forum Don't Be Suspicious

Started March 01, 2019 by Deleted user

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Welcome to the Rudeness Chat. :D

Can I just say I really hate that damn eye roll emoji? I don’t know, I think it’s because I used to get into debates with vegans on the PETA Instagram page before I got blocked and I’d be like

“Well, we are originally omnivores, since we produce a type of acid to break down meats. But you can live fine on a herbivorous diet.”
Then the vegan responds: “🙄” and nothing else
Something sets me off about that emoji and I don’t like it at all

Wait Mojack did you and the vegans over there debate about vegetarian cat food?

Can I just say I really hate that damn eye roll emoji? I don’t know, I think it’s because I used to get into debates with vegans on the PETA Instagram page before I got blocked and I’d be like

“Well, we are originally omnivores, since we produce a type of acid to break down meats. But you can live fine on a herbivorous diet.”
Then the vegan responds: “🙄” and nothing else
Something sets me off about that emoji and I don’t like it at all

sorry, but idk I just kinda find this funny

Wait Mojack did you and the vegans over there debate about vegetarian cat food?

Sometimes, other times when I was in my last Instagram account that wasn’t blocked I just spectated

Good lord. Vegans

At first I thought it was supposed to be a place where people can resolve their problems with other users without causing outside drama, but it’s spiraled into an over-exaggerated place for mindlessly tearing others down, destroying their reputations on the site, spreading awful rumors, judging people they haven’t even met, and yeah I don’t even remotely understand the point of it or why it needs to exist.

I think you need to chill dude.

The irony.

??

It's just that no one in this chat is chill because everyone is constantly at each other's throats because well, it's the rudeness chat but you want to call Ella out and tell her to be "chill".

But don't you think she's just being a bit extra?

From what I've seen, not necessarily.

We tell everyone to chill when they've crossed a line. I've even 'chilled' myself, so again, if you don't like it, then leave. No one is being a hypocrite.

I've seen this "line" being crossed not only on here but in other chats as well, which came directly from this chat. I also understand that you do address the situations that have gotten out of hand, but this is also the reason why I don't interact with the users in this chat. You've never seen me around on here before because like you said, I don't like it. I only came to reply to someone who was confused about the state of this chat.

Idk that's kind of awful towards the people who just want to let off steam in this chat. A lot of the users here (all or them, actually) are very nice people.

I'm not the moderator for other chats, so you can't blame me. Nor have I particularly seen other chats get tense. If they have, direct them here. But I am not responsible for how people act elsewhere.
I address it and it calms down, I'm not sure what more you want from me.
Don't but into this chat if you are just going to criticize everyone on it and then vanish. That's not what it is for as I have previously stated.

What I'm trying to say is that I try to mind my own business. Obviously, not everyone in this chat is rude because some have commented once or twice then left. I also said that I don't talk to users in this chat specifically, I do out of this chat. Let off steam? So, talking others down and ganging up on them is letting off steam? When this chat first started off that was the case but a few pages back from now not so much.
@FaeEris I understand, but what I'm getting at is that because of this chat some unnecessary fights have started. I'm not accusing you of anything, because you aren't held responsible for other's actions but due to this whole thing it has put people against each other and people can't even accept each other's opinions. Debating and taking out a discussion in a civilized manner is one thing but it's another to belittle someone just because their opinion is different. I wouldn't be saying this if I haven't seen what goes on.

So what's your point then?
If you're not accusing me, then what?
I'm not responsible for how people truly feel about others and if some people can't handle that they are more than welcome to leave. Not everyone in life is going to like everyone else. I've given people a good place to let out how they truly feel and I step in when it gets too harsh. Anyone can attest to that. That's not toxic, that's a proper mediated space. (I would know I'm a trained mediator)
Again. I don't know what you want from me.
Some users need to correct their behavior if they do not want people to 'gang up on them' or whatever. Or grow a backbone and stop playing the victim card. Which is what a lot of people do. I'm not going to defend anyone here, only my space and myself.

Honestly, I don't get how some people let the opinions of a bunch of rando assholes on the internet effect them so deeply. There are a million other things to worry about, including your own opinions of yourself.

Honestly, I don't get how some people let the opinions of a bunch of rando assholes on the internet effect them so deeply. There are a million other things to worry about, including your own opinions of yourself.

same

So what's your point then?
If you're not accusing me, then what?
I'm not responsible for how people truly feel about others and if some people can't handle that they are more than welcome to leave. Not everyone in life is going to like everyone else. I've given people a good place to let out how they truly feel and I step in when it gets too harsh. Anyone can attest to that. That's not toxic, that's a proper mediated space. (I would know I'm a trained mediator)
Again. I don't know what you want from me.
Some users need to correct their behavior if they do not want people to 'gang up on them' or whatever. Or grow a backbone and stop playing the victim card. Which is what a lot of people do. I'm not going to defend anyone here, only my space and myself.

My point is that I, like many others wish this would stop. There are other ways of dealing with how you feel, sure you can feel angry but that doesn't mean you can direct it at others. If you aren't responsible for how others feel with the different users then why create a space where everything can get out of control quickly? You don't have to encourage them to be rude towards others because like I said there are other ways of dealing with your feelings. The problem isn't controlling things when they get out of hand and it isn't a problem sloved thing, telling people to leave if you don't like it. It's that some people are sensitive, I know, the horror, hard to believe that people like that exisit and that not everyone can have a "strong backbone". As if you couldn't tell from this chat, rumors get out fast and soon people will be mentioning one way or another that person a said something about person b and person b may not being in a well enough mood that day. It would only bring them down more. You're saying that being rude isn't being toxic, then if it's not toxic then what is it?

I don't know man, I didn't come to start a fight, I just wanted to comment on some things. I would really not like to be a part of this, so I'll be seeing myself out. I won't judge what you do because you only wanted to do some good, so that I can respect and won't say anything else on the matter, even if I disagree with the purpose of this chat entirely.

If you can't handle people being rude on a chat specifically made to keep rudeness in it so that it doesn't spread into the rest of the site, then leave. People are free to express their emotions even if they are negative ones or you disagree with them.
Stop pissing in our Cheerios and leave if you'll just whine about a place to rudely vent for daring to exist.

Except it hasn't done a very good job of keeping all the rudeness in one place without it spreading, but then again I'm not allowed to say anything cause I'm just a pathetic little prick.

Also, "People are free to express their emotions even if they are negative ones or you disagree with them." goes both ways. If that person wants to be rude about the rudeness chat itself then they should be allowed to.

If you're going to be rude about the Rudeness Chat, then don't be pissed when people call you out. You invade and try to invalidate our venting place and then get mad at us for defending it.

I'm not mad at you guys, I was simply pointing something out.

But we're allowed to have a place to vent rudely. If you don't like it, then don't interact with it. Seems simple enough to me.

okay….maybe the problem is that some people are seeing this as a chat where you can say rude things in general and some people see it where you can say rude things to people. I’m not 100% sure which one Eris intended it to be, but that seems to be the big misunderstanding here.

It's a goddamn venting space. You can express your feelings as they truly are about everything, as people have complained about people to food to school to weird shit in their lives since the beginning of this thread.
I made this chat because I was (am) sick of the way people express (lack there of really) anger or displeasure these days. The "okay but I'm a little upset about this…I'm sorry!" bullshit instead of being honest and just saying "Dude this pisses me off and I need to properly express myself."

I said it once and I'll say it again: I am not going to get in the way of how people feel. It's healthy to express anger and get it out so it can be controlled and dealt with. Venting is therapeutic.
I'm sick and tired of defending my chat and this close to asking a ton of you to leave. There is nothing wrong with this thread.

Fair warning.

BTW:

What rumors? I have heard nothing of the sort and I'm getting preeeeetty upset about the blatant lying so you better stop.

Lastly:

Ella do not call yourself a name and then blame it on everyone else. No one has called you a prick. Chill out.

I've done what I can to direct people to hash out their shit here, it's not my fault they do not listen to my suggestion. Nor is it my fault when people start being mean to each other. Stop placing blame where there is none due. People are rude to each other all the time. It's a way of life. Do I like it? No. Can I change it? Also no. But I can provide a safe place to hash it out. Which is what the goddamn chat is all about.

Eris. Out.

that was beautiful

It's the truth

Oh my fucking god. I was showing my drawing to a dude in class, and he took it out of my hand and fucking bit it. He's sitting here now, chewing the part he bit off.
AAAAAAAAAAARGH

ok so last night a dude i barely know who’s at least two years older than me snap chatted me, and it was so weird.
like heart emojis and the works. what do i do

1. What the literal hell? You have to bite something of his now to assert dominance.

2. Kill him.