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@thehobbit

Ive been thinking a lot on the subject of coming out lately and Ive decided that i'm definitely NOT coming out to my dad, sister, or even my mom as Aro or Ace because I JUST KNOW that they will dismiss my Aromanticism and Asexuality as “just me being autistic’” and say that i'll find the one or fall in love one day or say that someone will come along who will fix that and that’s kindof really hard for me to come to terms with. Like it's hard for me to come to terms with the fact that I know that they will NEVER just accept my feelings as my own because I don't think they quite understand the idea of my Autism being as much a part of who I am as my eye color or hair or love of stories. My Autism doesnt change me, I wouldnt be the same person that i am right now if in the next second my Autism suddenly ‘disappeared’ or something. Like my Autism is an intrinsic part of me and yeah, it explains my feelings, BUT MY AUTISM CAUSING MY FEELINGS OR LACK THEREOF SHOULDNT INVALIDATE THE FACT THAT I DO OR DON'T FEEL THOSE THINGS!!! Like, those are still my feelings. DOes it really matter why I feel the way I do? Can't they just respect the fact that I feel/ don't feel certain things and not try to justify it as oh… you don't feel that and are broken like that because you are also broken in this way. LIKE ALKHDGKJAFBKGLABSDJGBIEFJBGJBDJKBGSISJBIFBSDGIBDFJBIU JUST WHAT?? WHY DO YOU SO BADLY WANT TO LABEL ME AS BROKEN???? WHY CAN'T YOU BE HAPPY THAT IVE ACCEPTED HOW I DON'T FEEL THINGS AND FOUND A GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT I CAN CONNECT WITH??

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@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

I can sympathize with you… You don't need to come out, just play the "high standards" game, or the "nobody is my type" game whenever they ask you… And lately I've been on the fence about telling my family about Dante, so… Yeah…

@evastardust groupRRAAAARRL

Ive been thinking a lot on the subject of coming out lately and Ive decided that i'm definitely NOT coming out to my dad, sister, or even my mom as Aro or Ace because I JUST KNOW that they will dismiss my Aromanticism and Asexuality as “just me being autistic’” and say that i'll find the one or fall in love one day or say that someone will come along who will fix that and that’s kindof really hard for me to come to terms with. Like it's hard for me to come to terms with the fact that I know that they will NEVER just accept my feelings as my own because I don't think they quite understand the idea of my Autism being as much a part of who I am as my eye color or hair or love of stories. My Autism doesnt change me, I wouldnt be the same person that i am right now if in the next second my Autism suddenly ‘disappeared’ or something. Like my Autism is an intrinsic part of me and yeah, it explains my feelings, BUT MY AUTISM CAUSING MY FEELINGS OR LACK THEREOF SHOULDNT INVALIDATE THE FACT THAT I DO OR DON'T FEEL THOSE THINGS!!! Like, those are still my feelings. DOes it really matter why I feel the way I do? Can't they just respect the fact that I feel/ don't feel certain things and not try to justify it as oh… you don't feel that and are broken like that because you are also broken in this way. LIKE ALKHDGKJAFBKGLABSDJGBIEFJBGJBDJKBGSISJBIFBSDGIBDFJBIU JUST WHAT?? WHY DO YOU SO BADLY WANT TO LABEL ME AS BROKEN???? WHY CAN'T YOU BE HAPPY THAT IVE ACCEPTED HOW I DON'T FEEL THINGS AND FOUND A GROUP OF PEOPLE THAT I CAN CONNECT WITH??

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FRICKING MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I just found out one of my friends hates me. And she's so quiet I didn't even know till her sister told me.

That sucks… I’m very sorry for you…

@Moxie group

I just found out one of my friends hates me. And she's so quiet I didn't even know till her sister told me.

I'm so sorry my darling…. Is there anything we can do?

I don’t think so but thanks for the offer

@evastardust groupRRAAAARRL

On a positive note, I found a new Star Wars book today called 'Women of the Galaxy' that's about….you know, I bet you can guess by the title. Anyways, all of the artwork is done by female and nonbinary artists, and the art is really good! Even if you're not into Star Wars, I recommend checking it out!

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On a positive note, I found a new Star Wars book today called 'Women of the Galaxy' that's about….you know, I bet you can guess by the title. Anyways, all of the artwork is done by female and nonbinary artists, and the art is really good! Even if you're not into Star Wars, I recommend checking it out!

I just checked this out, and the art is INCREDIBLE.

I also recommend checking it out! A lot of art is available when you just look it up.

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Help I’m at a party full of straight people and it’s so awkward

Lol at least you didn’t get an accidental crush on someone who is Asexual. cries

@-Love, Blue

Help I’m at a party full of straight people and it’s so awkward

Lol at least you didn’t get an accidental crush on someone who is Asexual. cries

At least I don’t have a crush on a straight idiot that WEARS GLASSES

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Help I’m at a party full of straight people and it’s so awkward

Lol at least you didn’t get an accidental crush on someone who is Asexual. cries

hahaha

That’s meee

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Help I’m at a party full of straight people and it’s so awkward

Lol at least you didn’t get an accidental crush on someone who is Asexual. cries

hahaha

That’s meee

You remember that don’t you Emi? AHHHHH ded

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Help I’m at a party full of straight people and it’s so awkward

Lol at least you didn’t get an accidental crush on someone who is Asexual. cries

hahaha

That’s meee

You remember that don’t you Emi? AHHHHH ded

yeah cus i’m not a fish okay

i have a good memory (as good as ADHD can give)

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Help I’m at a party full of straight people and it’s so awkward

Lol at least you didn’t get an accidental crush on someone who is Asexual. cries

hahaha

That’s meee

You remember that don’t you Emi? AHHHHH ded

yeah cus i’m not a fish okay

i have a good memory (as good as ADHD can give)

remember when I had a crush on Destiny? OOOOOOOOF

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Help I’m at a party full of straight people and it’s so awkward

Lol at least you didn’t get an accidental crush on someone who is Asexual. cries

hahaha

That’s meee

You remember that don’t you Emi? AHHHHH ded

yeah cus i’m not a fish okay

i have a good memory (as good as ADHD can give)

remember when I had a crush on Destiny? OOOOOOOOF

I’m pretty sure she’s asexual too

You have some pretty shirfty luck

@RedTheLoveless

Wow… These are all awkward… My friend once asked me out but I wasn't interested in dudes at the time… Now he's a tad bit disgruntled because I'm with a guy…

Well he needs to get over himself then. People change and discover new things about themselves. Hopefully he'll understand that if he's really your friend…

Deleted user

Help I’m at a party full of straight people and it’s so awkward

Lol at least you didn’t get an accidental crush on someone who is Asexual. cries

hahaha

That’s meee

You remember that don’t you Emi? AHHHHH ded

yeah cus i’m not a fish okay

i have a good memory (as good as ADHD can give)

remember when I had a crush on Destiny? OOOOOOOOF

I’m pretty sure she’s asexual too

You have some pretty shirfty luck

That’s who I was talking about before… oof I don’t say things very clearly