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Started May 12, 2019 by Deleted user

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Can you tell I stay up late thinking of fruit analogies

Yes, lol

YOOOOOOOOOOOO I HAVE MAJOR TEA

To spill?

YES

Then spill it all, honey. I love me some gossip, it's good for plot inspiration.

OH?

OKAY
so at the pool party I went to mia was flustered indeed but there was this other guy there named gabe and I've heard of him before but didn't know him well, so we were talking a lot and we don't hate we relate - we're both sorta depressed and anxious and both gigantic music geeks, so we got along well. I talked about how I'm like 1/5 gay but still like guys and he talked about how his ex made him depressed and yada yada. And then today we were texting each other a lot and he goes "i have a question to ask but it's really awkward"

And?

And he said "I know you're dating someone but I thought you were cute so you just like me as a friend right? This doesn't mean I like you but you know" and I'm like "yeah I thought you were kinda cute too but I also have a girlfriend" and he goes "yeah lmao sorry that was awkward" and then we talk about that for a bit and then I say "I think of you as just a friend now but that might change if I break up with mia and you get over abby" and he's like "yeah same" and we're gonna hang out a couple times next week

oof

so…………..i don't know what's going on or what I'm gonna do because he's still depressed about his ex abby and I'm still dating mia whom I do still like a real lot but gabe and I also kinda like each other too and I think it's just kind of on hold until the both of us get everything sorted out

you need to figure out if dating gabe is worth it more than your committed relationship with mia

we get along super well already, we relate a lot and we're both huge music geeks specifically for rock, and we trust each other a lot with a ton of things - like when we were texting about this we both said we wouldn't tell anyone and I trust him with that, he thinks I'm cool because I don't get offended easily and take jokes and I'm funny or whatever and I don't even know.

ok but like. just think about it for a bit. you either stay with mia and just be friends w gabe or take a little break from talking to him until ur feelings go away
or you break up w her and take ur chances w gabe (after he gets over his ex)

Yeah we both said if we do end up dating it'll take a while, maybe even close to a year but it might happen sometime in the future? He said he's having trouble getting over abby and is rly glad I'm cool with that, and I said thx for being cool about me dating mia and stuff. We're gonna stay good friends until we figure stuff out.

ok that seems healthy

in other news jules hasnt been online in a while and i'm gay and sad

awwwww sry :(

:(((((((((

Did his parents take away his stuff again?

no i dont think so it's just hard for him to sneak around and go online

oooooooh I feel that…I hope he gets to u soon tho

yah :((

y'all i been having recurring dreams abt kissing other ppl or being kissed by other ppl while knowing jules is my bf and i feel. so guilty

Same though - is that weird? I have a couple dreams where I've been kissing this one guy (not gabe) from my school and MIA WAS THERE and ghuokloigyubjn

Indeed, Ya'll deserve to be able to talk to each other, And Loops…. Ok here be my thoughts, I am speaking as a concerned friend, I think that you should take a step back and look at your situation, A good deep look, think about what you're considering, really think about it… OK now that you've done that keep thinking about it. that's my advice.

Thanks rels, we're gonna think on it together for a while but in the grand scheme of things I should probably take a better look. Thanks for the advice!

y'all i been having recurring dreams abt kissing other ppl or being kissed by other ppl while knowing jules is my bf and i feel. so guilty

… I have weird romantic dreams but they're all like with my crush and less Kissing and more long comforting conversations that usually end with me falling asleep on his shoulder.

" Luckily, cheating dreams rarely have anything to actually do with infidelity —rather, according to dream interpretation site Dream Moods, cheating dreams are usually about insecurity, low self-esteem, and fear of abandonment. "

lovely!