You could show them facts and research. And give them warnings. Tell them if they don't stop you will first tell their parents then the cops. It may sound like your a rattle tail but it is for their own good and personal health.
The facts and research part I have done a billion times. And about the other part… I know, I'm a coward, but I would hate to loose them over a fight like that.
If you haven't called the police yet, CALL THEM
I don't even know where the party is gonna be… I can't call the police to tell them that there is a party somewhere…
What about her parents?
Don't have their number
Go over to her house and tell them in person?
Next time you're with them, make sure they're phone batteries are dead and then be like "hey do you guys wanna leave now" or "hey let's go somewhere else" so they have to text or call their parents on your phone. Then add whatever numbers into your contacts
Update on this: I had a pretty bad fight with them and then I called them stupid and they thought I was mean and I said that I don't care if I'm mean or not, they didn't answer me for two hours… I texted them just now and they are crazy drunk but they are okay and things seem fine for the moment… I can't really go over to their house cause it's pretty far from here and I have no transportation. But since it seems fine for the moment I'm gonna text them every fifteen minutes/half an hour or so to check in on them and if things seem to get bad I'll have to find a way to get there…
sighs
I hope your friend's okay and you find a way to make her stop…
Next time you're with them, make sure they're phone batteries are dead and then be like "hey do you guys wanna leave now" or "hey let's go somewhere else" so they have to text or call their parents on your phone. Then add whatever numbers into your contacts
Actually a really smart plan, but they don't have to text or call their parents before they go somewhere.
Hey. I hope everything works out OK for you and your friends dear. I am here for you! And that's a good plan, try to keep in touch with them
I think I'm finally (almost) over my cold. I've had it since last Thursday so for about 4 days
Hey. I hope everything works out OK for you and your friends dear. I am here for you! And that's a good plan, try to keep in touch with them
Thanks Shuri, it means a lot. I'm just so worried, I don't want something to happen to them. I mean, if something happened and I know that I could have stopped them? I dunno. I just wish they thought some more about the consecquences…
Do you have their passwords? Cause you could break into their phones and get it. Or ask them for their parents numbers bc your parents want it
… j don't think you should break into anyone's property
Maybe "break in" is a little harsh. Think of it as… Using your knowledge to keep them safe
… j don't think you should break into anyone's property
That part would be fine lol we sneak into each others phones to change the background to something stupid or to set weird alarms and reminders all the time
But you're right Pickles, I should try to get their parent's number. This time it seemed like a pretty calm party (more or less). She could at least answer me and text me complete sane sentences. Last time she was drunk she didn't even text me in normal sentences…
And she just texted me to say that they were out of alcohol, hopefully they wont find any new one and then maybe the party will end… at least they can't get more drunk.
None of them have cars, right?
Nope.
Some of the others might have mopeds though
thinks back to horror stories of drunk motorcyclists das not good
I know…
Mopeds are not entirely as dangerous though… they are much slower
You can still lock the brakes, hit a curb, and go flying (probably)
But yeah
Well… now you just made me even more worried.
Oops
An update… they found vodka.
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