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@Overdoneyanoveltropeyesplease

And I don't think I'll be ready for one in a while…

And that’s totally okay because it’s part of the continuous learning cycle that humans experience throughout there life. You were in a relationship. It was good for a while. But then it was a natural time to end that relationship to make room for personal healing and growth so that when the time is right you will be ready for a new relationship. This will continue until you find one that lasts. And even then, you will always be learning new things in that relationship, too.

@RedTheLoveless

Oh hey, another person who stays friends with exes (most of the time unless they fuck up like being cheated on but hey I exacted my revenge but we're still not fucking even)! Nice!

@Overdoneyanoveltropeyesplease

Healing?
Why would I need to heal?
It's just a breakup, we're still good friends.
I know it's OK.

Idk I don’t have time to really read each and every comment because when I get on, there are about 100 of them and I have stuff I need to do.
The one time I went from romantically interested to forcibly friend-zoned by someone (which is the closest thing I have to this), like a day or two later he suddenly hated my guts and never wanted to have anything to do with me ever again and it’s fucked me up nice and good. So I just kinda assume that a breakup = sad and angry.
Also, you’ve seemed kinda really bummed lately and I assumed it was because of that. Clearly, I was mistaken.

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

Also Shuri, I don't know why but every time I see you around, a song called Bad Boy Good Man starts playing in my head

Mm.
I'm flattered.
Thanks.
I'm actually really romantic with girls honestly, I'll pour my heart out to them over a glass of Chardonnay.
But with guys I tease them and fuck with them a lot.
I dunno why?

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

Healing?
Why would I need to heal?
It's just a breakup, we're still good friends.
I know it's OK.

Idk I don’t have time to really read each and every comment because when I get on, there are about 100 of them and I have stuff I need to do.
The one time I went from romantically interested to forcibly friend-zoned by someone (which is the closest thing I have to this), like a day or two later he suddenly hated my guts and never wanted to have anything to do with me ever again and it’s fucked me up nice and good. So I just kinda assume that a breakup = sad and angry.
Also, you’ve seemed kinda really bummed lately and I assumed it was because of that. Clearly, I was mistaken.

No.
It's the work and school.
And if I'm being honest I started smoking again…

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DO NOT SMOKE it’s really bad I know it’s hard but consider the future

@_sleeby_rat_

I mean smoking in moderation isn't terrible, but smoking a ton is what will kill you. I would know, I have grandparents with asthma so bad a cold gives them pneumonia, and they each go through almost a pack a day. my mom is the same, but she's kind of an asshole so I'm less worried about her hypocritical ass

@SaltyLasagna

Also Shuri, I don't know why but every time I see you around, a song called Bad Boy Good Man starts playing in my head

Mm.
I'm flattered.
Thanks.
I'm actually really romantic with girls honestly, I'll pour my heart out to them over a glass of Chardonnay.
But with guys I tease them and fuck with them a lot.
I dunno why?

what a mood

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

Also Shuri, I don't know why but every time I see you around, a song called Bad Boy Good Man starts playing in my head

Mm.
I'm flattered.
Thanks.
I'm actually really romantic with girls honestly, I'll pour my heart out to them over a glass of Chardonnay.
But with guys I tease them and fuck with them a lot.
I dunno why?

what a mood

Really now?
Cute.

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ok, neither of those are good. is there something else you can do to let off steam? scream into the void? scribble a paper? anything’s better than that.

@Max_Miracle_DroppedMostOfTheirRPs

I don't smoke on the street.
It's in seclusion so nobody else suffers.
It's better for me than cutting I guess…

In the long run it’s really not. It’s really terrible and I know you’re probably sick of hearing that but it’s true.

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

I don't smoke on the street.
It's in seclusion so nobody else suffers.
It's better for me than cutting I guess…

In the long run it’s really not. It’s really terrible and I know you’re probably sick of hearing that but it’s true.

I haven't seen any ill affects yet but you're right.
I plan to ditch the smokes soon anyway…

@Shuri-the-Floof-Doggo

IT HAPPENED AGAIN DXTCYFUVGBIH

If they threatened you agsin that just means they're most likely bluffing, or else they'd have done it again.
Report it if you must, again, and stay safe…