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What is happening here and why are frogs brought in the conversation so confused

No one believes me when I say they’re pretty

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is it smart to tell my best friend that I'm questioning my gender and if so how do I do it

@Nie-Huaisang-is-lost-in-the-stars group

Yes, it is smart. Support is a great thing and it's nice to keep your friends informed. And as to how, I don't know. I'd just bring it up and talk to your friend about it. If you ask me, there's no point in beating around bushes. Just get to the point. But I don't know. Shrugs

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If you trust your friend and think they'll be supportive, yes, absolutely.

^^^

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Hi can I appear back onto this chat with a questionato?

Okay so I’m most likely Bi and not comfortable with investigating that right now, but one thing I am squinting at suspiciously is me possibly being on the spectrum of asexuality?

I always called myself a grey ace which makes sense in my relationship right now.

aaah this is really weird to say and please don’t take it weird

I woke up with a nightmare a couple days ago where essentially my bf was “pushing” the boundaries in which I am comfortable with considering physical/sexual stuff.

It wasn’t bad— of course I woke up right in the middle of it so it could’ve gone anywhere— but I can’t stop thinking about it and I really need to talk to Nate about it, but I’m also incredibly confused and don’t want that to happen in real life.

SO NOW i just want to talk about it because I really want to reintroduce being ace to myself again. I had originally told myself I’m just Bi, for I am comfortable with some stuff, like kissing or whatever. . Then after a month and now that I’m more comfortable in this relationship, things are starting to surface that I hadn’t thought of before. Like being terrified of pushing over my boundaries. Like REALLY intimate stuff. Like… Idk if it’s a phobia or aceness or what but yes

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(It definitely sounds like Bi-Ace but take your time, also tread carefully with the guy. If he did it once he’ll almost definitely do it again. )

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Nononono he didn’t do it

I DREAMED he did

which is scary enough on its own

Nate’s a good guy and deep down somewhere I know he wouldn’t do it, but I’m basically being a bitch pansy and anxious that it might come to that

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Sorry, my bad. I read it wrong o-o. You should definitely talk about it if it makes you anxious though. Honesty is important.

@Bre_is_sick_of_school group

@daughter_of_Diameter you're still adorable, and your pacman earrings are fantastic
@DeadAndGone You're not a frog, you have a really strong face shape and it's beautiful!

ow thanks and I agree with @m+Ms

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Hey can someone help me with deciding if someone actually likes me? I suck at determining things like that.

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Hey can someone help me with deciding if someone actually likes me? I suck at determining things like that.

Yeah sure what be the situation

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Alright, I'm about to have to go, but here's the run-down.

He tells me that he likes me. I tell him that I like him. So we decide that we're talking. He's acting abnormally sweet towards me, calling me this new nickname, 'sweetheart'. I mean, it sounds like he likes me, but honestly I'm not sure because I'm always confused. He's giving me these loving signals, but I don't feel like we're getting anywhere? It's been like a week since we told each-other our feelings? Am I just going too fast with things, or impatient? Or does he feel unsure of his feels?

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Ok it could go one of two ways:

  • He really does like you and doesn’t really know how to express that individuality and you should support him and be honest.
  • He’s pretending for some reason and you should break ties ASAP

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I think, maybe, he’s just unsure how to portray it to you. Especially if you guys don’t spend a lot of outside time together in phone calls or dates. So maybe to help out and scope it better, I’d invite him on a date or two.

@Musical_Queen

Um, hello. I'm new, but saw this chat. I am still not 100% sure if I am bisexual, lesbian, or pansexual, but I am still figuring that out. And I just came out to one of my best friends. He actually came out to me a couple months ago but then fell of the radar, but I am happy to announce that we are, as he said "Bi-Buddies"

@RedTheLoveless

Welcome to the chat. I'm Ace, but yall can call me Red. I am who I am and I like who I like. I'm the local cryptid and anti-villain of the site.