forum Shuri Appreciation Thread
Started by @RedTheLoveless
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@ember-chan-will-never-forget-you

Done enough by who's standards? Because you've for sure done enough for all of ours.

For mine.
Nothing can ever be enough…

i don't know what i'd do without you so stop being such a humble idiot and realise that you're amazing, okay?

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

Done enough by who's standards? Because you've for sure done enough for all of ours.

For mine.
Nothing can ever be enough…

i don't know what i'd do without you so stop being such a humble idiot and realise that you're amazing, okay?

Thanks, but it's fine…

@CoolBeanz

Why don't you be happy with how much you've done? You can still do more of course, but then at least you're not beating yourself up about anything.

@CoolBeanz

As much as I hate to quote my grandmother's advice to me on this because she misuses the word: Don't be a martyr. You can't care about other people more than you care about yourself or you'll lose yourself in the process. Sure, this is rich coming from a person who also has issues with caring about herself, but I'm working on it and so should you because it's made me a lot happier, and all my friends are happier because of it. People won't die just because you're happy. You can try to find a way to be happy without getting careless. I'll work on finding that way with you, okay? But you can't put yourself on the backburner.

@SaltyLasagna

y'all

Focus on your own happiness. Don't stress yourself out in trying to make everyone else happy. You're not obligated to making sure we're all okay. Take care of yourself before you try to take care of everyone else. It's like if you broke your arm and you were running around taking care of everyone else while ignoring the fact that your arm looks like it got two elbows
I know it's a weird analogy but it's all I could think of.

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

y'all

Focus on your own happiness. Don't stress yourself out in trying to make everyone else happy. You're not obligated to making sure we're all okay. Take care of yourself before you try to take care of everyone else. It's like if you broke your arm and you were running around taking care of everyone else while ignoring the fact that your arm looks like it got two elbows
I know it's a weird analogy but it's all I could think of.

I did do that.
Broke my hand and ignored it to help people.
News flash, it has healed just fine…
It may not work for you.
But for me, it's what I do.

@CoolBeanz

Oh okay, well I'll listen of course. I'll probably still want you to be happy, but at least I'll understand why you don't want yourself to be.

@SaltyLasagna

y'all

Focus on your own happiness. Don't stress yourself out in trying to make everyone else happy. You're not obligated to making sure we're all okay. Take care of yourself before you try to take care of everyone else. It's like if you broke your arm and you were running around taking care of everyone else while ignoring the fact that your arm looks like it got two elbows
I know it's a weird analogy but it's all I could think of.

I did do that.
Broke my hand and ignored it to help people.
News flash, it has healed just fine…
It may not work for you.
But for me, it's what I do.

Did I say it was impossible? No. It's just a really bad idea and nobody should ever feel like they have to do that.
It's okay to lean on people when you're hurting. And it's better for you and everyone else to make sure you're okay before you get involved in other people's pain.

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

y'all

Focus on your own happiness. Don't stress yourself out in trying to make everyone else happy. You're not obligated to making sure we're all okay. Take care of yourself before you try to take care of everyone else. It's like if you broke your arm and you were running around taking care of everyone else while ignoring the fact that your arm looks like it got two elbows
I know it's a weird analogy but it's all I could think of.

I did do that.
Broke my hand and ignored it to help people.
News flash, it has healed just fine…
It may not work for you.
But for me, it's what I do.

Did I say it was impossible? No. It's just a really bad idea and nobody should ever feel like they have to do that.
It's okay to lean on people when you're hurting. And it's better for you and everyone else to make sure you're okay before you get involved in other people's pain.

I do do that when I absolutely need to.
But usually I don't… Better for everyone else…
And when everything is better for everyone else that kinda helps…

@CoolBeanz

How can you not believe you're too good for this world when you do stuff like that???

We're back to square one, now…

Ugh I know, and I promised too, but it's hard to let stuff like this go.