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@amber_is_in_a_loop

I was with a group of some girls, and arises the subject of drama.
APPARENTLY, unbeknownst to me, he had a massive, massive crush on one of the leads and she'd been leading him on even if she wasn't interested at all. But I didn't know??
So not only was I completely oblivious, but while I was thinking about him he was being hurt by someone else and I had no idea.

@Relsey-TheElder

Collapses onto bed hugging a pillow and crying while smiling and just being lot's of emotions I have the best best friend of all best friends and you can't change my mind.

@Relsey-TheElder

Yes, yes it is, is it kinda weird having a Crush on your best friend, yes a little bit. Any way yesterday I was talking to him about my really bad day and he was being a sweet adorable amazing human bean and making me feel better because he does that. Also today I just out of no where I told him "I love Pretzel Bread" And some how we're having a full out conversation about bread, he's such an amazing dork it's great.

@bubblegum

All the times I've dated anyone I never really actually liked them that much, I just like having them and hugging them and things
I don't like the people that much, I like the affection
Like
I'm touch-starved

@bubblegum

mhm and now I feel bad because like…I didn't actually like any of these people I guess I just told myself I did because I liked it when they would hug me or kiss me or smth

@Relsey-TheElder

I think that it was a learning curve for you and at least you realize that now. You didn't know any better and now you do, you weren't trying to hurt them you just thought that's what liking someone was, you associated touch with romance and that's not your fault, a lot of that can be traced back to media and entertainment, think about it, how do the two main characters find out they like each other a kiss at the end of the story, not actual chemistry or conversation. You understand that now and that's the important thing, you didn't have ill intentions.

@hollow-boned

speaking of crushes and relationships in media, the only ship i've ever been fully invested in was aurora and alfred from x company. they have such a raw relationship and it's genuinely pure and unconditional and i love both of them so much
like so many het couples in media are pushed together and take like 2 episodes to get together and have zero chemistry but these two??? i'd genuinely die for them

@TeamMezzo group

guys h e l p
does anyone know anything about two DID/OSDD systems dating? like how to make sure couples can spend time together, etc? because we could very much use that in the mezzo system right about now since we are dating another system and there are three individual couples between us and we wanna make sure that they can spend time together? help?

@Pickles group

I have a crush, I think. Idk if it's a platonic crush, like I just wanna be best friends with him or something else and I HATE IT. I don't like this feeling

@soupnana group

Y'all ever have it where you know of someone around school or something and you constantly are hearing about them and they are the classic "take your heart break your heart" kinda person? Yeah, well he's one of those people. Pretty much every girl (and even some guys) has a crush on him. And yeah, most of them are like an admiring crush where they are like, "Yeah, they are really talented and pretty cute as well" but none of them actually know the guy that well. I was that way for a while. I always had thought "Hey, that guy is cute and super talented, but who cares about guys, right?" RIGHT!?
Guys, I just joined theater this year, and our first rehearsals were thursday and friday. Of course, this guy (lets call him Jonah) got the lead role. He didn't come to the first rehearsal because we were doing a scene his character isn't in, but yesterday, Jonah was there. Aaaaaand gosh darn it he is way too perfect. We were practicing a song and during it the choir teacher had a list of rehearsals on the board and who would go to which, I (along with many others) went up to the board the check the list and write down the days we'd have to come to rehearsals. I had turned to go back to my seat, and Jonah was sitting on the front row. I walked right passed him but as I did so we sorta locked eyes and he smiled and waved at me. I know it's just him being a good and incredibly sociable person, but heavens knows that at that moment my stupid teenage crush went into full swing! WHY THOUGH!?
Anyways, after I sat down, I started overthinking the whole experience. I kept thinking maybe he was sympathetic to the nerdy Jr. girl and decided to wave to be welcoming. Maybe I just looked like a dork and he was secretly laughing at me behind my back and played it off with a little smile. I know neither of those situations are the case. I know that he was just being friendly like he is to everyone ever.
Now onward with the story! So later on during rehearsals I and a few other girls went to do choreography for Storybook (we're all cupids) while everyone else stayed behind and practiced Madame Guillotine (we're doing The Scarlet Pimpernel.) When we were finished all the other cast members came to the stage to go over scenes 1-4. All of the ensemble went and stood by the sides as the mains went over their lines. Crap! I couldn't help but notice that Jonah would do this cute little thing where he would bob his head whenever he would do his lines. And how he would wave his free hand about while reading.
Anyways, Chauvelin has to do a quick solo before the ensemble comes onto the stage as prisoners, peasants, and soldiers. That meant that Jonah went backstage. Where all of the ensemble was waiting for their cue. Of course I was preoccupied with goofing off with my friends to notice he was there, but I soon realized he was. And, being the sociable person he is, he decides to get to know everyones names. I have never spoken to him before in my life. I have always quietly admired him from the sidelines, but he was talking to me now and I knew that I was realllly nervous. Why on earth was I freaking out so much over him asking what our names were?! And before he had asked who we were I had said something stupid like "good job" when he had finished reading his lines. He just was like "Oh well I'm not that important." I just said, "Oh come one you're Percy!" Shoot he did that little smile of his at the compliment! I'm bringing attention to myself this is stupid! Grrr…..
He then asked us our names and theeeeeen he left. Okay. That was way too stressful. I know I kept smoothing my hair and that I was probably blushing furiously (cliche I know) but I don't think he noticed or cared. One thing I know about Jonah, he loves attention. That's why he's in theater. Aaaaand he loves the adoring fan girls, even if he knows he will never date any of them. It hurts kinda, but that doesn't mean I can just throw these new feelings out the door. I will always probably have a little girl crush on him, but that's fine. He doesn't need an average nerd girl to like him. He has already got a lot of gorgeous and talented popular girls fawning over him. That's fine.
Okay okay… but one last thing. He may not date any girls steadily, but he does know they like him, and he knows how to make them happy. At promenade last year, he changed outfits multiple times in the middle of the dance so he could dance with a bunch of junior girls that didn't have dates! That is so fricken adorable. He honestly is like Tom Holland just my age and maybe a little less into gymnastics (lol) which is probably why I like him so much.
Okay I'm done now. :)

(you know what'd be super awkward? If he or someone he knows saw this. That'd be embarrassing. If you are in my school chances are you know who I'm talking about and who I am. Shoot.)

@Trix

Okay that sucks but it’s lowkey adorable to read through and those little habits you noticed liking bobbing his head or his hand moving that’s just freaking wghdjwvqldbdk and changing outfits to dance with girls who didn’t have dates you sure he’s not an angel?