I've realized over the past year that it's ok and I could be wrong about being pan. Though I don't think I'm totally gay. One of my friends (she has a boyfriend) jokingly flirts with me because she knows it makes me slightly uncomfortable. Mostly because I don't know how to respond. Also weirdest part about it, she told me she used to be bi. Now she just doesn't agree with people being lgbtg+ so basically she slightly homophobic now. But she does jokingly flirt with me.
I've realized over the past year that it's ok and I could be wrong about being pan. Though I don't think I'm totally gay. One of my friends (she has a boyfriend) jokingly flirts with me because she knows it makes me slightly uncomfortable. Mostly because I don't know how to respond. Also weirdest part about it, she told me she used to be bi. Now she just doesn't agree with people being lgbtg+ so basically she slightly homophobic now. But she does jokingly flirt with me.
shes got internalized homophobia, 98% chance she's queer
So, with what I said being said… any other demisexual/romantic peeps going through similar shtuff? It'd be nice to know I'm not so alone lol.
So, with what I said being said… any other demisexual/romantic peeps going through similar shtuff? It'd be nice to know I'm not so alone lol.
I can see where you're coming from, that stuff can be tough. I'm not demi, but I am genderfluid and so I sometimes wish I was like everyone else and didn't have to constantly assess who I am and didn't have to feel awkward always going into the girl's restroom when I don't feel like a girl. It can be annoying being different from the norm. I get it.
You know what's annoying? Being bisexual and having everyone telling you that you're "confused" or "need to pick one gender" or, OR, that you're "just faking it cause you're trying to fit in." AHAHAHA I'm fine.
@Euric_Knight and @Emmylove-Is-FINALLY-Done-With-School thx, it means alot that someone's listening :)
Also, @Emmylove-Is-FINALLY-Done-With-School that sucks they dont get how you feel. I hope they understand one day.
Ahahhahahahaha
You think it’s bad being on the bisexual swing huh
Well lemme tell you how it is on the pan merry go round
Pandas
Ahahhahahahaha
You think it’s bad being on the bisexual swing huh
Well lemme tell you how it is on the pan merry go round
See, I'm not really sure about my sexuality, because I was confused about the term "pansexual" when I first heard it, and didn't really understand it. But now that I understand it more, I mean, I'd be fine with dating a non-binary, genderfluid, trans, or like… literally anyone… so, I mean… now I'm just confused even more.
So, with what I said being said… any other demisexual/romantic peeps going through similar shtuff? It'd be nice to know I'm not so alone lol.
I can see where you're coming from, that stuff can be tough. I'm not demi, but I am genderfluid and so I sometimes wish I was like everyone else and didn't have to constantly assess who I am and didn't have to feel awkward always going into the girl's restroom when I don't feel like a girl. It can be annoying being different from the norm. I get it.
I feel the same @Euric_Knight. I'm genderfluid too, but I was born female.
When you’re not out at home and you’re parents (and extended family) are casually homophobic so you know they would never really ‘get it’ if you did come out, so you really feel like you just can’t come out to them. But it’s pride month and you want to be really out and proud and just revel in the pride of your sexuality and how no one can bring you down for loving who you want but then the crushing reality of discrimination just makes you want to cry because you know that you will always face problems that just don’t exist for a heterosexual person in this heteronormative world.
Yeah that's awful. I too am not out or completely out. Though I believe my dad suspects because of reasons
oh my grekfgjeskd
so i was talkin to a girl and we were sharing crush stories and i was telling her abt this rlly cute barista girl at starbucks who i used to have a thing for and halfway through the story i realized i'd have to change the pronouns but i didnt stop on time so i said "shhhhh,,,,,,,he was-" and then awkwardly continued the sentence as if nothing had happened and long story short she didnt catch on but kill me
A classmate just said being gay was weird and disgusting who wants to kick him where the sun don't shine?
I would
Me!!! I will definitely do that. Where is he, I call dibs on first kick!
He's sulking in the corner and wishes he hadn't said anything XD also he's here with me right now
well tell him on my behalf that i think he's a motherfucker
He's sulking in the corner and wishes he hadn't said anything
He deserves way worse
This is my friend speaking he's typing right now:
I apologize I didn't mean to hurt your feelings can you guys forgive me. BTW I am bi.
Nya!
Middle finger
WTF why would he say that..?
Middle finger
^^^^^^^
,,,,,,,,,,if he's bi,,,,,,,,,,,why would he,,,,,,,,,,say that,,,,,,,,,,
This is my friend speaking he's typing right now:
I apologize I didn't mean to hurt your feelings can you guys forgive me. BTW I am bi.
Nya!
Hmmmm sounds fake but ok
,,,,,,,,,,if he's bi,,,,,,,,,,,why would he,,,,,,,,,,say that,,,,,,,,,,
Exactly. And if he's using it as an excuse, let him know that his sexuality does not account for what he says.
I just feel asleep on the floor of my bedroom and I woke up to my mom standing I front of me holding rain pants…?
What are rain pants?
,,,,,,,,,,if he's bi,,,,,,,,,,,why would he,,,,,,,,,,say that,,,,,,,,,,
Exactly. And if he's using it as an excuse, let him know that his sexuality does not account for what he says.
Yeah my friend and I were shocked too sooooooo I don't know if that's the truth or a lie
My mom is nagging at me to shave my legs even though I don't want to and she said I would look SUPER masculine if I don't I was so so so happy inside and the she asked do you not feel feminine or something and I lied saying no
Cause I don't know how she will react and I'm dying inside from this