i'm probably just jumping to conclusions…

you're not
he's a fricking perv, ruby

And this isn't the first time similar stuff has happened.
It's doubly concerning since you're, y'know, a minor.

no no no, please
this cant be real
is it real??

it is
i promise
and i'm sorry

So wait he just complimented you in a way that your father would, which therefore reminded you of him? Look I’m sure Shuri didn’t mean it like that but I’m not about to defend him. He should know better.

lots of times
in creepy ways

i'm probably just jumping to conclusions…

you're not
he's a fricking perv, ruby

And this isn't the first time similar stuff has happened.
It's doubly concerning since you're, y'know, a minor.

^^^^^

Shuri is an overly affectionate dude. He’s been like this forever. It’s part of his gay nature.

Dom, hun, no…. Don't say that.

So wait he just complimented you in a way that your father would, which therefore reminded you of him? Look I’m sure Shuri didn’t mean it like that but I’m not about to defend him. He should know better.

lots of times
in creepy ways

Could I have an example?

even some of the people on here are thinking it's not real… im probably jumping to conclusions.

i'm probably just jumping to conclusions…

you're not
he's a fricking perv, ruby

Please Mir. Do you have actual evidence of that? Because saying something like that without good evidence is a shitty thing to do to someone.

even som eof the people on here are thinking it's not real… im probably jumping to conclusions.

Dom is just being stupid. A lot of us here believe it.

Shuri is an overly affectionate dude. He’s been like this forever. It’s part of his gay nature.

Look, Dom. We appreciate your levelheadedness and trying to defned your friend, but Shuri has harassed people on this site.

i'm probably just jumping to conclusions…

you're not
he's a fricking perv, ruby

Please Mir. Do you have actual evidence of that? Because saying something like that without good evidence is a shitty thing to do to someone.

Belittling someone's concerns is also a pretty shitty thing to do to someone
and yea, I do

Shuri is an overly affectionate dude. He’s been like this forever. It’s part of his gay nature.

Dom, hun, no…. Don't say that.

What? He’s a super overly positive dude! It’s weird as hell but what’s wrong with it?

Shuri is an overly affectionate dude. He’s been like this forever. It’s part of his gay nature.

Dom, hun, no…. Don't say that.

What? He’s a super overly positive dude! It’s weird as hell but what’s wrong with it?

The fact that Ruby dislikes it is what’s wrong with it.

Ruby what you need to do is start blocking him on everything you have connection with him on. Immediately. If you are truly frightened, then you need to get an adult close to you involved. They would need to contact the police so they can keep an eye on your house/school/ etc.

Don't feel ashamed, this is not your fault. But it does need to be handled by adults and right now.

even som eof the people on here are thinking it's not real… im probably jumping to conclusions.

Dom is just being stupid. A lot of us here believe it.

Dom is saying innocent until guilty because he’s not seen any evidence for guilt yet.

_{im probably just overreacting…}

_{im probably just overreacting…}

I highly doubt it.

i'm probably just jumping to conclusions…

you're not
he's a fricking perv, ruby

Please Mir. Do you have actual evidence of that? Because saying something like that without good evidence is a shitty thing to do to someone.

Belittling someone's concerns is also a pretty shitty thing to do to someone
and yea, I do

I’m sorry Miriam. But it’s too easy to accuse a guy like Shuri. I can’t let that happen without proof.

Ruby what you need to do is start blocking him on everything you have connection with him on. Immediately. If you are truly frightened, then you need to get an adult close to you involved. They would need to contact the police so they can keep an eye on your house/school/ etc.

Don't feel ashamed, this is not your fault. But it does need to be handled by adults and right now.

thank god i dont live in the states…

Jynnie is saying that sending creepy affectionate messages to a minor (and this isn't the first time he's done that) is not a case of mock trial and should be treated seriously, not as some excuse for debate.

Shuri is an overly affectionate dude. He’s been like this forever. It’s part of his gay nature.

Dom, hun, no…. Don't say that.

What? He’s a super overly positive dude! It’s weird as hell but what’s wrong with it?

It's not a 'gay trait' though. :P Not all gays are super nice and affectionate. That was my only beef. Not what everyone else is saying.

i'm probably just jumping to conclusions…

you're not
he's a fricking perv, ruby

Please Mir. Do you have actual evidence of that? Because saying something like that without good evidence is a shitty thing to do to someone.

Belittling someone's concerns is also a pretty shitty thing to do to someone
and yea, I do

I’m sorry Miriam. But it’s too easy to accuse a guy like Shuri. I can’t let that happen without proof.

we have proof

Let’s get some evidence on the table. Because fear by itself is worse than useless.

Ruby what you need to do is start blocking him on everything you have connection with him on. Immediately. If you are truly frightened, then you need to get an adult close to you involved. They would need to contact the police so they can keep an eye on your house/school/ etc.

Don't feel ashamed, this is not your fault. But it does need to be handled by adults and right now.

thank god i dont live in the states…

Then you’re more protected then you think. Just make sure you keep your head on a swivel and tell an adult you trust.

_{im probably just overreacting…}

You're not, Ruby. You have every reason to be uncomfortable. Don't let others tell you what is allowed to make you uncomfortable.

thanks dom, really lifting my spirits here aha

Shuri is an overly affectionate dude. He’s been like this forever. It’s part of his gay nature.

Dom, hun, no…. Don't say that.

What? He’s a super overly positive dude! It’s weird as hell but what’s wrong with it?

It's not a 'gay trait' though. :P Not all gays are super nice and affectionate. That was my only beef. Not what everyone else is saying.

Ah. I see.

Ruby what you need to do is start blocking him on everything you have connection with him on. Immediately. If you are truly frightened, then you need to get an adult close to you involved. They would need to contact the police so they can keep an eye on your house/school/ etc.

Don't feel ashamed, this is not your fault. But it does need to be handled by adults and right now.

thank god i dont live in the states…

Even so, Ruby. It's not hard to travel. You need to alert the authorities. In your mind and heart, your safety is compromised. You need to do something about it.

thanks dom, really lifting my spirits here aha

I’m sorry for you Ruby. But I’m the guy’s friend. It’s my duty to speak for him until I have proof against him.

Dom you can't just tell a kid who's legit scared not to be scared. Even if it was maybe an overreaction or misunderstanding, if she's scared, then belittling her fear is still a horrible thing to do