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@Euric_Knight

So out of the eleven responses to this, 2 people's first language is something other than English. Seven people are learning or know French, five people are learning or know Spanish, one knows Polish, one is learning Latin, one is learning German, two are learning Korean, one knows/is learning Hebrew, two are learning Chinese/Mandarin, two are learning Japanese, one is learning Russian, one person is learning Greek, one person is learning Arabic, one person is learning Italian, and two people want to learn (but aren't learning) Italian. Seven people are from America, one from Canada, one from Greece, one from Poland, and one from… both Asgard and Hell.

@Elder-God-Whisper

Hello Annoying! Also, Euric, my GF can speak Japanese, and I want to nag her to teach me it. She can also speak French, and is learning a little Spanish. Her first language is English, but she's Australian, so she knows that and American slang.

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Oof, I have not been here for a loooooong time.
I'll introduce myself for any newbies.
Hey, I'm Logan, he/they pronouns!

@Simon-Says

Hi. I'm MJ. I'm bi as hell. But mostly I just like to scream that I'm GAY AS FUCK. Cause. GIRLS. She/her pronouns!

@Elder-God-Whisper

Everyone keeps asking, so….

I'm Whisper on this site, but IRL I'm a biological female who's birth name is Abby, but I'm non-binary and want to be called Link IRL, but do I get that? NOOOOOO. I'm also a Demisexual Bisexual. Pronouns don't matter to me.

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Camie, bisexual [extreme closeted, I think sadly…], She/Her, female

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I CAME OUT TO MY CALM TEACHER AFTER LIKE THREE MONTHS OF PUSSYING OUT and i almost cried she's so wonderful

YAY!

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hEy… I figured out a thing, and I feel kinda awkward? I guess? I don't know who to talk to about it, but you guys seem pretty welcoming, and knowledgeable so, uh, here goes I guess.. I recently came across the terms "demisexual" and "demiromantic". I am heterosexual, and I do identify as my biological gender, but when it comes to romance and attraction, I've always been a bit confused. I did more research on demisexuality and stuff, and it just really clicked. I've always had to explain to people that I just didn't "have a crush" or found cute guys walking past particularly attractive to me. Like, I know what attractiveness looks like and I know that I am heterosexual, I just don't feel it? If that makes sense? I never had a childhood crush or anything, and a lot of my friends thought/think I'm ace because I don't get crushes. I've only ever been attracted to one person. We became pretty much best friends over a year. I'm not one to share my emotions (which is why this is so awkward to post), but I really felt safe talking to him about them. We were both really open about everything, so I guess we kinda formed a bond. Then the attraction began (wOaH mY fiRsT cRusH). We started to have a little romance thing going, and that was the only time I had ever had romantic or attractive feelings towards someone. It was nice. Really nice. I knew for sure that I was in love. Recently, we decided to stay friends. I'm not heartbroken because it's really best for the both of us, plus we're still really close, so it's not like I lost him or anything- I still love him, platonically, so everything's good. Still best friends. But I had a feeling I wasn't going to have another crush for a very, very, long time. Probably a couple years. Tbh, that kinda makes me sad. I really liked experiencing romance and attraction, but for me, I can't just "get a crush" like all my other female friends. When I started researching demisexuality, the whole "has to have an emotional bond before attraction starts" really made sense to me. Even before my first crush, this is just how I thought. But, like I said, I'm not emotional person and I'm not one to easily form emotional bonds. So it's gunna be a while, a long while, before I'm ever gunna experience romance/attraction again. Idk if this is even a big deal or anything, it probably isn't. I just wondered if there's anyone like that too. I kinda wish I could have regular crushes and experience attraction like other people. But I just can't. It's taken a bit, but I've accepted the fact that I'm demisexual/demiromantic. It has cleared a lot of confusion, but I'm not exactly happy. Idk.