I think you have a pretty good understanding of the difficulties of your father's job, but I don't know if you fully understand how hard it is for your mother. And maybe you realize how hard it is for her, but maybe not for most mothers. Mother's don't get paid, most have to go through an extremely difficult and body-ruining process to become a mother (or they have to go through the really really difficult adoption process) to children who are definitely going to be rude to her and are definitely going to hurt her (whether intentionally or unintentionally) at one point at the very very least.
Plus cleaning and cooking and raising children are no easy feats, and I think that you should acknowledge more how hard being a mother is.
I'm aware of how hard it is, and I wasn't trying to make it sound like mothers have it easy. I have a mile-long list of nightmare stories from babysitting my younger siblings, and I usually only have to watch them maybe once a month. It's especially difficult since one of my brothers has anger issues and has tried to punch, kick, and attack me multiple times, usually over small things, and refuses to listen to anyone but my mom.
Watching/caring for small children is a truly difficult task that not everyone is capable of doing well, and I have loads of respect for all the people who can.
What I was trying to show with the whole "Oh, she has to cook, boo hoo"/"women are only expected to care for their children, while men have to do all this" thing was how ridiculous and offensive the "Men have it easy, all they do is sit around at a desk working, poor them" argument that I've seen on the internet truly is, although I really didn't make that clear enough at all 😅 and instead ended up sounding like a terrible person
Thoughts on population control? Specifically, policies that would limit how many children a couple could have. (Biologically or non biologically) For example, China (I believe. Don't quote me on this), implemented a policy that couples could only have one (or was it two? IDR) child. This led to an increase in infant mortality because people would kill off the 'extra' children, especially if they were girls.
I don't have much of a thought on this other than killing off smol babies to stop overpopulation is messed up, however, that's something we seem to have all agreed on.