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@Becfromthedead group

I’ve only had one person ever seriously crush on me that I know of… and we’ve been together for more than two years now. Otherwise, I’ve had a couple of people awkwardly flirt with me, but also they hit on everyone, sooooo
I feel kind of awkward when we talk about it because I didn’t really like him back at first. We were just really good friends and I thought he was a good person, so I just kind of had the attitude of, “what could it hurt?”

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

Yeah… I used to get a lot of date offers… But my standards are absurdly high… So, yeah…

Shuri: too good for you

Thanks KMart. I just only like high-quality human beings…

@Euric_Knight

Norepine you're lucky because I'm the same with everything but the crush part and my brain just get's frazzled and I want to believe I don't but at the same time I do and I'm pretty frick fracklin sure she doesn't like me back and I'm just a mess

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

I'm 16
Never had a proper crush
Never known anyone to have a crush on me
Never dated
Never been asked out
Never asked someone out
Never kissed anyone
…my love life is none existent but I'm chill with it

It's good that you're chill with it… Keep looking… You'll find someone!

@basil_

Yeah… I used to get a lot of date offers… But my standards are absurdly high… So, yeah…

Shuri: too good for you

Thanks KMart. I just only like high-quality human beings…

Then you must like yourself

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

shuri, ya lucky duck

tho honestly I would make an awful SO so it's probably a good thing I'n not dating anyone atm or ever

I dunno… I don't want to sound like a "the cool guy that's too cool for this" character… But I have to tell a lot of people "No." and such… I mean I sugar-coat it, but still…

And I'm sure you would make a great partner! Keep it up!

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

Yeah… I used to get a lot of date offers… But my standards are absurdly high… So, yeah…

Shuri: too good for you

Thanks KMart. I just only like high-quality human beings…

Then you must like yourself

I dunno if I'd go that far… I'm certainly above average but I'm nothing truly special…

@_sleeby_rat_

yeah but shuri you're an amazing person and the best deserves the best

meanwhile I'd be awful bc I would probably lay on my SO all the time bc I'm a sucker for affection

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

yeah but shuri you're an amazing person and the best deserves the best

meanwhile I'd be awful bc I would probably lay on my SO all the time bc I'm a sucker for affection

Being a sucker for attention ain't bad… I was just cuddling earlier… You be you! You're awesome!

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

That’s not bad. You should never date someone you think you won’t do well with. If that means looking picky, so be it.

I know how it is… And I know they understand, so I usually tey not to feel bad about it…

@_sleeby_rat_

yeah, like I've known people to date someone just for their looks even though they didn't like the person and I don't get that? like wouldn't that end up badly?

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

yeah, like I've known people to date someone just for their looks even though they didn't like the person and I don't get that? like wouldn't that end up badly?

It usually does… I've seen it fall apart and it gets really, really toxic… People dating for that reason should just stop…

@Norepinephrinxx

I'm 16
Never had a proper crush
Never known anyone to have a crush on me
Never dated
Never been asked out
Never asked someone out
Never kissed anyone
…my love life is none existent but I'm chill with it

It's good that you're chill with it… Keep looking… You'll find someone!

Thanks, some times im like I wish I could have romance in my life but then other times it's like….theres not even anyone I really want a relationship with XD

@blue_topaz

If you ever meet someone worth being with, that’s the only time romance is worth pursuing.

That's right…

Definitely

Lol just gotta find a person like that that likes me back XD

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

If you ever meet someone worth being with, that’s the only time romance is worth pursuing.

That's right…

Definitely

Lol just gotta find a person like that that likes me back XD

If you need advice, Shuri is here…

@Overdoneyanoveltropeyesplease

I’m going to be 16 in less than a month and I’ve had tons of crushes. But, none of the, have ever worked out. I’ve never liked anyone mutually. It’s always one-sided and on my side. And I usually say something and they then always tell me that they do not feel the same. I think the problem is that I want a serious-ish relationship, and I take it kinda seriously, so I act like it’s a big deal. I think it’s actually better that I wait until I’m older for that reason. Because then, I can hopefully have a wholesome relationship with a mature adult while I am also a mature adult.

@blue_topaz

If you ever meet someone worth being with, that’s the only time romance is worth pursuing.

That's right…

Definitely

Lol just gotta find a person like that that likes me back XD

If you need advice, Shuri is here…

Lol advice is one thing I definitely need