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Started February 25, 2019 by Deleted user

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You're on 51/50???

You're on 51/50???

No, I'm on my mother's version.
Every time I'm in my house alone she has cameras watching me and making sure I don't do anything.

You're on 51/50???

No, I'm on my mother's version.
Every time I'm in my house alone she has cameras watching me and making sure I don't do anything.

That's why I said type of.

That sounds rough.

That sounds rough.

Not really, it only makes me feel bad because my mum is being extra caring and kind and I don't know how to deal with that.

It's not very different from how my life usually is, but my mum is more caring now.

It's good to hear that.

I can't see really how that is a bad thing. I mean it could keep any impulse in check and if something were to happen she would be able to react right away. Most people that are actually on 51/50 appreciate that kind of assistance. (I've known & worked with a few)

I can't see really how that is a bad thing. I mean it could keep any impulse in check and if something were to happen she would be able to react right away. Most people that are actually on 51/50 appreciate that kind of assistance. (I've known & worked with a few)

Yeah… I guess. It's just that she's almost never nice to me and I don't know how to react.

Just be yourself, if she doesn't like that then whatever, she doesn't have a say in your personality. She will have to get used to it eventually.
In the end it doesn't matter.

… But she told me not to be myself…
She told me that I was a bad person and selfish…

Well you should be yourself anyway. Spite is a wonderful motivator.

If you don't like it, then work on it! It might take a little motivation, it might even be hard, I can't assume anything about you and the way your body works, so I can't say anything for sure. But I know that working on it is the best way to do something about it!

Yeah, that's the human body for you! I don't know what physical sex you are, or your age, so I can't really give you any possible reason why, so yeah.

_{I have an abnormally large hip/chest area (when compared to the rest of my family) and it causes way more problems than you'd think… I await the day where I can wear jeans and not have them either cling to my legs or fall off when I walk.}

_{I have an abnormally large hip/chest area (when compared to the rest of my family) and it causes way more problems than you'd think… I await the day where I can wear jeans and not have them either cling to my legs or fall off when I walk.}

Ella, I'm sorry, but this made me laugh.