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Started April 02, 2019 by Deleted user

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Would I have written an entire post about it if nobody did it?
Dear Lord, heaven forbid someone does games that you don't, but okay boomer
If anyone was interested in writing about it, there ya go.

This forum is for writers serious about smut scenes. With real questions about sexual education and the like.
Please don't make this a big deal.

Would I have written an entire post about it if nobody did it?
Dear Lord, heaven forbid someone does games that you don't, but okay boomer
If anyone was interested in writing about it, there ya go.

yeah it’s not pre-school up in here.

We’re referring to shit like sex

that you’d want to spoil alert in a public forum

or never say to your grandma

yeah it’s not pre-school up in here.

We’re referring to shit like sex

that you’d want to spoil alert in a public forum

or never say to your grandma

Exactly.

This forum is for writers serious about smut scenes. With real questions about sexual education and the like.
Please don't make this a big deal.

hi i could use this
i have some questions lmao

hi i could use this
i have some questions lmao

Sure thing go ahead!

Ask away

this is awkward af
first off how much exactly does it hurt a girl first time

That ain't a question for me

Stares at person who was talking about this to me
This doesn't even really belong in the smut chat, but this gorl wanted to discuss Spin the Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven
Idk, could be useful for some people ig
So, as someone who has played Spin the Bottle before, I'm just gonna say that it's nothing like the media displays it to be. It's more humorous than serious, at least most of the time. And if there's someone in the group that you actually want to kiss, then good luck, because it rarely happens. When the bottle lands on someone, there's a few seconds of awkward silence before y'all actually smooch. And usually you laugh. A lot. It's not really romantic; It's more like kissing a friend while your other friends watch and cheer creepily.

As for Seven Minutes in Heaven, I don't know about anyone else who has played this, but for me I don't think anyone I've played with has actually hooked up while playing. There's usually some kissing, maybe a blowjob, but that's it. Like I said, maybe in other people's groups there are actual hookups, but like?? Idk. If you were to actually hook up though, there's not usually much room and sometimes it's easier to just mess up each other's hair, tug on your shirt a little and just return to your friends.

That's all I have to say on the matter. I'd say nobody asked, but somebody did.

what happens if you dont want to kiss someone

ah not one for me either

yeah it’s not pre-school up in here.

We’re referring to shit like sex

that you’d want to spoil alert in a public forum

or never say to your grandma

Okay, you go talk to your grandma about spin the bottle and seven minutes.

For the last time, if anyone wanted to write about it, there is a resource.

I'm done with this conversation

Stares at person who was talking about this to me
This doesn't even really belong in the smut chat, but this gorl wanted to discuss Spin the Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven
Idk, could be useful for some people ig
So, as someone who has played Spin the Bottle before, I'm just gonna say that it's nothing like the media displays it to be. It's more humorous than serious, at least most of the time. And if there's someone in the group that you actually want to kiss, then good luck, because it rarely happens. When the bottle lands on someone, there's a few seconds of awkward silence before y'all actually smooch. And usually you laugh. A lot. It's not really romantic; It's more like kissing a friend while your other friends watch and cheer creepily.

As for Seven Minutes in Heaven, I don't know about anyone else who has played this, but for me I don't think anyone I've played with has actually hooked up while playing. There's usually some kissing, maybe a blowjob, but that's it. Like I said, maybe in other people's groups there are actual hookups, but like?? Idk. If you were to actually hook up though, there's not usually much room and sometimes it's easier to just mess up each other's hair, tug on your shirt a little and just return to your friends.

That's all I have to say on the matter. I'd say nobody asked, but somebody did.

what happens if you dont want to kiss someone

You just say no.

Stares at person who was talking about this to me
This doesn't even really belong in the smut chat, but this gorl wanted to discuss Spin the Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven
Idk, could be useful for some people ig
So, as someone who has played Spin the Bottle before, I'm just gonna say that it's nothing like the media displays it to be. It's more humorous than serious, at least most of the time. And if there's someone in the group that you actually want to kiss, then good luck, because it rarely happens. When the bottle lands on someone, there's a few seconds of awkward silence before y'all actually smooch. And usually you laugh. A lot. It's not really romantic; It's more like kissing a friend while your other friends watch and cheer creepily.

As for Seven Minutes in Heaven, I don't know about anyone else who has played this, but for me I don't think anyone I've played with has actually hooked up while playing. There's usually some kissing, maybe a blowjob, but that's it. Like I said, maybe in other people's groups there are actual hookups, but like?? Idk. If you were to actually hook up though, there's not usually much room and sometimes it's easier to just mess up each other's hair, tug on your shirt a little and just return to your friends.

That's all I have to say on the matter. I'd say nobody asked, but somebody did.

what happens if you dont want to kiss someone

Oh, someone actually needs this
{Also, I don't think we've met, hey Timraijuiwifc, I'm Miriam!}
If you don't want to kiss someone, you just gotta do it anyway.
That's the point of spin the bottle.

Stares at person who was talking about this to me
This doesn't even really belong in the smut chat, but this gorl wanted to discuss Spin the Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven
Idk, could be useful for some people ig
So, as someone who has played Spin the Bottle before, I'm just gonna say that it's nothing like the media displays it to be. It's more humorous than serious, at least most of the time. And if there's someone in the group that you actually want to kiss, then good luck, because it rarely happens. When the bottle lands on someone, there's a few seconds of awkward silence before y'all actually smooch. And usually you laugh. A lot. It's not really romantic; It's more like kissing a friend while your other friends watch and cheer creepily.

As for Seven Minutes in Heaven, I don't know about anyone else who has played this, but for me I don't think anyone I've played with has actually hooked up while playing. There's usually some kissing, maybe a blowjob, but that's it. Like I said, maybe in other people's groups there are actual hookups, but like?? Idk. If you were to actually hook up though, there's not usually much room and sometimes it's easier to just mess up each other's hair, tug on your shirt a little and just return to your friends.

That's all I have to say on the matter. I'd say nobody asked, but somebody did.

what happens if you dont want to kiss someone

You just say no.

oh ok

Stares at person who was talking about this to me
This doesn't even really belong in the smut chat, but this gorl wanted to discuss Spin the Bottle and Seven Minutes in Heaven
Idk, could be useful for some people ig
So, as someone who has played Spin the Bottle before, I'm just gonna say that it's nothing like the media displays it to be. It's more humorous than serious, at least most of the time. And if there's someone in the group that you actually want to kiss, then good luck, because it rarely happens. When the bottle lands on someone, there's a few seconds of awkward silence before y'all actually smooch. And usually you laugh. A lot. It's not really romantic; It's more like kissing a friend while your other friends watch and cheer creepily.

As for Seven Minutes in Heaven, I don't know about anyone else who has played this, but for me I don't think anyone I've played with has actually hooked up while playing. There's usually some kissing, maybe a blowjob, but that's it. Like I said, maybe in other people's groups there are actual hookups, but like?? Idk. If you were to actually hook up though, there's not usually much room and sometimes it's easier to just mess up each other's hair, tug on your shirt a little and just return to your friends.

That's all I have to say on the matter. I'd say nobody asked, but somebody did.

what happens if you dont want to kiss someone

Oh, someone actually needs this
{Also, I don't think we've met, hey Timraijuiwifc, I'm Miriam!}
If you don't want to kiss someone, you just gotta do it anyway.
That's the point of spin the bottle.

wait but the other one said you don't have to

Depends on how dedicated you are to the game, tbh

If I really didn't want to kiss the person, I won't

Yeah, same here
If you reaaaaaaaally don't want to, don't

…………………..and there goes my chat.

this is awkward af
first off how much exactly does it hurt a girl first time

It's not that painful actually. Your mind is otherwise occupied, so yea you will feel it, but it's not that bad.
It's really sore the next day though. Probably will last for like a day and that's it.

Honestly, it's really forgettable.

Consent is Important. Even if you are playing a stupid game (that no one plays)

If you don't want to kiss the person, then don't.
It's that simple.

this is awkward af
first off how much exactly does it hurt a girl first time

It's not that painful actually. Your mind is otherwise occupied, so yea you will feel it, but it's not that bad.
It's really sore the next day though. Probably will last for like a day and that's it.

Honestly, it's really forgettable.

ok, that's fascinating and I'm not even the one who asked lol

I have a question too

Is it supposed to hurt during a girls first time? I read somewhere that it shouldn't, is that true or not?

Based on Eris’ previous answer, I don’t think so.

Again, question for Eris to answer

I have a question too

Is it supposed to hurt during a girls first time? I read somewhere that it shouldn't, is that true or not?

The whole cliche of the hymen ripping and there being pain and blood and stuff isn't true. The hymen will stretch, but it shouldn't snap unless the penetration is going way too fast and hard (pun not intended).

I have a question too

Is it supposed to hurt during a girls first time? I read somewhere that it shouldn't, is that true or not?

The whole cliche of the hymen ripping and there being pain and blood and stuff isn't true. The hymen will stretch, but it shouldn't snap unless the penetration is going way too fast and hard (pun not intended).

Wellllllllll– that's not entirely true. It all depends on the girl actually.
Normally, yes. The hymen will tear and it will hurt. But as I stated before, pain isn't all that bad. Period cramps are worse. (the irony)
But there are cases where some lucky girl won't have to deal with the pain at all and still have her hymen intact after sex. That stupid thing is flimsy and irrelevant. I mean it can tear from exercise.