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Today’s aesthetic: I’m a confident happy bean, I will make everyone smile, and help as many people as possible.

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Today's Aesthetic: Ow, ow, ow, ow, it hurts to live, ow, ow, ow.
Aka, my brain is screaming lol

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Todays aesthetic: that one battery vine that starts with AAA and then gets progressively louder

@Elder-God-Whisper

how tf does one make an @???

You start by typing an @ and follow with the username of the person you want to @. Some users usernames though, aren't compatible with the @ function, and in that case, you can't.

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Today's aesthetic: Luna isn't lonely anymore! also look like i just rolled out of bed.

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(I'm joining because I'm lonely and bored)

Today's aesthetic: dark colors because dysphoria is a bitch

@Becfromthedead group

At common ground (my school's equivalent to GSA) last night, we had a whole talk about queer fashion and aesthetics, and it was honestly a really cool conversation, especially since I'm trying to dress more "bi" I guess? Like I don't wanna be read as straight, and we all talked about that.
(So on that note, today's aesthetic: oversized navy pullover, gray jeans, very bisexual-looking lace-up boots, and my hair tucked back into a soft, pink beanie so you can only see my bangs.)

@ZephirFox8812

holy shit you guys i came out to my dad and it went really well! (i cried, which is not surprising). oh my gosh i’m just so happy rn!!!! :D

That's amazing dude! Well done!

@RedTheLoveless

speaking of girls, got my frozen heart chipped at today
beautiful girl in my self-defense class
cute cornrows and even cuter laugh

and yet she has a boyfriend
hhhh it's always the straight ones, dammit

@RedTheLoveless

very cute

y'know I just think that pure gay girls are such a rare find because most are probably in hiding from creeps and the few that are out are very obvious. it's a hit or miss type of deal

@RainClouds_Itachi_

i think??? i'm having??? a gender crisis????
i'm not sure, bc for the most part i've been pretty neutral towards it-
like,,, "call me whatever you feel like calling me"
but,,,,,, i dunno most people refer to me as my birth gender and i don't,,, i don't know if i like it
i'm ok with it
but i'd prefer if it was only like,,, 50% or less of people that i know would call me that
does this make sense???? am i just losing it????? i have no idea, i've never had a problem like this before-
send help

@RedTheLoveless

i think??? i'm having??? a gender crisis????
i'm not sure, bc for the most part i've been pretty neutral towards it-
like,,, "call me whatever you feel like calling me"
but,,,,,, i dunno most people refer to me as my birth gender and i don't,,, i don't know if i like it
i'm ok with it
but i'd prefer if it was only like,,, 50% or less of people that i know would call me that
does this make sense???? am i just losing it????? i have no idea, i've never had a problem like this before-
send help

I'm experiencing the same thing fam. I identify as agender, any pronouns go. Unfortunately, most like to refer to me as my bio sex. Nothing wrong with that, but it does make me feel like they didn't really listen to me the first time around, and having to bring up the conversation again is super awkward and draining. Like, I am aware you are following the guidelines I've set, but it feels like they're just taking the cheap way out instead of taking into account how I may feel.

Honestly, at this point, I'm still chill with the any pronouns thing, but I make a point to stress that I prefer all and variety from what I usually hear on a day-to-day basis.

Something like, "Hey, I know I said to call me [blank] because [blank], but the truth is that [blank] is how I feel, and would appreciate if you did [blank] instead."