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Again, question for Eris to answer

My man, you may be in the wrong place. XD

@evastardust groupRRAAAARRL

I have a question too

Is it supposed to hurt during a girls first time? I read somewhere that it shouldn't, is that true or not?

The whole cliche of the hymen ripping and there being pain and blood and stuff isn't true. The hymen will stretch, but it shouldn't snap unless the penetration is going way too fast and hard (pun not intended).

Wellllllllll– that's not entirely true. It all depends on the girl actually.
Normally, yes. The hymen will tear and it will hurt. But as I stated before, pain isn't all that bad. Period cramps are worse. (the irony)
But there are cases where some lucky girl won't have to deal with the pain at all and still have her hymen intact after sex. That stupid thing is flimsy and irrelevant. I mean it can tear from exercise.

Oh okay, thanks!
It was just something I'd heard in a 'how to write sex scenes' video

Deleted user

really?

Eris am I allowed to ask what type of exercise? I’ve never heard that before.

Deleted user

Again, question for Eris to answer

My man, you may be in the wrong place. XD

I've answered a couple of questions

;-;

Deleted user

really?

Eris am I allowed to ask what type of exercise? I’ve never heard that before.

Running sports, generally.
I think it's more 'strenuous activity' than any one sport, but yes runners experience that a lot.

Deleted user

Again, question for Eris to answer

My man, you may be in the wrong place. XD

I've answered a couple of questions

;-;

Awwwww. I'm sorry for my joke.

@RedTheLoveless

I have a few for you Baylee lmao. Most of them are stupid but I am curious so while you're here…

Do the hairy cheese balls float in water? I heard they do, and I'm curious if that's true.
How does it feel to get your dick caught in something? I imagine it's like getting your finger in a chinese finger trap, but I could be wrong.
How does it feel having a G-spot in your asshole?
Just: explain dick cheese. Is it like toe jam?

Deleted user

I have a few for you Baylee lmao. Most of them are stupid but I am curious so while you're here…

Do the hairy cheese balls float in water? I heard they do, and I'm curious if that's true.
How does it feel to get your dick caught in something? I imagine it's like getting your finger in a chinese finger trap, but I could be wrong.
How does it feel having a G-spot in your asshole?
Just: explain dick cheese. Is it like toe jam?

One: Not sure what you mean by this. If you mean testicles, no, they don't

Two: Imagine two knifes being pressed against the side of your finger

Three: I am straight, so I never had that type of sex. It ain't that kinky

Four: Mix of dirt, dead skin cells, and oil from your sweat

@RedTheLoveless

I have a few for you Baylee lmao. Most of them are stupid but I am curious so while you're here…

Do the hairy cheese balls float in water? I heard they do, and I'm curious if that's true.
How does it feel to get your dick caught in something? I imagine it's like getting your finger in a chinese finger trap, but I could be wrong.
How does it feel having a G-spot in your asshole?
Just: explain dick cheese. Is it like toe jam?

One: Not sure what you mean by this. If you mean testicles, no, they don't

Two: Imagine two knifes being pressed against the side of your finger

Three: I am straight, so I never had that type of sex. It ain't that kinky

Four: Mix of dirt, dead skin cells, and oil from your sweat

Yeah I meant testicles lmao. Glad to know

Ah, alrighty.

Well I mean, you could still have a female dom. But fair enough.

Oof nasty

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Well I mean, you could still have a female dom. But fair enough.

Like I said, I ain't that kinky

Deleted user

How badly does it hurt when you're hit in the balls?

Like, hard. "My blueberries have become blackberries" hard.

Deleted user

How badly does it hurt when you're hit in the balls?

Like, hard. "My blueberries have become blackberries" hard.

I want you to grab a hammer, then put your hand on the kitchen table. Then slam the hammer about 20 times in the same spot as hard as you can

Deleted user

It hurt a little less than it does to give birth

because I doubt anything can hurt more than that

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that's the second time liquid has come out of my nose today.

wheeze
Thank you Baylee

@Becfromthedead group

Alright, so I don’t think anyone’s really asked this yet, but what can sexy scenes do for a story? What are some cases in which a fade to black wouldn’t do the job just as well? For one thing, I feel embarrassed writing that stuff, and for another, my story isn’t inherently supposed to be smutty or anything. There are just characters who happen to have sex with each other.

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I think they can help add dimension to a relationship. Not a vital piece of dimension, but a somewhat realistic one. If you aren't comfortable writing them, don't! There's nothing wrong with leaving it out– I've read plenty of great OTPs who never have sex scenes. If it isn't a smutty story, I wouldn't suggest including smut shrug. I think most of the time you're okay with just a "fade to black." As long as it's made clear that the characters had sex, the point is made.

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Hi. Hypothetically you've just started writing smut and now you hate everything you just wrote and want to metaphorically author die? But at the same time really like written erotica in healthy doses and want to experiment with sex and sexuality in the cultures of your current writing project and in the context of your story and character's lives?

@RedTheLoveless

Don't publish, but don't get rid of it. Writing is writing. Never delete, only move forward. Do research on what confused you, or maybe even ask others for help or advice or even feedback on what to do for that scene.

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Balls have taste buds????

Yes, we have taste receptors on our testes. No, we can't taste shit with them