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horrible

aww don’t worry
Can I help?

i'm just on the verge of tears and i just want to go home and I hate myself and..sigh

Awww , take deep breaths, or if you really my need to, go to the bathroom and cry for a min. Dab your face with cold water and no one will be able to tell. Don’t hate yourself, you’r3 Amazing.

@StormX

Okay its good to know that I have someone who I can talk to about my anxiety because I have really bad anxiety and depresson. I'm also scared of coming out because of that reason. I'm worried my family won't accept me.

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Okay its good to know that I have someone who I can talk to about my anxiety because I have really bad anxiety and depresson. I'm also scared of coming out because of that reason. I'm worried my family won't accept me.
I have anxiety too, you can always vent to me.

@actual-fandom-trash

Okay its good to know that I have someone who I can talk to about my anxiety because I have really bad anxiety and depresson. I'm also scared of coming out because of that reason. I'm worried my family won't accept me.

i have a similar situation but if your family doesn't accept you,, well you have an entire commuunity here

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I live in Florida, if you can stand the heat you can stay with me

@RedTheLoveless

Oh well, how are you coping with it and do you have any other things like anxiety or depression

I'm either pansexual or polysexual at this point, and I'm too busy to figure out which at the moment. My advice to coming out, regardless of your sexuality or gender identity, is to approach the softest parent first. For me, my softest parent was my mother. Make sure to approach the parent alone and just inquire about how they view the community in general, and if they question you either 1) come out to the parent right then and there, or 2) cover for yourself saying you heard or saw something on the news related to the community. Then do this again but with the harder parent.

Once you figure out their stances on the community, you can determine if it is safe for you to come out. If they seemed iffy on it, wait a bit but keep up a small pressure of the occasional news bit from the community. If they seemed supportive, take some time to sit them down and tell them. If they seemed against it, be wary, and if you feel unsafe talking about the matter again, I suggest you stay in the closet to them, no matter how much it hurts.

I also have an anxiety disorder and depression so if you need tips or coping mechanisms just ask away.

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If my parents don't accept me can one of you come kidnap me and take me and my depression with you

Leaving the depression @ home but sure

@basil_

If my parents don't accept me can one of you come kidnap me and take me and my depression with you

Leaving the depression @ home but sure

oof but it likes mee
i'll bring moist star with me
and Shakespeare

Deleted user

If my parents don't accept me can one of you come kidnap me and take me and my depression with you

Leaving the depression @ home but sure

oof but it likes mee
i'll bring moist star with me
and Shakespeare

yaaaAaaaaaaAAAASAA

@StormX

Thank you that is pretty helpful and I will definetly think about it before I come out to my parents. And do you have any advice about depresson because right now I am in a really bad place.

@-Love, Blue

If my parents don't accept me can one of you come kidnap me and take me and my depression with you

Leaving the depression @ home but sure

oof but it likes mee
i'll bring moist star with me
and Shakespeare

you can come with me

@basil_

If my parents don't accept me can one of you come kidnap me and take me and my depression with you

Leaving the depression @ home but sure

oof but it likes mee
i'll bring moist star with me
and Shakespeare

you can come with me

oh yeah xD
maybe i'll wait until I can drive to come out so I can drive to your house

@basil_

If my parents don't accept me can one of you come kidnap me and take me and my depression with you

Leaving the depression @ home but sure

oof but it likes mee
i'll bring moist star with me
and Shakespeare

yaaaAaaaaaaAAAASAA

MOIST STAR IS BAE

@RedTheLoveless

Thank you that is pretty helpful and I will definetly think about it before I come out to my parents. And do you have any advice about depresson because right now I am in a really bad place.

Some days will be the same, some will be worse and some will be better. Some days go by in shades of monotone life and other days are darker. There will be the occasional light though, and you need to hold onto those lights as tight as you can. Some days you won't be able to get out of your bed by yourself and you'll find yourself staring blankly at the ceiling. Other days you'll want to hide yourself away and cry until you disappear. And then, there will be the days when you can genuinely smile without feeling empty and fake. Hang onto those moments. Because with everything going on, you're going to need some hope to hold close in times of crisis. And no matter what happens, no matter how horrible it gets, never give up those small bits of hope. Never give that up. Period. You may want to cry, and that's okay. Sadness and crying are okay. But even when you're down like that, please try not to give up.

Find little things, like the sun beaming on your face in the early morning or how cool your breath looks when it clouds in the cold. Find something else to take care of, like a houseplant or a pet. If you can't find a reason to keep going, think of your responsibility to take care of them. If you have a friend/friends you're really close to, then call them or text them or set up a time to hang out and just talk and be honest. Don't close yourself off from help if you ever need it.

@thehobbit

hey, so ummmmmm, going back to the topic of crushes…….. I have a question. As an aro ace person trying to write a story with a romantic character……. HOW DO I WRITE THE ROMANCE??????
I have no romance experience and have never had a crush….
what does having a crush feel like??
what does hollywood overdramatize and what of it is actually real?????
since you guys were excited to discuss your crushes would you be willing to explain to this little aro what having a crush feels like??

@Alexandria-don’t-touch-my-COOKIES!!

hey, so ummmmmm, going back to the topic of crushes…….. I have a question. As an aro ace person trying to write a story with a romantic character……. HOW DO I WRITE THE ROMANCE??????
I have no romance experience and have never had a crush….
what does having a crush feel like??
what does hollywood overdramatize and what of it is actually real?????
since you guys were excited to discuss your crushes would you be willing to explain to this little aro what having a crush feels like??

dude im on the same page as you and its for Gay character so i know a little bit but i can do straight characters insert sad laughing

@PuffPoff

Uhhhhhh Hollywood does kind of exaggerate a bit.
For me, having a crush feels like…floating in the air.
Like if I see my crush, I get butterflies in my stomach and my heart starts beating faster. My face usually gets warm and it feels like I'm walking on clouds in the sky.
It's kind of hard to describe…hope this helped a bit.