forum Let's Talk The Birds & The Bees >>> (Mature Rating - For Authors Serious About Sensitive Scenes)
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Stares at person who was talking about this to me
This doesn't even really belong in the smut chat, but this gorl wanted to discuss Spin the Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven
Idk, could be useful for some people ig
So, as someone who has played Spin the Bottle before, I'm just gonna say that it's nothing like the media displays it to be. It's more humorous than serious, at least most of the time. And if there's someone in the group that you actually want to kiss, then good luck, because it rarely happens. When the bottle lands on someone, there's a few seconds of awkward silence before y'all actually smooch. And usually you laugh. A lot. It's not really romantic; It's more like kissing a friend while your other friends watch and cheer creepily.

As for Seven Minutes in Heaven, I don't know about anyone else who has played this, but for me I don't think anyone I've played with has actually hooked up while playing. There's usually some kissing, maybe a blowjob, but that's it. Like I said, maybe in other people's groups there are actual hookups, but like?? Idk. If you were to actually hook up though, there's not usually much room and sometimes it's easier to just mess up each other's hair, tug on your shirt a little and just return to your friends.

That's all I have to say on the matter. I'd say nobody asked, but somebody did.

what happens if you dont want to kiss someone

Oh, someone actually needs this
{Also, I don't think we've met, hey Timraijuiwifc, I'm Miriam!}
If you don't want to kiss someone, you just gotta do it anyway.
That's the point of spin the bottle.

@Timraijuiwifc

Stares at person who was talking about this to me
This doesn't even really belong in the smut chat, but this gorl wanted to discuss Spin the Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven
Idk, could be useful for some people ig
So, as someone who has played Spin the Bottle before, I'm just gonna say that it's nothing like the media displays it to be. It's more humorous than serious, at least most of the time. And if there's someone in the group that you actually want to kiss, then good luck, because it rarely happens. When the bottle lands on someone, there's a few seconds of awkward silence before y'all actually smooch. And usually you laugh. A lot. It's not really romantic; It's more like kissing a friend while your other friends watch and cheer creepily.

As for Seven Minutes in Heaven, I don't know about anyone else who has played this, but for me I don't think anyone I've played with has actually hooked up while playing. There's usually some kissing, maybe a blowjob, but that's it. Like I said, maybe in other people's groups there are actual hookups, but like?? Idk. If you were to actually hook up though, there's not usually much room and sometimes it's easier to just mess up each other's hair, tug on your shirt a little and just return to your friends.

That's all I have to say on the matter. I'd say nobody asked, but somebody did.

what happens if you dont want to kiss someone

You just say no.

oh ok

@Timraijuiwifc

Stares at person who was talking about this to me
This doesn't even really belong in the smut chat, but this gorl wanted to discuss Spin the Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven
Idk, could be useful for some people ig
So, as someone who has played Spin the Bottle before, I'm just gonna say that it's nothing like the media displays it to be. It's more humorous than serious, at least most of the time. And if there's someone in the group that you actually want to kiss, then good luck, because it rarely happens. When the bottle lands on someone, there's a few seconds of awkward silence before y'all actually smooch. And usually you laugh. A lot. It's not really romantic; It's more like kissing a friend while your other friends watch and cheer creepily.

As for Seven Minutes in Heaven, I don't know about anyone else who has played this, but for me I don't think anyone I've played with has actually hooked up while playing. There's usually some kissing, maybe a blowjob, but that's it. Like I said, maybe in other people's groups there are actual hookups, but like?? Idk. If you were to actually hook up though, there's not usually much room and sometimes it's easier to just mess up each other's hair, tug on your shirt a little and just return to your friends.

That's all I have to say on the matter. I'd say nobody asked, but somebody did.

what happens if you dont want to kiss someone

Oh, someone actually needs this
{Also, I don't think we've met, hey Timraijuiwifc, I'm Miriam!}
If you don't want to kiss someone, you just gotta do it anyway.
That's the point of spin the bottle.

wait but the other one said you don't have to

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Depends on how dedicated you are to the game, tbh

If I really didn't want to kiss the person, I won't

@EternallyEris

this is awkward af
first off how much exactly does it hurt a girl first time

It's not that painful actually. Your mind is otherwise occupied, so yea you will feel it, but it's not that bad.
It's really sore the next day though. Probably will last for like a day and that's it.

Honestly, it's really forgettable.

@EternallyEris

Consent is Important. Even if you are playing a stupid game (that no one plays)

If you don't want to kiss the person, then don't.
It's that simple.

Deleted user

this is awkward af
first off how much exactly does it hurt a girl first time

It's not that painful actually. Your mind is otherwise occupied, so yea you will feel it, but it's not that bad.
It's really sore the next day though. Probably will last for like a day and that's it.

Honestly, it's really forgettable.

ok, that's fascinating and I'm not even the one who asked lol

@GoodThingGoing group

I have a question too

Is it supposed to hurt during a girls first time? I read somewhere that it shouldn't, is that true or not?

The whole cliche of the hymen ripping and there being pain and blood and stuff isn't true. The hymen will stretch, but it shouldn't snap unless the penetration is going way too fast and hard (pun not intended).

@EternallyEris

I have a question too

Is it supposed to hurt during a girls first time? I read somewhere that it shouldn't, is that true or not?

The whole cliche of the hymen ripping and there being pain and blood and stuff isn't true. The hymen will stretch, but it shouldn't snap unless the penetration is going way too fast and hard (pun not intended).

Wellllllllll– that's not entirely true. It all depends on the girl actually.
Normally, yes. The hymen will tear and it will hurt. But as I stated before, pain isn't all that bad. Period cramps are worse. (the irony)
But there are cases where some lucky girl won't have to deal with the pain at all and still have her hymen intact after sex. That stupid thing is flimsy and irrelevant. I mean it can tear from exercise.

@GoodThingGoing group

I have a question too

Is it supposed to hurt during a girls first time? I read somewhere that it shouldn't, is that true or not?

The whole cliche of the hymen ripping and there being pain and blood and stuff isn't true. The hymen will stretch, but it shouldn't snap unless the penetration is going way too fast and hard (pun not intended).

Wellllllllll– that's not entirely true. It all depends on the girl actually.
Normally, yes. The hymen will tear and it will hurt. But as I stated before, pain isn't all that bad. Period cramps are worse. (the irony)
But there are cases where some lucky girl won't have to deal with the pain at all and still have her hymen intact after sex. That stupid thing is flimsy and irrelevant. I mean it can tear from exercise.

Oh okay, thanks!
It was just something I'd heard in a 'how to write sex scenes' video

Deleted user

really?

Eris am I allowed to ask what type of exercise? I’ve never heard that before.

Deleted user

Again, question for Eris to answer

My man, you may be in the wrong place. XD

I've answered a couple of questions

;-;

@EternallyEris

really?

Eris am I allowed to ask what type of exercise? I’ve never heard that before.

Running sports, generally.
I think it's more 'strenuous activity' than any one sport, but yes runners experience that a lot.

@EternallyEris

Again, question for Eris to answer

My man, you may be in the wrong place. XD

I've answered a couple of questions

;-;

Awwwww. I'm sorry for my joke.

@RedTheLoveless

I have a few for you Baylee lmao. Most of them are stupid but I am curious so while you're here…

Do the hairy cheese balls float in water? I heard they do, and I'm curious if that's true.
How does it feel to get your dick caught in something? I imagine it's like getting your finger in a chinese finger trap, but I could be wrong.
How does it feel having a G-spot in your asshole?
Just: explain dick cheese. Is it like toe jam?

Deleted user

I have a few for you Baylee lmao. Most of them are stupid but I am curious so while you're here…

Do the hairy cheese balls float in water? I heard they do, and I'm curious if that's true.
How does it feel to get your dick caught in something? I imagine it's like getting your finger in a chinese finger trap, but I could be wrong.
How does it feel having a G-spot in your asshole?
Just: explain dick cheese. Is it like toe jam?

One: Not sure what you mean by this. If you mean testicles, no, they don't

Two: Imagine two knifes being pressed against the side of your finger

Three: I am straight, so I never had that type of sex. It ain't that kinky

Four: Mix of dirt, dead skin cells, and oil from your sweat

@RedTheLoveless

I have a few for you Baylee lmao. Most of them are stupid but I am curious so while you're here…

Do the hairy cheese balls float in water? I heard they do, and I'm curious if that's true.
How does it feel to get your dick caught in something? I imagine it's like getting your finger in a chinese finger trap, but I could be wrong.
How does it feel having a G-spot in your asshole?
Just: explain dick cheese. Is it like toe jam?

One: Not sure what you mean by this. If you mean testicles, no, they don't

Two: Imagine two knifes being pressed against the side of your finger

Three: I am straight, so I never had that type of sex. It ain't that kinky

Four: Mix of dirt, dead skin cells, and oil from your sweat

Yeah I meant testicles lmao. Glad to know

Ah, alrighty.

Well I mean, you could still have a female dom. But fair enough.

Oof nasty