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@Pickles group

i honestly dont know
like ive been thinking on it but idk if its legit you know?
im so
just
confused

Tell her this
And if you think you want to give it a whirl, tell her that too

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I'm being extra and sending an anti-dysphoria envelope to my trans buddy
what should I put in it?

@Cloudy_is_trying_her_best

Happy notes? Maybe if you can make a button with their preferred pronouns? I'd say maybe a clothing article(like if they identify as male grab a tee shirt from the mens section) but that seems like it'd probably be too big.

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… Candy is always an option for anyone, just saying that

@saor_illust school

lkjdsflkjs
thanks youtube for educating me on asexuality
more questioning !!
yayyyy
not like i wasn't already doing that in the first place but
i think i might be demisexual?

i don't think i'm aro anymore tho
ljkdsflkjfdlkjdf
questioning is harddd
i don't like this

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Not calling anyone young in general/less valid because of their age
but when you're younger, sexual attraction isn't that big of a deal. really.
and usually it'll all make sense when you fall in love with someone, and you can figure out what you're comfortable with from there.

@berlioz

^^^
It's also important to remember sexual, romantic, and gender orientation are all fluid. That goes for all ages. They can change and warp, and they probably will, so don't stress too much about "questioning".

@Anemone eco

Sorry to change the topic so abruptly, but–

My sister just came out to me as a lesbian via text! I'm just so happy that she felt comfortable telling me. :D

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A lot of lgbtq+ people in your family, huh?

@Pickles group

^^^
It's also important to remember sexual, romantic, and gender orientation are all fluid. That goes for all ages. They can change and warp, and they probably will, so don't stress too much about "questioning".

Facts
Also, super important to remember that aromanticism and asexuality is a scale, and it's kind of just an umbrella term
And hmu if you want to talk

@Cloudy_is_trying_her_best

Dang, that's cool! I'm glad she was comfortable to come out to you, too, for both of you!

also is it weird that part of me wants to get over my crush dating another person by developing another crush?? Like my brain's like "you can't be sad about them dating him if you're into someone else" and I don't know if that's fucked up or not??

@Milani eco

Dang, that's cool! I'm glad she was comfortable to come out to you, too, for both of you!

also is it weird that part of me wants to get over my crush dating another person by developing another crush?? Like my brain's like "you can't be sad about them dating him if you're into someone else" and I don't know if that's fucked up or not??

nah its ok, i do it all the time lmao

@berlioz

That's called rebounding and a lot of people experience it, it's a completely common coping mechanism. It's not rare or unhealthy to want to get over someone by developing a new crush and shifting your focus off the "old crush". It is unhealthy however, to jump into a relationship when you're still working through feelings for a different person, so just don't do that and it's all good. Best of luck working through all that, and I'm sorry it didn't work out how you wanted it to. <3

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This is not the chat to start a debate, so I'll stay quiet.

Deleted user

Huh, I had a girlfriend in the netherlands, it was a poly relationship

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Anyhow, I'll be gone for a while
I'm leaving for my trip soon and I'll be there for a while to help my sick grandpa

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THE LOVE OF MY LIFE IS HERE

Hi my moon and stars