY TO REPLACE ME! DON'T GIVE OUT PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET YOUR INFORMATION"
Hey bud, it's okay. We're here. I'm here. you can DM me any time you need to. I'm so sorry you're going through that. I just bought bubble mailers over the weekend, if you need anything in particular let me know and I'll send it to you with no questions asked. I love you.
This sounds rude, but who are you?
Lemme pm you real quick lol
I'm happy to give an update-
My jaw had been fixed! I just kinda,, ignored it and it went mostly back into place on it's own as I used it, now there's barely any pain!
I'm happy to give an update-
My jaw had been fixed! I just kinda,, ignored it and it went mostly back into place on it's own as I used it, now there's barely any pain!
Nani???? I missed a lot… You Ok????
It's on the previous page, basically I got bitch slapped by my dad so hard it probably dislocated
Lovely news! ( •̀ᴗ•́ )
Ye, now I don't have a physical reminder and can work on repressing and forgetting what happened like everything else
I'll probably forget it by the time I go to the therapist
Another update on the jaw-
Yeah no it's not better, pain is still there and it's definitely out of place
Will I tell my parents?
No
Will I be someone to fix it?
Probably not (how the hell would I explain it? Telling them it happened from my dad hitting me wouldn't fly at all)
Does it hurt like hell when I try to blow my nose?
Yeah
Or when I clenched my jaw (which I do surprisingly a lot, especially when concentrating)
Y e a h
Will I make it worse if I start trying to fix it myself?
Probably
Swim, you need to tell someone. You could get permanent damage. Please talk to someone. Would your mom listen and get you some help?
Nope
She's honestly? Kinda worse than my dad (aka getting to his he used to be, at least this time he was apologetic)
I'll probably try to get my anatomy teacher or school nurse to help me tomorrow, but I cannot go to the doctor/hospital for this
Oh, okay.
Yeah, talk to the nurse. I wish I knew how to help more, but… please at least see if the nurse can help. I know you can't go to the hospital, but there is a chance you'll have to
That's what I'm afraid of, and it makes me hesitant to do anything
I'm genuinely terrified of CPS showing up because of what my dad had said before
If your dad hit you, I think it's best to tell someone.
Him hitting you does qualify as abuse, I'm sorry. There is no justification for that, even if he's apologized
Honestly
I'm too chicken to
Plus, I only have a year left, but my mom has also made it very clear she wouldn't stop me if I tried to move out earlier (which I would do in a heartbeat if I had someone to go to)
Meanwhile, my mom doesn't want me to leave the house until I get married so that my husband will "keep me in control" when they're (her and my dad) not around.
Swim, if you don't get your jaw fixed, it could have issues for the rest of your life. It really, really could.
And you don't have anyone to stay with? No friends that would let you crash on their couch, no grandparents or aunts or uncles? Anybody at all?
Family is out of the question, everyone I can contact would side with my parents or are just maybe even worse themselves?
Or live to far away, or I don't have contact with anyone because of parents
And I don't really have any irl friends, and the ones I do just don't have the room
Ughhhhh. That really sucks, I wish I could help. I really do. I'm so sorry. I just…please be safe and look out for yourself
