forum The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :)

Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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Yeah.

most likely i hate social interaction.

coffee shops are glorious.
Im totally going back and getting both of their numbers

social interaction = bad
online chat rooms = good

The people at my school are such dicks. I’ve already talked about how I hate my CAD class but there’s multiple people there who are openly homophobic and transphobic and I really hate it. I want to get out of this class so badly but I have it for the rest of the year.

That sounds horrible. In my maths class there is an openly homophobic guy but he’s kind of harmless. I obviously don’t agree with his views but he never really discriminated or talks negatively of the LGBTQ+ community or anything. It literally came up once two years ago and that was it. However I can probably guess that the people in your class aren’t as quite about it as my class mate, which I’m sorry to hear about

I have an issue with coffee shops employing the hottest people in the world.
I got all flustered ordering my matcha latte from this adorable pixie of a girl.
AND THEN
got flustered again by the guy that made my drink because he winked at me.

Jesus Christ Kona Coffee. Why you gotta be so rude?

Honestly that's a whole mood. I was at Six Flags on Saturday and there were all these beautiful people there and it made me sad that I was probably never gonna see them again.

guys oh my god i almost lived through a coffee shop au once
there was this adorable barista and she had glasses and brown hair and i perished. and she wrote "have a great day!!" on my cup several times
and we got to talking and i found out she's gay and i came out to her
and i made her a list of Songs
and then suddenly she stopped working there

The people at my school are such dicks. I’ve already talked about how I hate my CAD class but there’s multiple people there who are openly homophobic and transphobic and I really hate it. I want to get out of this class so badly but I have it for the rest of the year.

I feel your pain

I have an issue with coffee shops employing the hottest people in the world.
I got all flustered ordering my matcha latte from this adorable pixie of a girl.
AND THEN
got flustered again by the guy that made my drink because he winked at me.

Jesus Christ Kona Coffee. Why you gotta be so rude?

Honestly that's a whole mood. I was at Six Flags on Saturday and there were all these beautiful people there and it made me sad that I was probably never gonna see them again.

guys oh my god i almost lived through a coffee shop au once
there was this adorable barista and she had glasses and brown hair and i perished. and she wrote "have a great day!!" on my cup several times
and we got to talking and i found out she's gay and i came out to her
and i made her a list of Songs
and then suddenly she stopped working there

OH… the ultimate heartbreak……

I have an issue with coffee shops employing the hottest people in the world.
I got all flustered ordering my matcha latte from this adorable pixie of a girl.
AND THEN
got flustered again by the guy that made my drink because he winked at me.

Jesus Christ Kona Coffee. Why you gotta be so rude?

Honestly that's a whole mood. I was at Six Flags on Saturday and there were all these beautiful people there and it made me sad that I was probably never gonna see them again.

guys oh my god I almost lived through a coffee shop au once
there was this adorable barista and she had glasses and brown hair and I perished. and she wrote "have a great day!!" on my cup several times
and we got to talking and I found out she's gay and I came out to her
and I made her a list of Songs
and then suddenly she stopped working there

OH… the ultimate heartbreak……

That's terrible

I have an issue with coffee shops employing the hottest people in the world.
I got all flustered ordering my matcha latte from this adorable pixie of a girl.
AND THEN
got flustered again by the guy that made my drink because he winked at me.

Jesus Christ Kona Coffee. Why you gotta be so rude?

Honestly that's a whole mood. I was at Six Flags on Saturday and there were all these beautiful people there and it made me sad that I was probably never gonna see them again.

guys oh my god i almost lived through a coffee shop au once
there was this adorable barista and she had glasses and brown hair and i perished. and she wrote "have a great day!!" on my cup several times
and we got to talking and i found out she's gay and i came out to her
and i made her a list of Songs
and then suddenly she stopped working there

Aww sorry.

I have an issue with coffee shops employing the hottest people in the world.
I got all flustered ordering my matcha latte from this adorable pixie of a girl.
AND THEN
got flustered again by the guy that made my drink because he winked at me.

Jesus Christ Kona Coffee. Why you gotta be so rude?

Honestly that's a whole mood. I was at Six Flags on Saturday and there were all these beautiful people there and it made me sad that I was probably never gonna see them again.

guys oh my god i almost lived through a coffee shop au once
there was this adorable barista and she had glasses and brown hair and i perished. and she wrote "have a great day!!" on my cup several times
and we got to talking and i found out she's gay and i came out to her
and i made her a list of Songs
and then suddenly she stopped working there

Aww sorry.

I feel so bad for you

The people at my school are such dicks. I’ve already talked about how I hate my CAD class but there’s multiple people there who are openly homophobic and transphobic and I really hate it. I want to get out of this class so badly but I have it for the rest of the year.

I feel your pain

i used to be out at my previous hs but my parents moved me and then forced me to go back in the closet and i'm in class with solely a few dudes who are all super homophobic i want to perish

The people at my school are such dicks. I’ve already talked about how I hate my CAD class but there are multiple people there who are openly homophobic and transphobic and I really hate it. I want to get out of this class so badly but I have it for the rest of the year.

I feel your pain

I used to be out at my previous hs but my parents moved me and then forced me to go back in the closet and I'm in class with solely a few dudes who are all super homophobic I want to perish

Ya Right now when I first came out. People looked at me differently. One boy actually tried to change my beliefs. A few pulled the god will never love you now (Jokes on him I don't believe in god). A few people started treating me differently. I have really bad anxiety and every time I get an anxiety attack this one girl mocks me for it and this started when I came out. I couldn't take it anymore, so I hid back in the closet. Now that I'm learning about myself and my sexuality and gender It's getting harder and harder to stay in the closet. I don't want to be treated differently though, so I'm forcing myself in the closet. I know that I have a safe place among my friends. I don't want to tell them, so right now this is my only safe place.

The people at my school are such dicks. I’ve already talked about how I hate my CAD class but there are multiple people there who are openly homophobic and transphobic and I really hate it. I want to get out of this class so badly but I have it for the rest of the year.

I feel your pain

I used to be out at my previous hs but my parents moved me and then forced me to go back in the closet and I'm in class with solely a few dudes who are all super homophobic I want to perish

Ya Right now when I first came out. People looked at me differently. One boy actually tried to change my beliefs. A few pulled the god will never love you now (Jokes on him I don't believe in god). A few people started treating me differently. I have really bad anxiety and every time I get an anxiety attack this one girl mocks me for it and this started when I came out. I couldn't take it anymore, so I hid back in the closet. Now that I'm learning about myself and my sexuality and gender It's getting harder and harder to stay in the closet. I don't want to be treated differently though, so I'm forcing myself in the closet. I know that I have a safe place among my friends. I don't want to tell them, so right now this is my only safe place.

ok i may have Just Won Back my freedms and i can't talk to any of my old friends but yours is worse fkjdbnj. i also went through a lot of homophobia in junior high

The people at my school are such dicks. I’ve already talked about how I hate my CAD class but there are multiple people there who are openly homophobic and transphobic and I really hate it. I want to get out of this class so badly but I have it for the rest of the year.

I feel your pain

I used to be out at my previous hs but my parents moved me and then forced me to go back in the closet and I'm in class with solely a few dudes who are all super homophobic I want to perish

Ya Right now when I first came out. People looked at me differently. One boy actually tried to change my beliefs. A few pulled the god will never love you now (Jokes on him I don't believe in god). A few people started treating me differently. I have really bad anxiety and every time I get an anxiety attack this one girl mocks me for it and this started when I came out. I couldn't take it anymore, so I hid back in the closet. Now that I'm learning about myself and my sexuality and gender It's getting harder and harder to stay in the closet. I don't want to be treated differently though, so I'm forcing myself in the closet. I know that I have a safe place among my friends. I don't want to tell them, so right now this is my only safe place.

ok I may have Just Won Back my freedoms and I can't talk to any of my old friends but yours is worse fkjdbnj. I also went through a lot of homophobia in junior high

I'm in junior high and it's hard. Somedays I feel trapped in my own head. I sometimes even hate myself for being this way.

The people at my school are such dicks. I’ve already talked about how I hate my CAD class but there are multiple people there who are openly homophobic and transphobic and I really hate it. I want to get out of this class so badly but I have it for the rest of the year.

I feel your pain

I used to be out at my previous hs but my parents moved me and then forced me to go back in the closet and I'm in class with solely a few dudes who are all super homophobic I want to perish

Ya Right now when I first came out. People looked at me differently. One boy actually tried to change my beliefs. A few pulled the god will never love you now (Jokes on him I don't believe in god). A few people started treating me differently. I have really bad anxiety and every time I get an anxiety attack this one girl mocks me for it and this started when I came out. I couldn't take it anymore, so I hid back in the closet. Now that I'm learning about myself and my sexuality and gender It's getting harder and harder to stay in the closet. I don't want to be treated differently though, so I'm forcing myself in the closet. I know that I have a safe place among my friends. I don't want to tell them, so right now this is my only safe place.

ok I may have Just Won Back my freedoms and I can't talk to any of my old friends but yours is worse fkjdbnj. I also went through a lot of homophobia in junior high

I'm in junior high and it's hard. Somedays I feel trapped in my own head. I sometimes even hate myself for being this way.

I didn't come out to my friends till freshman year in high school( so like 8 months ago) and they were like, we guess it. Junior high I stayed quiet cuz I didn't now how people would react. There are some classmates I went to school with since like 3rd grade and they make so many jokes about gay people and think they are a disgrace. I am openly bi now and they dont bother me cuz they know better to not mess with me.

The people at my school are such dicks. I’ve already talked about how I hate my CAD class but there are multiple people there who are openly homophobic and transphobic and I really hate it. I want to get out of this class so badly but I have it for the rest of the year.

I feel your pain

I used to be out at my previous hs but my parents moved me and then forced me to go back in the closet and I'm in class with solely a few dudes who are all super homophobic I want to perish

Ya Right now when I first came out. People looked at me differently. One boy actually tried to change my beliefs. A few pulled the god will never love you now (Jokes on him I don't believe in god). A few people started treating me differently. I have really bad anxiety and every time I get an anxiety attack this one girl mocks me for it and this started when I came out. I couldn't take it anymore, so I hid back in the closet. Now that I'm learning about myself and my sexuality and gender It's getting harder and harder to stay in the closet. I don't want to be treated differently though, so I'm forcing myself in the closet. I know that I have a safe place among my friends. I don't want to tell them, so right now this is my only safe place.

ok I may have Just Won Back my freedoms and I can't talk to any of my old friends but yours is worse fkjdbnj. I also went through a lot of homophobia in junior high

I'm in junior high and it's hard. Somedays I feel trapped in my own head. I sometimes even hate myself for being this way.

I didn't come out to my friends till freshman year in high school( so like 8 months ago) and they were like, we guess it. Junior high I stayed quiet cuz I didn't know how people would react. There are some classmates I went to school with since like 3rd grade and they make so many jokes about gay people and think they are a disgrace. I am openly bi now and they don't bother me cuz they know better to not mess with me.

My friend sent me a screenshot from a game called Roblox to me and a few other people on a group chat. In this game, she was playing there was a whiteboard where you could change what it says. The board said "die gays" and her caption was "I guess someone hates gay people," with a laughing emoji. I went ballistic. Even though none of my friends know I'm Bi. They were all super confused, but I was very heated,"

No hate please, but honestly I wish I weren't gay. It isn't a bad thing, but it's ruined some relationships and I get upset with myself whenever I feel gay.

You mean you wish you hadn't come out?

The same here being bi can really suck.

I (think??) I like everyone regardless of gender (still figuring out that part.. again) but I get what you mean. Like, I love liking people of my gender and I'm comfortable with my identity around my friends, but coming out would complicate my relationship with my whole family (and I have a big-ass family) so sometimes I wish things were simpler

shrugs

Same here my dudes

Ya I don't feel comfortable telling my family yet cause they wouldn't like it

I do wish that I hadn't come out. I guess I just don't know what to feel.

I'm sorry for whoever here is having a tough time with all that shit..

meh I'm good with secrets

It'll be fine. I don't have to be confined to my parent's belifs.

There is a children's tv show where one of the main characters are lesbian. we were watching with my grandpa and my little bro asked "If your a girl can you date a girl," I instantly said yes. But my grandpa said "you can but it's wrong" I was real quiet the rest of the night

Oh that's really heartbreaking. I'm sorry. It isn't wrong. It never was.