forum The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :)

Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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Why what happened

Welp, I've been out to a few of my other friends for a lil and they're all accepting people. (since about half of them are gay anyways and get it) So I figured I would tell my best friend since it was time and I figured she would be accepting about it…apparently not. My shining moments of confidence were shattered when she called me a bitch and sinner. That I can only be a girl and nothing else but a girl. I thought she would be fine with it since she knew I was bi, but she wasn't fine with that either apparently! She and I got in a fistfight and now im freaking losing my mind.

OH MY GOD that's awful I'm wanting to tell some of my close friends but I don't know how.

My one recommendation from what I learned, take a little and try to smooth sail your way into it, see how they are with something like it. Make sure your comfortable with telling them as well, don't do it just because you think you need to tell them. I made the mistake of thinking I had to tell her it was time, although everyone person reacts differently so you never know.

mention an out celebrity and make sure they know the celebrity is lgbt and scan their reaction

ok

Now thats one way to do it

except my parents seemed to be cool with lgbt ppl as long as they weren't in their household (they actually said that out loud once) and i made the terrible mistake of telling them
so be careful either way

Now thats one way to do it

except my parents seemed to be cool with lgbt ppl as long as they weren't in their household (they actually said that out loud once) and i made the terrible mistake of telling them
so be careful either way

I would say its always important to be careful, don't make the mistake of rushing it

how do you not rush into it

how do you not rush into it

Take your time until you're comfortable and when you think that it's the right time to come out

how do you not rush into it

Take your time until you're comfortable and when you think that it's the right time to come out

ok thanks

how do you not rush into it

Take your time until you're comfortable and when you think that it's the right time to come out

ok thanks

No problemo

I want to do it but I suck at conversation starters

how do you not rush into it

Take your time until you're comfortable and when you think that it's the right time to come out

if for any reason it feels like the wrong timing or you feel unsafe don't do it

But i want to I just don't know how

HEY CLOSETED (or not) GENDERFLUID PEOPLE
Y’know those days when you feel like the gender you were given at birth? Those are good days. My body and mind doesn’t feel extremely wrong those days.

yup same

Hey guys I'm planning to ask my parents if I can dye my hair (I know they'll say yes cause they p chill) but I can't ask them if I don't know what color I want to dye my hair, so I need help deciding. I'm open to pretty much anything, including crazy stuff. Giveeeeeeee meeeee ideasssssssss

Neon blue

dark blue

_{also if you guys have questions about what I look like cause it will influence your suggestion feel free to ask}

like skin tone and face shape oh and eye color that's what I would like to know

I have brown eyes and pretty light skin, my face is hella chubby

ok then I would recommend a dark blue color personally

I feel your pain I have a chubby face too except my face is always red or light colored and I have green-ish Blue eyes

I feel like greens and purples look good in hair.

Ya I want blue color but I'm not alowed

I have green streaks in my brown hair, I have a real chubby face, lighter skin, and brown eyes.

I want blue tips on my brown hair

I want green underneath my blonde hair.

oo that sounds cool

Thanks! I'm sure your hair will look good with blue in it!

I went purple for the longest time. (Pale skin & brown eyes)
It's really just what you are most comfortable with. Usually a favorite color, like something you wear a lot, will look really good

I want to dye my hair black and fade it to a teal color but that's a no to my family

I wanna dye my hair purple or blue not that anyone other than my family would ever see it but I want to do it