Idk why people get all offended about asexuality either. Why can't you deal with people…not wanting to have sex ? shocked gasps, someone throws a bottle at my head, distant screams can be heard
I mean, I don't get it? Why are babies so important? Why is sex? Why are humans so based on weird intimacy rituals that don't mean a whole lot? Like, sex is important to some people, but it's not what makes me human.
I mean on the one hand, I want to be an independent woman and do what I want and not be tied down by anyone, and on the other I want a nice SO and shopping trips and movies and cuddles and hand holding. As for me, what I always think of with the whole "Love=Sex" mentality people seem to have is that my personal belief is that love is baring your soul and heart to another person, not your body.
Not to mention the assholes who think they can change you. Like no you can't, but you can mentally and emotionally scar me.
Yeah…. that's happened twice now…
Oof. Sorry bb.
Honestly I'm ashamed of being human sometimes when I look at some of my fellow human beings….
Yeah. I'm still kind of wary of befriending guys because every time I do they get really persistent about having a relationship and I either have to cut them out of my life because they get really creepy or they stop talking to me and I'm just kind of left all alone.
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That's so wild to me. Do… do people actually get flirted with/hit on in real life? I've been catcalled by strangers, but no one at school ever really pursued me. Thank god, but like… why some people but not others? I've had a few male friends, but none of them have ever tried that mess with me. (Side note, not important: I've always kind of wondered if it's because my facial features and some other aspects of my appearance are less "feminine." I had quite a few people mistake me for a boy when I had slightly shorter hair, and it was mildly frustrating and something I was insecure about for a long time.)
Ive never been hit on, catcalled, asked out, ive never kissed or dated anyone nor have I had an actual crush on anyone and ive never known anyone to have a crush on me haha my romantic life is nonexistent
^^^Same my dude
I'm really not sure. Like, I guess I'm objectively pretty (Curly blonde hair, round face, sweet smile, boobs) which helps but my school is also FULL of people trying to start relationships for whatever reason, which is another big factor.
I've never been asked out or kissed or anything. To be fair I'm still a Freshie.
I'm kinda pretty?? I'm short-ish, heavier, oval face, medium brown hair and eyes. Usually have a resting smirk.
Yeah, still never been kissed. Idk. Like, I don't get asked out too much, but it happens at least twice a year. Idk guys. Kind of super annoying. Especially when people won't leave you the fuck alone.
Ah, true. I'm not sure how old you are, but high school/college kids seem to be really desperate to get into dating people.
Personally, I wasn't asked out until late 16 and didn't have my first kiss until 17, so if you're interested in romance at all, you might not have a relationship until later high school. Or college, even. Or perhaps after that. But it's perfectly cool to not rush it. Romance isn't the most important thing in life, that's for sure. We definitely don't need it to survive.
I wasn't very popular to say the least mist of elementary school and I'm not the most attractive of people haha
Yeah I'm 16 turning 17 this year
One of my friends from Youth Group put it very well. She said a friend of hers was asked out by a guy she didn't like, and accepted anyway to get the 'nice' things in a relationship, like presents and such. My friend was confused and she was like "you're basically using him?? and manipulating him into giving you things even though you don't like him??" and the girl was like "but it's fun". THERE IS NOTHING 'FUN' ABOUT TAKING ADVANTAGE OF A PERSON WHO YOU DON'T LIKE BUT WHO LIKES YOU. NOTHING. It's immoral and rude, not to mention demolishing to self-esteem.
Yeah I'm 16 turning 17 this year
I AM SIXTEEN GOING ON SEVENTEEN I KNOW THAT I'M NAIVE
FELLOWS I MEET MAY TELL ME I'M SWEET AND WILLINGLY I'LL BELIEVE
I NEED SOMEONE
OLDER AND WISER
TELLING ME WHAT TO DOOOOO-OOOOO
YOU ARE SEVENTEEN
GOING ON EIGHTEEN
I'LL
DEPEND
ON YOU!!!!
(sorry I'm doing that song for voice right now)
My main problem is I feel really uncomfortable when I get asked out (Skin crawly, out of body, bile rising in throat uncomfortable) but I also feel bad about turning people down. I do it, but I feel bad and sometimes they try to push it and I have to shut them down and it sucks all around.
But if you're not interested, they should understand and respect that. By accepting the offer of someone you don't want to be with, you cause both of you undue drama in the future because the relationship wouldn't last. Trust me. It's better to just turn them down, and you shouldn't feel bad because of it.
Yeah I'm 16 turning 17 this year
I AM SIXTEEN GOING ON SEVENTEEN I KNOW THAT I'M NAIVE
FELLOWS I MEET MAY TELL ME I'M SWEET AND WILLINGLY I'LL BELIEVE
I NEED SOMEONE
OLDER AND WISER
TELLING ME WHAT TO DOOOOO-OOOOO
YOU ARE SEVENTEEN
GOING ON EIGHTEEN
I'LL
DEPEND
ON YOU!!!!
(sorry I'm doing that song for voice right now)
Oh my gosh that was beautiful XD
Listen, when I was like 3 or 4 years old, I would watch Sound of Music all of the time, and I knew most of the songs word for word. Sound of Music is welcome here. Lol
For voice I'm currently doing:
Caro Mio Ben
I Won't Say I'm In Love
Perla(???) Gloria
Sixteen Going On Seventeen
Feed The Birds (this one makes me almost cry)
Maybe
And I really want to do She Loves Me from the musical She Loves Me as my audition song I want to keep the pronouns used and basically sing it to my drama crush.
Oh we did Caro Mio Ben one time for some sort of chorus audition. It's so pretty. I learned the piano accompaniment too because I found it in one of my mom's old books.
It's really fun! I love the Italian words in it!!
Yessss. I also really love the arias Sebben Crudele and Come Raggio di Sol, if you're familiar with those two. I got on an Italian opera kick for a brief time and learned those and their accompaniments (disclaimer: I'm much better at piano than I am at singing.)
Im too awkward for drama haha
And singings out for me, I couldn't carry a tune in a bucket
Okay my current fave song is a tie between "A Rumor In St. Petersburg" from Anastasia and both "Ilona" and "Three Letters" from She Loves Me.
I personally really like musicals, particularly Phantom, Hamilton, Wicked, and Les Mis so my top songs right now are:
I mean on the one hand, I want to be an independent woman and do what I want and not be tied down by anyone, and on the other I want a nice SO and shopping trips and movies and cuddles and hand holding. As for me, what I always think of with the whole "Love=Sex" mentality people seem to have is that my personal belief is that love is baring your soul and heart to another person, not your body.
If you find the right SO you can have both. They should be your partner and someone you enjoy being around, you shouldn't feel like its a chore or they're tying you down.
ALso I love musicals omg
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