guys i've figured myself out
i'm definitely attracted to girls, and i think the name that fits me the most is lesbian (which is what i usually tell people, even though i don't like labels)
but i'm also at the same time like, aesthetically attracted to guys?? like the idea of anything sexual with a guy just absolutely grosses me out and i'm honestly not sure if i could imagine a romantic relationship with one,,,
but i still definitely think they're attractive/aesthetically appealing
does that make sense? is that valid? idk
(and btw, to the two posts above me, that's great to hear that you've figured it out :))) )
That makes sense and it completely valid! Like I said I'm not romantically/sexually attracted to anyone but I'm aesthetically attracted to girls
And–this goes for everyone in this chat–if anyone tries to tell you you're not valid, I will kick their head
That's not a Rickroll I promise, but it's a link to what the reference is from (that specific scene)
I think I'm somewhere along the lines of panromantic asexual
And–this goes for everyone in this chat–if anyone tries to tell you you're not valid, I will kick their head
That's not a Rickroll I promise, but it's a link to what the reference is from (that specific scene)
ok but that's great
and ty for the support lol :))
I mean, I'm biromantic, and I'm not attracted to nonbinary people. But they are often very beautiful people and I'm aesthetically attracted to them.
You know?
Shrug
Being demisexual/romantic, I'm kinda salty I can't just know immediately which genders I like. So far, I've been attracted to a male. Aesthetically, I like all genders, but as for the other attractions (besides for males), it'd take forever to figure it out.
saklvndslv So many people figuring themselves out and!! I am!!! Here for it!!!
Also I've been having SERIOUS thoughts about my crush(not sexual lmao, I'm ace) and I just
AAAAHH
I've been wanting to ask them out for a while and I think I'm finally getting brave enough to do it but I also don't want to ask them out while we're doing online school because they want to focus on that but also I have no idea if this is gonna last?? Like I might be feeling super brave now but give it two weeks and I'll be crying in the corner at the thought of asking them out but also I don't want to distract them from that?? slavksvnav
Ah, I feel. Not really the online school factor of it, but the feelings.
A guy I liked before I started figuring myself out just moved back home (He moved away for a year) And we've been texting each other for a very long time and it's a little awkward because he was the first guy I ever sort of liked. And I was nervous how he was going to take me being bi-romantic and when I told him, he actually laughed and said that he was going to tell me that he was Bisexual and I laughed and now he won't stop sending me memes because he "Finally has someone to share them with that will actually understand them" and he changed my name in his phone to bi buddy and for the first time in a while, he is the first person who has made me genuinely smile in a very long time. (He has a boyfriend though. We are just friends)
I mean, I ended up breaking up with my girlfriends because I didn't know if what I was feeling was love. Thinking back on it, I should've told them that was the reason…
Damn it.
Reed
I love you
Love you too bitch
Mir is the one true love of my life
Reed
I love you
Love you too bitch
Mir is the one true love of my life
That's right motherfuckers
A guy I liked before I started figuring myself out just moved back home (He moved away for a year) And we've been texting each other for a very long time and it's a little awkward because he was the first guy I ever sort of liked. And I was nervous how he was going to take me being bi-romantic and when I told him, he actually laughed and said that he was going to tell me that he was Bisexual and I laughed and now he won't stop sending me memes because he "Finally has someone to share them with that will actually understand them" and he changed my name in his phone to bi buddy and for the first time in a while, he is the first person who has made me genuinely smile in a very long time. (He has a boyfriend though. We are just friends)
This is wholesome. I have a male bi friend who was really nervous to come out to me, like he was getting really quiet and kept studying my reaction to make sure he wasn't making a mistake. He finally got it all out, and I was like "sweet, I'm queer too" and he had the biggest relief. Now we send solidarity memes back and forth hah.
Reed
I love you
Love you too bitch
Mir is the one true love of my life
That's right motherfuckers
Honestly, if I don't meet you irl at some point I will revolt.
Doesn't even need to be soon, I just wanna meet you at some point
Reed
I love you
Love you too bitch
Mir is the one true love of my life
That's right motherfuckers
Honestly, if I don't meet you irl at some point I will revolt.
Doesn't even need to be soon, I just wanna meet you at some point
facts
I will tackle hug you
Bitch same
Also, I'm unfollowing most of the chats in general, this one probably included.
So if you need me, or just wanna chat, hop into my pms. I don't bite… hard.
Hah, cannibal jokes
literally just made eye contact with a hot girl and the first thing that came into my mind was "tie me to a tree and hit me with a tractor"
Kinky
I– I knew it was coming
I was just hoping I'd have a better response lmao
Kinky
I'll take your advice, try and be more…nice, I'll turn it around, wait and see~
Y'all this happened like half an hour ago at LEAST and I am STILL PISSED
So my family was watching this show(Mysteries of the Abandoned, it's actually pretty sick y'all should check it out) and there's this woman(I'm pretty sure) on it that's one of the historians that talks about the places. She looks a little masculine and her voice is also pretty masculine-sounding, but it's not a huge deal. The point of the show is cool historical places that have been abandoned for different interesting and usually dark reasons, not to be a douche about someone's fucking gender.
Unfortunately, that's exactly what my youngest brother decides to do.
He'd made some remark at dinner and I shut him down, but later I was in my bedroom writing and he busts in completely unprompted and goes "Lololol I think I found the reason for the 'other' box on gender forms. You know that crossbreed between genders on tv–" and I cut him off with a furious "IT COSTS ZERO DOLLARS AND ZERO CENTS TO BE A DECENT FUCKING PERSON YOU DICK" and he has the audacity to respond with "It costs my dignity"
Needless to say if he comes into my room again I'm going to turn his face into a fucking pancake. If any of y'all come across someone like that do what I could not and break their fucking noses please.
