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im so excited for christmas cus im gonna get things and it’s very epicly epic

hmhmhm

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i get a comfy set of pjs and i wear it and it’s nice
i also get money and art supplies and things I’ll actually use and want
awesome.

hhh

@basil_

Dhdjjsjs yayaya
My art teacher took pictures of my gesture drawings today cause she thought they were really good and let me tell you I felt BLESSED
And now I want to go to a life drawing class

@basil_

How did you guys realize you weren't straight? I've been thinking about my feelings lately and I think I might not be.

I would love to help but I honestly have no idea how I realized I was bi..it just sort of happened over the course of the year. Sorry :) :/

@Max_Miracle_DroppedMostOfTheirRPs

How did you guys realize you weren't straight? I've been thinking about my feelings lately and I think I might not be.

Hiya human! It happens for everyone in different ways. For me I’ve never really had attraction towards men (I’m bi but I have major top energy and there’s no bottom guys at my school so eee) And I guess…I just thought about what it’d be like to date someone who was female, and I’d had a lot of thoughts about girls being pretty and if you really think about your feelings logically, that may help you figure it out.
Woah that paragraph was a mess! Sorry about that lol. My PMs are always open if you need to vent or need more help!! (Hope this was somewhat helpful)

@RedTheLoveless

How did you guys realize you weren't straight? I've been thinking about my feelings lately and I think I might not be.

Mine was sorta like, obvious to me from a young age, but I remained closeted at school until I caught feelings. With that though, I'm now struggling with figuring out my exact identity/label.

Each journey is different though. One of my friends found out literally by realizing that all of those girls she thought were cute were actually all crushes. Kinda like an "oh fuck I'm totally gay" moment.

One of my best friends actually read about each sexuality until "ah yes, pansexual sounds right, let's go with that"

Honestly, one bit of advice I recommend is to really evaluate your feelings to try and figure out what feels right to you. Then, go and research. And if you end up being straight, then hey, at least you'll be a very educated ally.

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How did you guys realize you weren't straight? I've been thinking about my feelings lately and I think I might not be.

i don't really think you know something like this right away, though it does happen like that for some people, it kind of takes time.
for me, well, i knew something wasn't right when i developed feelings for this one chick at my church

depression was something i was struggling with at the time and finding out that "hey, maybe i like girls too" (cause i didn't want to renounce to liking guys either (a religion thing), was a shocker and only made me sink further into the depresso :)

i've gone through a heck of a ride here and i went from being bi to being pan and now i think i might actually be trans too

i guess if you have feelings enough that say "hey, i like this person and i really really want to get to know them and spend a lot of time together with them" then you probably have a thing for them

but im talking about feelings like "oh fuck, why am i thinking like this, this isn't right-" kinda deal
idk man, im bad at explaining things, just listen to the other two, theirs sounded more coherent

@RedTheLoveless

Weird honestly. Nothing too interesting has happened honestly.

Well that's good to hear at least

How about you frond?

Honestly? Absolutely shitty and I'd rather not talk about the details of why

@Max_Miracle_DroppedMostOfTheirRPs

Weird honestly. Nothing too interesting has happened honestly.

Well that's good to hear at least

How about you frond?

Honestly? Absolutely shitty and I'd rather not talk about the details of why

Ouch. I hope things get better for you fam

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How did you guys realize you weren't straight? I've been thinking about my feelings lately and I think I might not be.

I kissed my boyfriend's sister and went "OooooOOoOoooOOoOOOooooOOOh–I'm bisexual."

@GameMaster group

How did you guys realize you weren't straight? I've been thinking about my feelings lately and I think I might not be.

Idk just kinda happened. Mostly I realized that I thought a lot of girls were pretty but I didn’t want to look like them. I think that’s what separates admiration from attraction. That was almost a year ago and I’m now out to my family and all my friends so be patient. Things take time.

@galaxyunicorn-is-in-love-with-starry

Wait @kmart-’s name is Claudia?
gets excited because my character in the show that I’m in is named Claudia

aww that's awesome!!
what show?

It’s a Christmas show that are directors wrote. It’s called WVYT: The Family Holiday TV Network. I play the sponsor, and the best and most iconic character :)

@basil_

Wait @kmart-’s name is Claudia?
gets excited because my character in the show that I’m in is named Claudia

aww that's awesome!!
what show?

It’s a Christmas show that are directors wrote. It’s called WVYT: The Family Holiday TV Network. I play the sponsor, and the best and most iconic character :)

ah! That’s so cool!! Finally my name is used for something other then a random French dude

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How did you guys realize you weren't straight? I've been thinking about my feelings lately and I think I might not be.

I'm bisexual. For me, I think I realized I wasn't 100% into guys because I was always kinda boy crazy growing up {although I think there's always been a slight interest in females}, but suddenly that just stopped around age 11 or so. This was really weird. And then I kind of started noticing things about females. Then, I found out what bisexuality was.

I knew I was bi from the moment I heard the definition. A few months later I came out to some friends at a party, and I just got this euphoric feeling; I knew it was right.

I started preferring girls. A lot. And then I went a bit back towards guys. And then girls again.

Now, I'm, like, 85% girls and 15% guys on the daily.

That's my Gay Story.

@hollow-boned

How did you guys realize you weren't straight? I've been thinking about my feelings lately and I think I might not be.

i caught feelings for a girl when i was 14 and later realized i'd always known i liked girls but kind of,,,,,skirted around it bc it felt like something perverted, especially growing up in romania. whenever i did something too gay (like dress my dress-up dolls in the skimpiest clothing i could) i remember i used to promise myself i'd never ever tell my future husband and i'd like, imagine this therapy session and i'd tell them in a really roundabout way that i have gross thoughts and it would be like, a secret issue that i'd have to treat. which is all pretty funny in hindsight but it was terrifying when i was ten.
when i caught feelings i already had gay friends so i went online and googled sexualities and i was like 'oh im bi okay cool' and it just. Made sense. i never even struggled to accept it, it just clicked
later that same year i realized i was trans but that's a more complicated story

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I drank a pot of coffee and i feel like I could defeat all homophobes,
and I also came to the realization that if anyone shows me any kind of attention I will fall for them, so big yee to that
Do yall have any music recommendations, because im tired of listening to the same things on a loop

@basil_

I drank a pot of coffee and i feel like I could defeat all homophobes,
and I also came to the realization that if anyone shows me any kind of attention I will fall for them, so big yee to that
Do yall have any music recommendations, because im tired of listening to the same things on a loop

That’s literally my life today

@bubblegum

yalllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
i was feeling not so hot this morning and so one of my guy friends (who is asexual and hates being touched and doesnt usually touch people) came up and HUGGED ME and then picked me up BRIDAL STYLE and carried me over to my GIRLFRIEND and ugh i love him