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Started April 21, 2018 by @Tylerrr-M-P

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Today's aesthetic is Lazy Saturday. My super wide-neck "NO" sweater and my Hogwarts lounge pants. No socks yet because I don't need 'em right now

Today's aesthetic: been wearing the same sweatpants and top for 3 days

Today’s aesthetic is getting all fancied up in a dress later for my sister’s zoom wedding

Today's aesthetic: bad flute playing and severe nostalgia

Today's Aesthetic: lesbian trucker/farmhand. Seriously, the colors of my flannel are basically the lesbian pride flag lol.

Today's aesthetic: Wearing pajamas all day and freezing because the house is like, 65 degrees or some bs like that

Today’s aesthetic is getting all fancied up in a dress later for my sister’s zoom wedding

Only in 2020

Today’s aesthetic is getting all fancied up in a dress later for my sister’s zoom wedding

Only in 2020

Indeed. Now we must pray that dysphoria decides to take the day off

Y'all I'm trying to decide if I want to buy a binder. I mean, I DEFINITELY want one, but I don't want my family to find out so idk what to do. And I know it's important to only wear it for a certain amount of hours per day, but I'd probably accidentally wear it for longer pretty much every day bc I have the worst memory in the world…

Honestly, as a person who wears a binder: it helps. So much. I got a really pretty red one from GC2B and it fit perfectly and really helped with my dysphoria.

If you wear it for too long you will feel like shit if you keep wearing it, but don't worry too much about time. When it wants off, you will KNOW.

As for family finding out, if you have a friend you trust I suggest mailing it to their address if they're willing to smuggle it to you. I hope things work out for you!

Honestly, as a person who wears a binder: it helps. So much. I got a really pretty red one from GC2B and it fit perfectly and really helped with my dysphoria.

If you wear it for too long you will feel like shit if you keep wearing it, but don't worry too much about time. When it wants off, you will KNOW.

As for family finding out, if you have a friend you trust I suggest mailing it to their address if they're willing to smuggle it to you. I hope things work out for you!

Ahhh this is so helpful! Thanks for the advice, I'll probably order one soon :D
Dysphoria can suck it

Man, sometimes I think I have a crush and then I see some couple doing something and they're cute or whatever but like I don't wanna do that with my maybe-crush so does that make it not a crush or is it just something I would never do under any circumstances also we hugged twice yesterday because it was senior night and maybe my last football game and I-
She's very cute and I lomf her but I also know who she has a crush on and she thinks I'm 500% aro so like
And like maybe it's me being a little bit touch starved because I've touched two people all year and she just walks up behind me and pats my head when I'm sitting down but damn

Ooh~

obligitory "girls are really fucking pretty and i hate it" message because i haven't shouted that out loud in a few days

I mean valid girls really are pretty.

Today’s aesthetic: black band t-shirt tied in the front, long yellow skirt, flowery docs, cool eyeliner

That sounds epic :0

Today’s aesthetic: an oversized Star Wars shirt and sweatpants and wondering how the hell anyone could see me as female.

That sounds epic :0

Thank you, I feel epic

That feeling when you keep getting characters pronouns mixed up because they sound similar-ish.

I am TRANS why do I DO THIS

I should KNOW BETTER

I…..I feel that
Except I mess up actual people’s pronouns sometimes and I’m like “:) why am I stupid”

Same

Oh mood @Max_Miracle, mood.

But only in my head.

Which I still feel bad about obviously, I just…. hhhhhhh I don’t know.

I misgendered my S.O. casually in conversation the other day and I deadass almost slammed my head into the wall out of frustration.

Oh dear!

Like I didn’t…but I wanted to