And posting "oh this site is toxic" isn't gonna create a non-toxic community?? You're kinda just adding to it??
or is that crazy??
Yeah, that basically just creates more arguments and infighting about if it's toxic or not.
All communities are going to be a tiny bit toxic, that's just how life is. There's no such thing as perfect people, and therefore there cannot be a perfect forum. There's always gonna be users that you personally find annoying or even hate, but that's how life is, you cannot get along with everyone you meet. It's just impossible, and frankly an immature worldview.
Well said Jyn. Though one can get along with anyone; so long as that person is not unusually offensive in obscenity or other like thing.
I would recommend that those of you that still follow this chat that are under the age limit–Leave.
This space is not for you.
Another word of advice–
If you're going to talk shit about people, dont be passive about it. It makes you look like a petty coward.
If you have something to say, then say it.
I think . . . the "OGs" (people I was terrified of btw) still had disagreements but were more quiet about them and more scared to argue about them because they wanted to keep the peace. I think this "generation" of nb is a lot bolder and would rather speak our minds than keep the peace.
I don't know if either one is "good" or "bad" necessarily, it's just what I noticed.
^^Oh yes! You should post to the picture chat.
I think . . . the "OGs" (people I was terrified of btw) still had disagreements but were more quiet about them and more scared to argue about them because they wanted to keep the peace. I think this "generation" of nb is a lot bolder and would rather speak our minds than keep the peace.
I don't know if either one is "good" or "bad" necessarily, it's just what I noticed.
How old is an OG these days? A 1 1/2 year?
I would consider Emi one of the youngest (I mean like in a how-long-you've-been-on-the-site kind of way) OGs. SO pretty much anything before her ig??? Idk. Its not just anyone before Emi though. Its a certain group of people
People are different—that's just life. No one is obligated to love and cherish everyone, there will always be someone you personally don't like. Now, whether that dislike creates altercations is a different story. But that's not the point. You can't expect everyone to get along and try to make everything all sunshine and flowers (especailly in a chat meant for the exact opposite, but I digress). Getting called out for that kind of attempted moderation in a chat that isn't even yours to mod is not toxic, nor is it cause for drama. Calling the entire site toxic just because there are spats here and there, with some that turn into a little harsher 'spats' is not accurate and is only seeking for either attention or more arguments. Trashing an entire site won't solve anything, nor will sitting on your ass and not even attempting to do anything about it.
There's my peace.
I will post a pic but im still 'baking', so it'll be a few
Good.
What brand are you using?
And did you bleach it?
I would consider Emi one of the youngest (I mean like in a how-long-you've-been-on-the-site kind of way) OGs. SO pretty much anything before her ig??? Idk. Its not just anyone before Emi though. Its a certain group of people
I agree that Emi is part of that. How old are you Emi? (Notebook wise).
I would consider Emi one of the youngest (I mean like in a how-long-you've-been-on-the-site kind of way) OGs. SO pretty much anything before her ig??? Idk. Its not just anyone before Emi though. Its a certain group of people
Yeah I’m at 1 and maybe 3/4, because I’ll become two years in February or March.
So near two years I suppose.
No bleach. I'm using Overtone this time around. They have a shade set just for brown hair that you dont need to bleach before hand. (shrug) We shall see how it holds.
My hands are the color of plums so that's an excellent sign.
I’m one and three-quarters lmao
But I think it should be two and up ngl
No bleach. I'm using Overtone this time around. They have a shade set just for brown hair that you dont need to bleach before hand. (shrug) We shall see how it holds.
My hands are the color of plums so that's an excellent sign.
Omgggggg I've wanted to try overtone but I haven't yet. Tell me how it goes!!
I’m one and three-quarters lmao
But I think it should be two and up ngl
You're definitely an OG tho
Am I mid? Or really old newbie?
lol I didnt know there was other criteria to being an OG other than time on the site
I think it should be one of those things when you think Notebook People, it’s those people.
Like I almost instantly think of Ella for some reason. And she’s not an OG?
She's a new OG
Like the generation thing I was talking about
Dom I just read your profile for the first time and wheezed
