Ok so bad news:
There is this one particularly challenged person who I used to be friends with but not anymore (he used to have a crush on me, which I talked to him about and friendzoned him, and then over this past summer he sent perverted messages to me after I invited him and a few other friends to go swimming at my house. When school started again, I tried to talk to him and say that what he told me was wrong and it made me feel really uncomfortable because I already have some self esteem issues, but he ignored me and he still thinks he didn't do anything wrong.) To add on to that, I'm pretty 100% sure I made it clear that I didn't want him to be around me and I didn't want to be his friend (post me screaming at him to get out of my life before band, Oh YEAH AND HES IN ALL OF MY CLASSES). But, of course, he can't get it through his thick head and he keeps following me around and I catch him staring at me in and between classes. He sits near me at lunch and I can't shake him. I heard from my other good friends that he has asked them why I insist on ignoring him. best part is, I have told all of my friends what happened so they know exactly what he did. I don't know what to do or tell him to keep him away from me. He makes me uncomfortable and I can't stand him.
Let me just say I’m really sorry. I’ve had/ am in a semi-similar experience just a little less extreme. Have you talked to an adult about it? I talked to one of my teachers and she talked to other teachers and they moved me away from him in class.
@Moxie
I have tried, but they just gave me some advice (that mostly didn't work) and basically dismissed it after a few days
I can get through it though, I'll be fine
Oh sorry about that. The teacher I talked to was really feminist and noticed he was being creepy. Is there anyone you could talk to that would be like that?
Buuuuuuuut
I guess I can share the good stuff now!
Just cause you can doesn’t mean you have to if something can be done about it
Oh sorry about that. The teacher I talked to was really feminist and noticed he was being creepy. Is there anyone you could talk to that would be like that?
I do have a really cool english teacher that would probably do. I have her for two periods straight. But I just don't want to cause a scene, yet I want something to happen
Ok so Good News:
I told my Pan friend today that I was Biromantic Asexual and she was super happy and proud and supportive about it!
NOICE! GOOD FOR YOU CHARBAR!!!
Yay congrats! I would pull the teacher aside and talk to her after class or something. And for me the whole thing was done pretty quietly. It was just between me and the teacher, idk if the kid was aware what was happening. So you probably don’t have to worry about that. Especially if you tell the teacher you don’t want it to be a big thing.
so this is my first time seeing my friend that i accidentally outed myself to over break since we got back from break and now im sitting here feeling awkward even though i know we are fine because im bad at social interactions and that was my first time coming out to someone
@thehobbit
I'd say that you are probably fine, especially if they haven't mentioned anything about to you. But I understand the total awkwardness of saying something you didn't mean to/was embarrassing and them going on break and worrying about it then. If you feel like you need to clear things up with them, then go ahead! But if you feel like telling them wouldn't do much, then don't. I'm sure if they are really your friend, they will love you all the same.
yeah, I know we are good and she responded well to the whole thing it just feels weird to not have talked about it face to face yet. I feel like I haven't acknowledged it yet even though I know she knows.
I think it's just new to me that someone that ive met knows im Ace and its kinda freeing but also strange because of how it happened and yeah i just akgbdjkafjlbgurbnaienenbfbahdsjb
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I had to watch a movie where all of the guys were in tights today so I'd like that erased from my brain please.
That's cool. If you need anything, I'm here…
I had to watch a movie where all of the guys were in tights today so I'd like that erased from my brain please.
yikes, that's a mood right there
IT WAS ROMEO AND JULIET! JULIET WAS VERY PRETTY, LIKE A TEENAGED LEIA ORGANA! ROMEO LOOKED LIKE A TEENAGE LUKE SKYWALKER! THEY KISSED! IT WAS AWKWARD!
I just… I want all of you to know how much you mean to me… You're all invaluable to me, each one of you is a priceless little cinnamon roll and a testament to the good in this universe, and that's filthy rich coming from me… Have a great day… All of you…
Aw thanks Shuri!! Love you too!!
Shuri you are the purest of the cinnamon rolls here, with a bit of extra sugar sprinkled on top because you're so sweet and helpful and a truely awesome person. You're a genuine, priceless gem.
I punch too many people to be a cinnamon roll… But thanks Red… Even though you're without a doubt the King/Queen/Ruler of Cinnamon Rolls… The world needs more like you, @RedTheHopeless…
