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@StarryWolfy flash_on

I'm sorry Spork.. but I have to agree with literally everyone else here. Yes it may have been a rant that meant something to you, but for me and probably many others that entire post was HORRIBLE to read. I actually wanna cry right now because of it. I'm not sure what I can say to explain how much that hurt. But I can say this.
You don't know what I'm going through. Therefore you have zero say in what I vent about and when, and where. Maybe that one kid in my class calling me names is really hurting because I'm trying to deal with the death of a pet or family member. YOU CAN'T KNOW FOR SURE Therefore you have absolutely no right to tell me or anyone else to "suck it up" Maybe that one little vent about a bad day is trying to get some positive feedback to look on the bright side when you feel like you physically can't.
Bottom line. You have no right to tell people to "suck it up" or "get over it." That's wrong, and just plain mean.

@RedTheLoveless

I feel like you guys are gigantic cowards and can't handle harsh language or anything negative in this world.

Says the one who is failing to handle the backlash of something you said. If we were the cowards, then explain why we are speaking up to you and your actions? Furthermore, why do you want us to be cowards? You want people to be scared of you? To listen only to you? To not let you know when you crossed the line? To let you do whatever you damn well please because you're the only one that matters here and not everyone else too?

Honestly please grow up.

Suprise: I'm an adult. And if you want, more adults can get involved if one speaking sense just isn't enough for you.

I didn't say anything bad towards anyone or invalidate what others are going through. I just went on a rant.

Falsehood. You had an entire negative rant about people "whining" on this site, in this chat, directly quoting someone who was just using this chat for its intended purpose.

Not to mention the fact that your entire rant was about all of the other people in this chat, including the moderator. If I'm remembering correctly, this directly violates a rule from the chat, and could end up getting you banned (or in Ella's case: politely asking that you leave).

But why would my opinions matter lol

And that's gaslighting. Just thought I'd let you know, since you seem a bit distraught and may not have caught your error.

@Pickles group

Holy shit classic me making everyone around me fucking miserable. Fuck you guys, grow a damn pair once in a while.

Still wanna talk about how you aren't playing the victim?

@Low_Mein

I'm sorry for telling you guys to suck it up. That's all I grew up with so it's normal to me. It's very difficult for me to share compassion with others because I was just raised to be alone and not care about anyone basically. Sorry for telling you to grow up. I did not mean age, and I sure know many adults that need to grow up. Not you though. You're fine, Red. Emi, sorry for throwing you into my rage. I suppose I shouldn't come back? All I do is bring negativity, or at least that's what people say, including my "parents," so should I leave? Nobody besides maybe Ella and Pookie even care for my opinion in the slightest. I'm NOT ASKING FOR ATTENTION OR PITY. I AM NOT PLAYING THE VICTIM. I just want to let it be known (I mean it already is) that I don't really serve a purpose besides, I don't know, helping a few people out of suicide and other things.

I'm very sorry, and I'm going to take a bit of a break from here for a little since I know you all deserve it… <3 peace

@StarryWolfy flash_on

Just gonna say Sporks, that honestly, just because your parents raised you to be one way, doesn't mean they're right, or that you have to stay that way. Your parents don't choose who you are so don't blame them.

@The-N-U-T-Cracker

Moderator here-
No one’s getting banned, nor will they be politely asked to leave.
Yes, that comment violated multiple rules, and I’m not gonna pretend it didn’t-
But I don’t think it’s ban-worthy.
I want this to be a place that’s open to anyone if they ever need it.
People have problems, and sometimes they need support for them. I’m not gonna refuse to help them simply because of things they’ve done in the past-
That would be super fricking hypocritical of me, as someone who’s been banned from multiple chats for being a complete and total a-hat towards my own friends.
So yeah, while I definitely don’t approve of that comment, I’m not gonna hate them for it, nor will I ban them.
Everyone is allowed to be here.
And yes, that includes Death Man.

@RedTheLoveless

Thank you for taking a step back and genuinely apologizing. It takes guts to admit when you're wrong.

A word from the wise: be kind to yourself. I know it may seem odd or out-of-place, but as you go on your break, please keep it in mind. I may not know exactly what you're going through, but I do know that it's hard and affecting you harshly. When the people in your life, specifically your parents, seem against you, be kind to yourself. You may not know your full purpose yet, and that's okay. I still don't completely know mine either.

Take care of yourself. Fare thee well.

Deleted user

You know what? It takes a strong person to state there opinion, it takes an even stronger person to take a step back. I use the venting chat personally to get stuff of my chest, posting stuff here lightings the weight of my chest. I know how it is to be irrational in the moment which you were justified with past experiences by the way most of the time when I’m pissy I am not. I respect someone who can apologize.

Deleted user

I stayed up basically all night crying and bullying myself. I blacked out, that’s how I got some sleep.

@Low_Mein

Thank you for taking a step back and genuinely apologizing. It takes guts to admit when you're wrong.

A word from the wise: be kind to yourself. I know it may seem odd or out-of-place, but as you go on your break, please keep it in mind. I may not know exactly what you're going through, but I do know that it's hard and affecting you harshly. When the people in your life, specifically your parents, seem against you, be kind to yourself. You may not know your full purpose yet, and that's okay. I still don't completely know mine either.

Take care of yourself. Fare thee well.

Thanks for that. I needed it. See you guys soon, goin on a hiatus for a little

@Relsey-TheElder

I hate emailing English teachers

Honestly, me too. I put all of them through Grammerly and then have my sister read it and correct it, then I out it through Grammerly again, then I scrap the whole thing and start over being as professional sounding as is physically possible, then replete the sister and Gramerly process. then I send it.

Deleted user

I want to just sleep. I couldn’t get that much sleep. I usually sleep a lot.

Deleted user

I have a migraine and I'm making it worse by listening to a podcast~

Deleted user

when your day is going somewhat decent and then you feel like you’re going to puke while your back has sharp pains and you feel dizzy

@StarryWolfy flash_on

So… I'm home alone today…
This is really petty but I texted my mom over four hoursago over something minor and she didn't respond. (It was about a tv show we've been hooked on for over a year now and I wanted to know which episode I should look for in her watch history.)
She never responded.
Okay fine, I know she's at a big museum with my siblings and her phone is usually on silent, and I told her nvm five minutes after the initial text.
I texted her an hour ago to ask if I could watch netflix because I was done with my math homework (The reason I'm not with them) for the day.
It's been over an hour and she still hasn't responded and I just had this bout of yelling at my phone like,
"You never text back when I tell you I'm on my way home from school unless its to tell me you're in the shower, or on a work call, (AKA I'm lucky to get one reply per week in those instances) so why the frick can't you text me back when I text you while I'm home alone,
Like, do you not care that I'm alive or something???