Aight so mind if I rant for a little?
if not just ignore this.

So a couple months ago. Like around i'd say October last year me and this guy i know started dating. But ya see he lives in a different state and his parents don't like me. We went behind their backs and went all Romeo and Juliet and now we can't text. I'm worried and kinda scared that I got him in trouble…. Help.

~Welcome to another episode of Feelings Are Confusing~

Me: I'm comfortable in my identity as homoaesthetic aroace and I feel that label fit me
My brain: Hey remember that one time you thought you had a crush on a boy but there were no romantic feelings?
Me:
My brain: And this was long before you realized you were aroace but you were still super confused?
Me: …
Me: WHAT IS THIS SUPPOSED TO MEAN

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Also @Loki_Hyakuya I don't exactly know how to help…is there any other way you can talk to him without your parents/his parents knowing? Like I'll sometimes message my friends on Pinterest if it's something I don't want my parents to see

Welcome to the world of squishes and/or thinking you're supposed to have crushes so your brain pretends and you have to pretend you like holding their hand
Aka me freshman year before I even knew what aroace was

Twitter has just informed me that it is Ace Visibility Day (I didn't know that existed until today). So happy Ace Visibility Day to you all, I guess? I'm not quite sure if that's what I'm supposed to say…

edit: I'm reading through these tweets and I swear they're getting more and more wholesome as I scroll through them

Ay! @NotAnEffingSidekick @Emi- @Pickles-EmpressOfKangarooRatsAndAceSnail Team ace-spectrum <3

<3 <3 <3
Cool, I didn't even know that was today!!! Happy day of visibility to all my fellow aces, demis, and grays!!

… and @GalaxyUnicorn

Also @Owen since she's demi.

Oop I thought it was months away

To any fellow demisexuals, we're awesome. Pretty cooool people, us demisexual lads, ladies and nonbinary daisies.

I thought that was in October lmao

lads, ladies and nonbinary daisies.

This is beautiful.

aWw I didn't know that was today! Happy Acespec Visibility day :D

this is blatant ella erasure

Aces rise up!

Dang, if I had the time I'd compile a bunch of ace-spec pride memes

ya yeet, aspec tribeee

ya yeet, aspec tribeee

ya yeet

What the fuck, I missed ace visibility day and didn't even realize it?? Wack.

Kind of ironic that today I was in a very ace-pride mood all day. Wore my "Ace and Awesome" shirt, my ace plaid, and made a makeshift black ring out of hockey skate laces. Almost painted my nails ace colors too but got distracted lmao

If this conversation wasn't in this chat, I would've gotten so much whiplash from reading through

Anyways, happy Ace Visibility Day! I know I'm somewhere along the spectrum of asexual, but I know that as soon as I try to narrow it down to a solid label, my mind will overcomplicate things. So uh anyways

ya yeet

Whatever works for you, my dude

ya yeet indeed

Oh nice! Ace visibility day!
I actually figured out I was demisexual while reading through ace visibility week posts a few years ago, so that's cool.

are we just saying ya yeet

Also I missed it because I was sleeping when that was posted :(

ya yeet

ya yeet

:DDDDDDDDDDD

It looks like ya ye t but whatever