forum The LGBTQ+ Community Chat :)

Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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Hey there y’all Euric is back at it again

EURIC!!!!!

Yo
Wait who are you (sorry if this sounds rude I'm guessing you changed your name and picture so I don't recognize you)

Lol it’s Madison (GüdGayTea, maddog3417) I’m trying out the name Max right now.

Heya guys!

Hiya Shuri!

Ohhh okay hi

Lol yeah. How’ve you been?

Is there any peeps here who were on the “I rant about my crush” chat that was a while ago?

Idk. I don’t think I was on it.

Omg gender fluidity has me messed up today. I went from wanting to wear a dress this morning to now being like “gosh darn it I wish I had a d*ck”

Omg gender fluidity has me messed up today. I went from wanting to wear a dress this morning to now being like “gosh darn it I wish I had a d*ck”

Well as far as I'm concerned you do have one! Male pronouns?

Thank Shuri. Male pronouns would be nice for right now at least

I know! Sounds cool, dear! Thanks for educating me!

Thanks for validating me

Omg gender fluidity has me messed up today. I went from wanting to wear a dress this morning to now being like “gosh darn it I wish I had a d*ck”

This is a whole fucking mood.
I'm out to my parents and my dad just said: "You're happier when your feminine. You have a smile more." And I'm just like -_- I am this close to snapping.

You don't need me to validate you hun.
You're valid enough! No matter what anyone thinks you are you! You are real! Your gender and sexuality is real! And nobody can take that away from you!

You don't need me to validate you hun.
You're valid enough! No matter what anyone thinks you are you! You are real! Your gender and sexuality is real! And nobody can take that away from you!

Thanks Uncle Shuri….I really appreciate it. Is it weird that even though I’m surrounded by friends in the community at school, I’m scared to tell them about my gender?

Not at all. I had nothing to fear coming out as a pan guy. But I was still nervous.

Like everyone knows I’m bi and everyone’s okay with it…but then gender…I just don’t know what they’ll say.

I don't either. What's the political climate of the area around you?

I mean no one really cares about politics, at least not the people whose opinions I care about.

Hmmm. I dunno dear. Maybe if you're gonna come out, come out to the most accepting people. Is there any other genderfluid person(s) where you live?

well, even if things are hard for you now, you'll find your people someday, and they'll accept you no matter what.it always sucks before it gets better. i believe in you!!

Not that I know of

well, even if things are hard for you now, you'll find your people someday, and they'll accept you no matter what.it always sucks before it gets better. i believe in you!!

Thanks Moony, and no ones given me a reason to stay closeted….I just have to stop being scared

Not that I know of

Have you come out to anyone at all about it?

well, even if things are hard for you now, you'll find your people someday, and they'll accept you no matter what.it always sucks before it gets better. i believe in you!!

Thanks Moony, and no ones given me a reason to stay closeted….I just have to stop being scared

NO, its okay to be scared. its okay to feel overwhelmed. Coming out is hard, and some people may not ever do it. you'll do it when you're ready, and it will be great :)

Not that I know of

Have you come out to anyone at all about it?

nO :))))
I’m gonna tell my trans friend tomorrow though

well, even if things are hard for you now, you'll find your people someday, and they'll accept you no matter what.it always sucks before it gets better. i believe in you!!

Thanks Moony, and no ones given me a reason to stay closeted….I just have to stop being scared

NO, its okay to be scared. its okay to feel overwhelmed. Coming out is hard, and some people may not ever do it. you'll do it when you're ready, and it will be great :)

That's right. When coming out, almost everyone is nervous. You just haven't found your footing yet, and that's okay. It may take a little bit for you to find it but I guarantee that once you know what you're doing, you'll do splendid at coming out!