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Started January 17, 2019 by @The-N-U-T-Cracker

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Of course you don't want that, and I understand. You get used to it after dealing with an alcoholic for 13 years

Yea, I recommend therapy or talking to him about rehab if he is addicted. But you have to enter yourself into rehab. And if he's not addicted…

so he hasnt taken his meds in a bunch of months and he's WONDERING WHY HE'S FEELING LIKE THIS

Or ask him what's wrong.
Even if you already know what it is

so he hasnt taken his meds in a bunch of months and he's WONDERING WHY HE'S FEELING LIKE THIS

So monitor him hun.
Make sure.

Right

But don't like, helicopter over him

he's like 300 km away

Hi I'm here uhm…I know I'm interrupting stuff so i'll vent once this is over. Just know that I need some major hugs…

Oof mood
Just talk to him.

i'm tryin
ok sry ev ur turn

what did i just come back to??!

no no this is still going…it's fine…

No go ahead Ev
hugs

what did i come back to?! who do we need to help

No really dad…they have bigger problems then I do…I'll just…I'll just go.

ev srsly i'm done tell us what's wrong

Ok hun
But I'm here in PM for you.
Evs. We love you so, so, so much

No babe! If you aren't comfortable here, I'll PM you. Ev, please.

Alright…it's not THAT big of an issue but

I was face timing my boyfriend right? And we're goofing around and teasing eachother and just generally enjoying eachother's company. And he like turns the computer away for a little bit and I just start crying for no reason, whispering to never leave me. And he didn't even freak out or anything like he normally does, he just made sure to reassure me that he would never leave me…and I guess part of that was the fact that he was exhausted which is understandable…I also am sort of really highly emotionally unstable cause mental stuff and I dunno what the fak to do.

uhhhh i'd say take a little bit of time and listen to some soft music and calm down

Hey Evs
Take a moment for self care mu bud.
Maybe eat something you like, take a bath/shower, take a rest or a nap
Watch some funny videos.
(I'm resident meme dealer 👍👉👉)
Wear something you think is cute
Listen to music you like
You got this my boyo.
I'm glad we met you

This was like this morning, i'm fine now. But I'm concerned about things in the future…

I believe in you Evs
Take a day out of each week for self- care

Such as?

Well further worse emotional instability…and I try to self care as much as I can but then my dad just yells at me for being lazy and doing nothing but sitting around on the computer, but I can't medication because we are in debt and I am the child who sacrifices herself for the family and is the good thing and risks things like her health to keep things at peaceful levels and I can't self care if I don't feel comfortable,relaxed, and safe anyways. But. I did take a shower a little bit ago, and i'm eating some pizza and drinking a pepsi(though I don't want to eat at all)

Well, I'm glad you're doing what you can to care of yourself. I can offer some more self care ideas if you'd like. Talk to me more about your 'emotional instability.'

Well further worse emotional instability…and I try to self care as much as I can but then my dad just yells at me for being lazy and doing nothing but sitting around on the computer, but I can't medication because we are in debt and I am the child who sacrifices herself for the family and is the good thing and risks things like her health to keep things at peaceful levels and I can't self care if I don't feel comfortable,relaxed, and safe anyways. But. I did take a shower a little bit ago, and i'm eating some pizza and drinking a pepsi(though I don't want to eat at all)

Weeell I might have something to make you feel better later. ^.^
Until then we can keep RPing
We'll all here be your support network

yes! self care is key!

I have some other self-care ideas too.
ALSo you can always. alwAYS vent to me