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@Max_Miracle_DroppedMostOfTheirRPs

PuffPoff same here, except I’m bi and questioning if I’m pan

samee I kinda just say bi even tho I'm attracted to all genders

I identify as bi because I have preferences and see the differences in genders when it comes to dating I guess that’s just my views tho

@Euric_Knight

Currently shook because me and my friend posted the first chapter of a fanfiction we’re writing together on ao3 and people are actually reading it which we didn’t expect at all so yeet

@actual-fandom-trash

This is random but
my friend made me question again and I honestly am just aaagghhhh
Like we were talking about crushes and how both of us find it hard to differentiate between platonic and romantic feelings and she was like "Well I think about whether or not I'd want to kiss them" and like I realized that I don't really look at people and think 'yes i wanna kiss em'
I'm not against it but I just don't know
Anyway I'm sorta questioning whether I'm on the ace spectrum or not but whatever

@blue_topaz

PuffPoff same here, except I’m bi and questioning if I’m pan

samee I kinda just say bi even tho I'm attracted to all genders

I identify as bi because I have preferences and see the differences in genders when it comes to dating I guess that’s just my views tho

I think I’m sort of the same, in the way that I’m open to liking anyone who isn’t an asshole, but gender is still a factor, as opposed to being genderblind like a lot of pain people

However, I get that the meanings of those two terms can be different for everyone, and I respect them all

@blue_topaz

This is random but
my friend made me question again and I honestly am just aaagghhhh
Like we were talking about crushes and how both of us find it hard to differentiate between platonic and romantic feelings and she was like "Well I think about whether or not I'd want to kiss them" and like I realized that I don't really look at people and think 'yes i wanna kiss em'
I'm not against it but I just don't know
Anyway I'm sorta questioning whether I'm on the ace spectrum or not but whatever

Just know that you’ve got the rest of your life to figure out how you feel, and you don’t even have to at all. We’ll all love and respect you no matter what, and I hope you manage to find some sort of peace soon

@PuffPoff

This is random but
my friend made me question again and I honestly am just aaagghhhh
Like we were talking about crushes and how both of us find it hard to differentiate between platonic and romantic feelings and she was like "Well I think about whether or not I'd want to kiss them" and like I realized that I don't really look at people and think 'yes i wanna kiss em'
I'm not against it but I just don't know
Anyway I'm sorta questioning whether I'm on the ace spectrum or not but whatever

Same here. I'm questioning if I'm demi or greysexual, but it's difficult to tell when you're still in highschool.

@actual-fandom-trash

This is random but
my friend made me question again and I honestly am just aaagghhhh
Like we were talking about crushes and how both of us find it hard to differentiate between platonic and romantic feelings and she was like "Well I think about whether or not I'd want to kiss them" and like I realized that I don't really look at people and think 'yes i wanna kiss em'
I'm not against it but I just don't know
Anyway I'm sorta questioning whether I'm on the ace spectrum or not but whatever

Same here. I'm questioning if I'm demi or greysexual, but it's difficult to tell when you're still in highschool.

Yeah and I'm in middle school so it's even harder to tell. At this point I don't even know if I want to figure it out

@blue_topaz

Is it weird that it’s possible for me to get turned on or whatever, but I think sex would be extremely painful and uncomfortable? What does that make me?

@The-Magician group

Is it weird that it’s possible for me to get turned on or whatever, but I think sex would be extremely painful and uncomfortable? What does that make me?

No that's not weird I feel the same way, and I honestly don't know what the term for it would be

@PuffPoff

Is it weird that it’s possible for me to get turned on or whatever, but I think sex would be extremely painful and uncomfortable? What does that make me?

I don't really want to label your sexuality for you, since you should choose one that fits and seems comfortable for you. You probably fall somewhere on the ace spectrum, but remember that it is just that: a spectrum. There are different levels of asexuality, some of which might not be named yet.

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Random question, but does anyone else like to watch anime and randomly pause it to see the background characters with messed up faces because not a lot of detail? I do it a lot… it’s very amusing to me.

@CharBar

hello gays, gals, and non gender specific humans!
brushes dust off computer
I have some news. Two things:
Last Sunday was my birthday and I got to hang out with a bunch of my friends at this cafe we like going to. They got me some new makeup (which I've been needing) and some other fun little trinkets. Later that night I went out to dinner with my family and we had a great time. I got to see my brother who I haven't talked to for a while, and I got some great P!ATD merch. 10/10 great day (My dad accidently bought me a non binary shirt from hot topic and he has me weezing bc he said "I just really liked the colors"🤣)

Second thing is, my crush asked me out/asked me to be his girlfriend. To make a long story short, I said yes. So I guess we are official now, but I don't know what that really means for us. Before he was my boyfriend, he was my friend. I really want this relationship to work because I genuinely like him. Any advice? All is welcome!

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

hello gays, gals, and non gender specific humans!
brushes dust off computer
I have some news. Two things:
Last Sunday was my birthday and I got to hang out with a bunch of my friends at this cafe we like going to. They got me some new makeup (which I've been needing) and some other fun little trinkets. Later that night I went out to dinner with my family and we had a great time. I got to see my brother who I haven't talked to for a while, and I got some great P!ATD merch. 10/10 great day (My dad accidently bought me a non binary shirt from hot topic and he has me weezing bc he said "I just really liked the colors"🤣)

Second thing is, my crush asked me out/asked me to be his girlfriend. To make a long story short, I said yes. So I guess we are official now, but I don't know what that really means for us. Before he was my boyfriend, he was my friend. I really want this relationship to work because I genuinely like him. Any advice? All is welcome!

First off… That's AWESOME!!!!!! HAPPY LATE B-DAY!
Second off. For that advice.
Go slow. Be gentle. Don't just barrel into a relationship. You want to be sure. And you want to build a bond!

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hello gays, gals, and non gender specific humans!
brushes dust off computer
I have some news. Two things:
Last Sunday was my birthday and I got to hang out with a bunch of my friends at this cafe we like going to. They got me some new makeup (which I've been needing) and some other fun little trinkets. Later that night I went out to dinner with my family and we had a great time. I got to see my brother who I haven't talked to for a while, and I got some great P!ATD merch. 10/10 great day (My dad accidently bought me a non binary shirt from hot topic and he has me weezing bc he said "I just really liked the colors"🤣)

Second thing is, my crush asked me out/asked me to be his girlfriend. To make a long story short, I said yes. So I guess we are official now, but I don't know what that really means for us. Before he was my boyfriend, he was my friend. I really want this relationship to work because I genuinely like him. Any advice? All is welcome!

First off… That's AWESOME!!!!!! HAPPY LATE B-DAY!
Second off. For that advice.
Go slow. Be gentle. Don't just barrel into a relationship. You want to be sure. And you want to build a bond!

Agreed, communicate mostly, get to know each other, it’s the key to a healthy relationship. Don’t jump into things, take things very slow.