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also, we updated our notebook user to the correct name FINALLY only took me forever aha

@saor_illust school

so um
i've come for assistance
so… my very very close online friend learned quite recently that his aunt got diagnosed with cancer and even more recently that his aunt might not last long
if you don't know already, i'm terrible at trying to comfort people because i have bad social skills but that's not the point
so… what should i say? i've already sent him something that i hope will help but idk because i'm terrible at this but oh well

@saor_illust school

(it's fine cam)
thanks shuri

on a side note, i'm really getting the feels
a webtoon started this whole round off and then there was that situation and aghhh idk

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okay children, nia is having a fuckin' rough time so if anyone is willing to talk to them let me know

@saor_illust school

definitely up to the task
may have spotty replies of up to around ten minutes but that's because i'm also dealing with two other things that require me to type a lot as well

@TeamMezzo group

also i'm relating to the song never bloom again by waterparks a lot, even though the breakup was a month and a half ago i miss her still but i know it wasn't healthy and ah

@fruitbatsandearlgrey

So I just got the invitation to my best friend's sweet sixteen

It's three months away, but she rented out a lodge and invited over a hundred people

I never had a sweet sixteen

I stayed in bed all day in a bathrobe watching YouTube and eating candy

the closest thing to a celebration I had was my boyfriend surprising me briefly to drop off a gift but he broke up with me not two weeks later so that's not exactly a happy memory

I feel like this says something about me I'm pathetic and I have no friends

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I mean my sixteen was me being disappointed that I wasn’t going to NY and sitting around feeling old. I didn’t get any gifts from any of my friends, and we didn’t go to DC for my party like my mom promised this month.

It also wasn’t a “sweet” sixteen because I kissed someone before then. Apparently it’s sweet if you’re a kissy virgin lmao

@fruitbatsandearlgrey

It also wasn’t a “sweet” sixteen because I kissed someone before then. Apparently it’s sweet if you’re a kissy virgin lmao

Oh yeah, I forgot about that part. My grandmother at one point called to wish me a happy birthday and she said something like "sweet sixteen and never been kissed, right, Bats?… SO I HEAR YOU'VE BEEN GOING ON SOME DATES-"

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It also wasn’t a “sweet” sixteen because I kissed someone before then. Apparently it’s sweet if you’re a kissy virgin lmao

Oh yeah, I forgot about that part. My grandmother at one point called to wish me a happy birthday and she said something like "sweet sixteen and never been kissed, right, Bats?… SO I HEAR YOU'VE BEEN GOING ON SOME DATES-"

Wheeze-

@fruitbatsandearlgrey

It also wasn’t a “sweet” sixteen because I kissed someone before then. Apparently it’s sweet if you’re a kissy virgin lmao

Oh yeah, I forgot about that part. My grandmother at one point called to wish me a happy birthday and she said something like "sweet sixteen and never been kissed, right, Bats?… SO I HEAR YOU'VE BEEN GOING ON SOME DATES-"

Wheeze-

My mother at one point sent out a mass email to our extended family declaring that, among other family events, I had started dating, and, consequently, her Christmas email this year detailed my recent breakup. My uncle reportedly responded, and I quote, "WHAT DID THAT LITTLE (censored) DO TO MY NIECE I'LL KILL HIM"

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I've put a jingle bell collar on my cat and he doesn't understand that the jingling noise is coming from him so he keeps trying to attack to wall lmaooooooooo

@saor_illust school

hey guys, so uh
does anyone remember what i said about my very close online friend and his aunt?
well um… his aunt didn't make it…
i've basically said sorry for his loss and asked if there was anything i could do
but no response
should i just leave it at that and check in on him later, or…

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I’d honestly leave it at that, Izzy. Maybe after the holidays, if there’s any way you can call him, to do so and comfort him physically with your voice.