Nah, I'm talking about a couple of users on here. Most a chill, but there are some who never let anything rest. I'm not gonna name names, but the original Venting Chat was shut down because of people not settling their differences/just letting go
I agree with Swim
That's… kinda sad.
The entire Rudeness chat is full of examples but I’d recommend you not read through it not only cause it’s a lot of drama to read through in one day but also I was kind of a terrible person when it was first created and I don’t want any beans to remember me in that way
Most of the site is quite chill tho
Yeah. It just reflects horribly on the entire site.
(And the Rudeness Chat is full of it, but that's basically what it's for so that's where a lot of it goes down)
(Ella, there is no way someone could think of you like that, you're too amazing)
(^^^^^^)
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I don't know much about you, Ella, but from what I do know, you are a very amazing and talented individual. It takes a lot of integrity to recognize if you were in the wrong, and even more so to admit to it, even though it may not be the case, that just means you are incredibly humble and self-critical.
You. Are. Amazing. No matter the situation or what happened, you recognized it wasn't who you want to be and you grew as a person. That is absolutely admirable.
Who here thinks they could slap enough optimism in me to last me 6 and a half hours?
ummm, don't ask me. ask one of the littles aha
~ nia
(My head hurts so damn much right now.)
(oh nooo!)
HELLO! I AM HERE WITH LUVINS AND SNUGGLES AND OPTIMISM!
Why do ya need it?
Because. I told myself that I was going to be as optimistic as possible for 24 hours.
Well. One. Realize how gorgeous the world is. Look out the window, notice the way the snow falls, the sort of spooky but graceful feeling you get from the trees, the poetry in leaves falling.
(What snow?)
(There's snow here.)
(Where? 'Cause it, sure enough, ain't where I am.)
Either way, I would debate this with you, but I'm trying to be optimistic here.
someone throw some of that my way because my online counsellor wasn't in today and i got this really fucking grumpy grandma and omfg i want to dieeeee
Aha! Now is my chance! (. . . now how to optimistic. . .)
(Damn, this is hard.)
Okay, so, the most generic optimistic sentence I can give you:
Don't worry, things will get better, love.
Well just try being polite. You don't know what she's going through so just. Breath. Maybe she's had a really bad day. Or night. Or week. Or life. Maybe her grand kids spilled coffee on her, or her husband forgot that it was their wedding anniversary. You never know.
eek, shes asked me 'who do you live with?' seven times
the answer hasn't changed since you asked two minutes ago
Oof.
she is cycling through the same two questions. it has been HALF AN HOUR