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@kat_i_am

Chuck I SWEAR if you actually had to leave but you left us with

FINE KAT. I love you guys it's been real! Bye. If I'm not back by this time tomorrow… carry on, carry on as if nothing really matters

I just might spend 1200$ to fly to britain and smack you.
Because this is like
no.
just
don't leave us with that lyric

@kat_i_am

Okay. Everyone. Sometimes people say things they don't mean. Or they make a bad joke and they did not mean for it to be so dark. And then they take it back (and thanks to the beauty of the delete button they can do that sometimes for real). This person (hi that's me): I apologizes. That was v dark and like…. even tho chuck said he laughed. I feel bad. I kinda wish y'all hadn't brought it back, but…. I guess what's done is done, right?
So like
can I propose a ground rule?
If someone says a thing
but then deletes it because they didn't want people to see it? Can we maybe just…. respect that person's wishes lol?

oh
sorry about that
sorry
yeah
sorry
a lot
SORRRRYYYYYY

thank you

@kat_i_am

Okay now that I've been reasonable, I also gotta be a lil emotional…. bc like
I'm lowkey mad lol?
I obviously didn't want it repeated. I deleted it like…
asap.
And I kept being like…. NO NO FORGET IT and y'all kept pressing and that was kinda rude lol
okay. I think I'm done.

@Pandapocalypse

Hey Skittles
I have a question for you
its kind of weird

Go for it

So
I have a pack of skittles
And I'm really hungry
except
I think one of them is your brother
Can I eat him

Deleted user

Hey Skittles
I have a question for you
its kind of weird

Go for it

So
I have a pack of skittles
And I'm really hungry
except
I think one of them is your brother
Can I eat him


Yeah you can.

@Pandapocalypse

Hey Skittles
I have a question for you
its kind of weird

Go for it

So
I have a pack of skittles
And I'm really hungry
except
I think one of them is your brother
Can I eat him


Yeah you can.

Yay!
He screamed until his dying breath…

Deleted user

Hey Skittles
I have a question for you
its kind of weird

Go for it

So
I have a pack of skittles
And I'm really hungry
except
I think one of them is your brother
Can I eat him


Yeah you can.

Yay!
He screamed until his dying breath…

I shall now proceed to mourn…

@Pandapocalypse

Hey Skittles
I have a question for you
its kind of weird

Go for it

So
I have a pack of skittles
And I'm really hungry
except
I think one of them is your brother
Can I eat him


Yeah you can.

Yay!
He screamed until his dying breath…

I shall now proceed to mourn…

He tasted really good

@kat_i_am

You always do thats not right

…. it's not right that I forgive you? or that I forgive people in general?

@Pandapocalypse

okay so totally random but I'm watching Glee and literally
Brody is like "I'm hands off. Just friends." THEN HE KISSES HER
??????????????????????????????????????????????????????

@Crisis

Okay. Everyone. Sometimes people say things they don't mean. Or they make a bad joke and they did not mean for it to be so dark. And then they take it back (and thanks to the beauty of the delete button they can do that sometimes for real). This person (hi that's me): I apologizes. That was v dark and like…. even tho chuck said he laughed. I feel bad. I kinda wish y'all hadn't brought it back, but…. I guess what's done is done, right?
So like
can I propose a ground rule?
If someone says a thing
but then deletes it because they didn't want people to see it? Can we maybe just…. respect that person's wishes lol?

Alright

Deleted user

okay so totally random but I'm watching Glee and literally
Brody is like "I'm hands off. Just friends." THEN HE KISSES HER
??????????????????????????????????????????????????????

IKR

@kat_i_am

Nvm

Hey. Chuck. Honey.
I love you. A lot. I'm serious. You are my friend. I will always forgive you.
And I will always forgive everyone. Forgiveness is the first step to healing (whether it's something big or just a misfired joke lol). I can't heal without it. You/they can't heal without it. Forgiveness is so important. I've found in my life that it's so much easier to be forgiving and to be forgiven than to be hurt and angry. I personally believe that everyone deserves forgiveness. Always.
And Chuck? I will forgive you over and over and over until you learn that you are worthy of forgiveness. No matter what you do. Whether it's a mistake or on purpose. Whether you're in your right mind or not. Why? Because I love you and I want you to as happy and peaceful as possible. So I will keep forgiving.

@Pandapocalypse

okay so totally random but I'm watching Glee and literally
Brody is like "I'm hands off. Just friends." THEN HE KISSES HER
??????????????????????????????????????????????????????

IKR

Like, I'd be okay if Rachel kissed him
Whatever
I mean its still cheating
But whatever
But no
HE KISSED HER

Deleted user

…I aspire to someday be able to do that, Kat
But right now I can't…

@kat_i_am

…I aspire to someday be able to do that, Kat
But right now I can't…

That's okay. It's a learning curve lol.
It took my best friend telling me I was literally the worst person on earth and ditching me for 6 months (and then coming back for a month and then we "broke up" again lol) to be able to learn that message.
And no, you may not have more information on my double break up with my best friend. Not today.

@Crisis

Kat I sort of wish I could forgive ppl
But then I feel like my anger is what makes me powerful
My anger is what I've known all my life and it keeps me going
I'm only good or strong or noticed when I'm angry
Anger makes me bold
And my boldness is all I'm worth
Forgiveness is not something I'm capable of

@kat_i_am

Kat I sort of wish I could forgive ppl
But then I feel like my anger is what makes me powerful
My anger is what I've known all my life and it keeps me going
I'm only good or strong or noticed when I'm angry
Anger makes me bold
And my boldness is all I'm worth
Forgiveness is not something I'm capable of

Everyone is capable of forgiveness. You just have to learn how to forgive. And oh my gosh it's hard. It's hard. Trust me, I know. I know.
Anger can be a thing that makes you strong. It has definitely made me strong in the past. But I've also found it's not sustainable, and it is exhausting to be angry all the time. Yes, anger does make you bold, I have seen that in the short time I've known you. And anger can be useful like that.
But Sol, you are worth so much more than just your boldness. You are kind and sweet and you care about other people so much. I've been in a depressive episode for like a week and a half or so, and since I told you, you've been gentle but firm, reminding me to eat and drink water. And sleep, can't forget that : )
The point is, Sol. You can forgive people. It takes time to learn, and at first, it will be the HARDEST thing you ever do. And you may not forgive someone all at once. It can take time. Sometimes it takes me days. Weeks. Months. A year. And though anger can be fuel, it's a fossil fuel. You will run out. And it will leave you with nothing left. May I suggest love as an alternative? Love people. Try to understand them. If love comes first, then when they do something dumb or offensive, then you will be able to forgive them (no matter how much time it takes), because you love them.