forum Anyone want a British friend? https://www.notebook.ai/forum/general-chat/did-you-know-lostboy2

Started July 06, 2018 by Deleted user

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I'm very worried now
Is chuck alright???

I don't know
I think this is…..
43 hours of silence now about

dont worry so much
thats less than two days
people have taken off for longer

So I have a question for all of you… Do we

• Pretend like he's okay and wait for him to come back even if he never does

• Or assume he's not okay until he comes back

??

………I'm
doing
both

Sorry, I'm on and off
but I'm good
also
um what if he's going somewhere without internet and he couldn't tell us?

I'm very worried now
Is chuck alright???

I don't know
I think this is…..
43 hours of silence now about

dont worry so much
thats less than two days
people have taken off for longer

but
it's chuck
and like
he wasn't in a good mental place
and the last thing he really said to anyone
was that song to darren
and like
ahhhhhh

Sorry, I'm on and off
but I'm good
also
um what if he's going somewhere without internet and he couldn't tell us?

you're so logical thank goodness you're here

guys
start worrying at 5 days
thats what im gonna do
untill then
everythings ok

So I have a question for all of you… Do we

• Pretend like he's okay and wait for him to come back even if he never does

• Or assume he's not okay until he comes back

??

…What would he want us to do?
In the meantime I have been and am currently doing both

untill then
everythings ok

……
sounds fake
………..
but okay

continues to worry

Ignore his absence for five days?

also bless not depressed katherine who made the youtube playlist (short tho it may be) called "happy favorites"

Sorry, I'm on and off
but I'm good
also
um what if he's going somewhere without internet and he couldn't tell us?

A possibility, but…

Yeah both
I've been doing both as well

Ignore his absence for five days?

yeah see
darren gets it
I'm still dm-ing him lol

Maybe someone
could like act like Chuck for the day or something?

So I have a question for all of you… Do we

• Pretend like he's okay and wait for him to come back even if he never does

• Or assume he's not okay until he comes back

??

…What would he want us to do?
In the meantime I have been and am currently doing both

He would want us to not worry about him, he never wanted to hurt anyone and he hated two things, pity and goodbyes. We are giving him both right now so maybe we should leave it. After a few days if he hasn't come back we should pick this conversation back up.

Ignore his absence for five days?

yeah see
darren gets it
I'm still dm-ing him lol

I don't know if I can go for five days of not knowing if a friend is alive.

Ignore his absence for five days?

yeah see
darren gets it
I'm still dm-ing him lol

I don't know if I can go for five days of not knowing if a friend is alive.

I can't either.

Maybe someone
could like act like Chuck for the day or something?

I.. no.
You can't replace him.

Ignore his absence for five days?

yeah
he could be on vacation
five days of vacation
after 5 days start to worry
after 8 days really worry
after 15 days start thinking about him not coming back
after a month realize that he may never come back
after 2 months he's not coming back

He would want us to not worry about him, he never wanted to hurt anyone and he hated two things, pity and goodbyes. We are giving him both right now so maybe we should leave it. After a few days if he hasn't come back we should pick this conversation back up.

I don't feel like we're pitying him? and I refuse to say goodbye when he might still come back. Even if he never does.
Goodbye means going away. And going away means forgetting

Maybe someone
could like act like Chuck for the day or something?

Before he started being quiet for long stretches
he said "darren is the new chuck"
we're worried

We could never forget him Kat.

Maybe someone
could like act like Chuck for the day or something?

no…
that just sounds wrong…
it would be fake

Ignore his absence for five days?

yeah
he could be on vacation
five days of vacation
after 5 days start to worry
after 8 days really worry
after 15 days start thinking about him not coming back
after a month realize that he may never come back
after 2 months he's not coming back

no

Maybe someone
could like act like Chuck for the day or something?

Before he started being quiet for long stretches
he said "darren is the new chuck"
we're worried

Yeah that happened and I have started doing things that he used to do without even realizing it until now.

Maybe someone
could like act like Chuck for the day or something?

no…
that just sounds wrong…
it would be fake

I'm sorry I didn't mean it

OH NO!

Ignore his absence for five days?

yeah
he could be on vacation
five days of vacation
after 5 days start to worry
after 8 days really worry
after 15 days start thinking about him not coming back
after a month realize that he may never come back
after 2 months he's not coming back

………………………………………………………Topaz…………………………….

OH NO!

????

No one can replace him but he thought I could so the best I can do is be there for everyone like he was, right? Not replacing him just helping.