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Started November 14, 2019 by Deleted user

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Please don't say you included the threat about holding a small child hostage?
Assuming that's not the case… then wow… I finally met someone who's mom is as unreasonable as mine. Offer's hugs

I didn't. I just said, "hey, we have a buzzer here, you wouldn't even have to pay if I, you know… Shaved my head?" And she lost it.

Oof…

shrug I'll do it myself while she's at church. I don't care.

I don’t think that’s what you should do……….

Don't get yourself hurt!

She wouldn't physically hurt me.
Just emotionally fuck me up a little.
I can handle it, trust me.

i really don't think that's a good idea-

I don’t think that’s what you should do……….

^^^^

why isn't it?

She wouldn't physically hurt me.
Just emotionally fuck me up a little.
I can handle it, trust me.

Listen, Mir. I mean this in the nicest, friendliest way possible. That's stupid.

Why do something that you know will cause you to get mentally abused? You've mentioned having multiple mental breakdowns and suicidal episodes, so why the fuck would you put yourself through that kind of emotional damage?

She wouldn't physically hurt me.
Just emotionally fuck me up a little.
I can handle it, trust me.

Listen, Mir. I mean this in the nicest, friendliest way possible. That's stupid.

Why do something that you know will cause you to get mentally abused? You've mentioned having multiple mental breakdowns and suicidal episodes, so why the fuck would you put yourself through that kind of emotional damage?

Because I don't fucking care anymore.

You're saying that you no longer care about your mental wellbeing?

why isn't it?

You literally just said it.

Just emotionally fuck me up a little.

More than she already has? Nie is right. Besides, doing something like that won't make you happy enough for it to be "worth" it, and to be rather blunt, being suicidal is not "handling it". Sorry if you think that's rude, but.

Can I just make a statement?

I am scared of men.

I am scared of men and young boys that I don't know when walking near them. Nothing overly bad has ever happened to me. The worst things is being looked at on the train or that one time several years ago when I was catcalled by two boys who I had just watched fall in a lake who probably didn't even know they were doing something wrong or something that would make me scared for years afterwards.

Can I just make a statement?

I am scared of men.

I am scared of men and young boys that I don't know when walking near them. Nothing overly bad has ever happened to me. The worst things is being looked at on the train or that one time several years ago when I was catcalled by two boys who I had just watched fall in a lake who probably didn't even know they were doing something wrong or something that would make me scared for years afterwards.

I feel this. For very different reasons, but still.

I also feel that, for slightly different reasons

I also feel that, for slightly different reasons too. Wow. _{we live in a society}

Feels like the only one who doesn't feel that

probably cause you're a dude, no offense

oh gawd it’s like we all have the same ideals

_{so I’m about to sound super childish, but because of this, you guys are also extremely petrified of rape, right?}

… I'll just say that no offense was taken and move on with my life.

Uh… I'm not sure if I have a vent or not at this point in time. I think it's just a bit of a bad mood so I guess I'll just chill out a bit until it passes.

_{so I’m about to sound super childish, but because of this, you guys are also extremely petrified of rape, right?}

_{i am}

_{so I’m about to sound super childish, but because of this, you guys are also extremely petrified of rape, right?}

_{i am}

_{ok but like, i’ve only met one other person who is afraid of it like I am. like, that’s absolutely nuts}

_{it’s so scary to me and i just———-}

so I’m about to sound super childish, but because of this, you guys are also extremely petrified of rape, right?

I'm petrified of rape. It's a very_traumatizingscary thing to think about.

I wouldn't go as far as saying petrified in my case, but yeah.

Yeah obviously, but not *petrified. I'm more scared of being kidnapped, tortured, murdered, stuff like that. But I think it's because we're all women. I'm like, 90% sure that a significant part of us being scared of men is because we're females

I mean I’m pretty like, terrified to the point where I’m thinking about it too much.

it’s a problem without a reason

I'm not afraid of men.
Have there been times when a specific man has made me scared?
Yes.
But I have no problem with men.

I mean I’m pretty like, terrified to the point where I’m thinking about it too much.

it’s a problem without a reason

Your reason (I'm guessing) is rape culture, and probably some other stuff that I don't know about or can't think of