forum Anyone want a British friend? https://www.notebook.ai/forum/general-chat/did-you-know-lostboy2
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@kat_i_am

welcome to the chat!
we have the British Bois, boyfriends Chuck and Collin (ship name Coluck) and then Kim (who uses he/him but as I understand it is still figuring everything out)
but uhhh
they've been a little less active recently
they adopted kittens
and now they are fathers
and they are busy

Deleted user

Well oh fucking shit, now everyone thinks I'm sexist because I dislike most of the more popular male bands and prefer other bands, most of them lead by feminist/christian women. How is that a problem? I just like a lot of female bands, and I'm not really big on the more popular bands that are all-male. I also prefer really outdated music lmao like ABBA or literally any classical song.

@kat_i_am

I don't think that makes you sexist? Like, I get not liking the popular bands, and that's not a problem (literally 95% of the music I listen to is broadway/off-bw/Disney soundtracks….). I think the issue (well, first of all, it's a non-issue, nbd) is that the phrasing makes it sound as if you think female bands are automatically superior to male bands, which isn't the case (and I can tell that you know that that isn't the case). Like… you said you don't like popular bands who are all-male, but do you like popular bands that are all female? I think, if you're looking to solve this, you maybe just apologize for your phrasing? And say like… "I'm not trying to say any of you are wrong for liking boy bands, they're just not my thing" and leave it at that. If anyone continues to have issues, it's their problem, not yours, and you don't even need to respond.
So… yeah
sorry that happened to you
also: I hadn't read the thread yet when I posted this so this is unbiased

Deleted user

also everyone my top bar is now black why is it black
what happened to my Blue Aesthetic?

Same with me too. It's probably an update, IDK?

@kat_i_am

oof I don't like the black
it's too dark
we can't change just one bar
we gotta change the whole theme
like maybe make all the white grey instead
then it wouldn't be such a crazy contrast

@kat_i_am

it's just
the solid black bar at the top of my screen
it's heavy
and not aesthetically pleasing
andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer) pls fix it

@Angel with a music box

Ah, yes, let us appeal to the ruler by the name of andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer). OH GREAT AND MERCIFUL andrew (Our Supreme Lord and Overseer), PLEASE FIX OUR AESTHETIC

@kat_i_am

oof
one time
I was beneath the stage in my school's performing arts center
and we were actually removing the stage extensions
and I essentially said that same thing (but I've never watched Dan/Phil/either/whatever it is now)
and my band director just looked at me like… Katherine. Honey. Then someone (it may have been him) said "your soul is sunshine and rainbows. be quiet"

@Angel with a music box

Aww, that's funny/sweet. :) My family likes to joke about how dark my soul is because I wear a lot of black.
Sorry fam, you just can't handle how fabulous this color looks on me. Dips my clothes in the abyss

@kat_i_am

I wear a fair amount of black lol
I'm actually trying to move away from some of my graphic tees and into more minimalistic patterns
my wardrobe in terms of tshirts is like….. 3 black… 1 dark blue floral…. 2 college tshirts
then a Cap Am shirt and a Supergirl shirt I think I'm gonna donate
I'm gonna make a capsule wardrobe, slowly but surely and it'll be awesome

@kat_i_am

and then I have like 5 long sleeve shirts/sweaters in storage rn- I'll take them to college bc the state I'm going to has actual FALL and WINTER and I'm so excited
but when I grow out of them or when they wear out they too will be replaced with minimalist colors/styles

@kat_i_am

The black kinda clashes with all the other colors…

on the site?
yeah def
in my wardrobe?
no not really

@Angel with a music box

I have lots of fandom shirts, and then black. We went shopping the other day, and my mom was like "Try on this dress!" And I was like "I want to bury myself in oversize hoodies and fandom merch."

@Angel with a music box

The black kinda clashes with all the other colors…

on the site?
yeah def
in my wardrobe?
no not really

Black and blue CAN look good together, but soul-sucking black, and sky blue? Not a good mix.