forum freshman advice corner(more advice from crocs)
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@GoodThingGoing group

Oh God, I'd rather not go to college than go to a Christian college-

I feel thatttt
My college was a Baptist college back in the day, but they basically got kicked out of being a Christian college because they refused to quit teaching evolution in the 80s lmao. Also we have a huge LGBT+ community, our professors say fuck all the time, and we're honestly less conservative than a lot of Georgia colleges.

I went to a Catholic elementary/middle school and while I did like it, there's no way I could go to a Christian college and not spiral. Church is huge for my anxiety, and one of the main triggers for my mental health deteriorating was realizing I was queer and being afraid to come out (having now come out to a handful of friends, the anxiety about it is indeed less). Plus I want to be able to be out in college and be able to befriend other queer folks there.

@croccin-champagne

catholic schools…usually have the best architecture. that's all i honestly know about them beyond the fact that i a) probably can't go to them and b) would get kicked out. also that i'm not too interested in them

@GoodThingGoing group

catholic schools…usually have the best architecture. that's all i honestly know about them beyond the fact that i a) probably can't go to them and b) would get kicked out. also that i'm not too interested in them

HA remind me to PM you about how shitty the architecture at mine was, it's a bit long for here (also I wanna include pics without doxing myself to everyone lmao)

@GoodThingGoing group

Tbh mine was pretty lax with the Catholic stuff, we'd have religion class 3 or 4 days a week and weekly church, plus we'd start the day with prayers and stuff, but besides that there wasn't really much religious stuff.

@jupiter-sun-of-sweater-town group

I went to a private Christian school for kindergarten only, and they were decently chill. I actually loved it at the time and didn't realize how bad the school was, even for a private school, until a few years ago. There was no library and no buses. It was so small that there was only 1 teacher for each grade (this was a k-12 school), and third and fourth grade even shared a teacher. My parents pulled me from it after almost all the teachers left, and k-12 would be sharing three teachers. I think they closed last year. I've been going to public school since then, and while I like it as much as one can like public school aka not a whole lot, I do sometimes miss the environment.
However, Jyn, I do relate to you on a smaller level. My parents, especially my dad, are not particularly fond of any sexuality other than straight, and even though demiromantic just means that I'm really picky, idk whether to tell them that there's a word for it out of fear that they'd misunderstand. It literally just means that I'm extremely picky about who I fall in love with, which they know already. idk if it's even worth bringing up. so sorry for the random vent

@croccin-champagne

catholic schools…usually have the best architecture. that's all i honestly know about them beyond the fact that i a) probably can't go to them and b) would get kicked out. also that i'm not too interested in them

HA remind me to PM you about how shitty the architecture at mine was, it's a bit long for here (also I wanna include pics without doxing myself to everyone lmao)

oh bet. i've seen a handful that i've lived near(like minor ones) and they had nice architecture, and also i've seen pics of catholic colleges with really nice architecture. that is what i'm basing that off lmao

@GoodThingGoing group

Honestly the switch isn't that bad. Anything specific you want advice on?
Public schools are generally bigger, so there's that. Usually a bit louder too.
If you're still interested in practicing Catholicism, maybe see about finding some sort of religious ed or small-group thing to join? I was in one for a bit before I got confirmed.

@croccin-champagne

public schools are weird. that's all there really is to it, long as you aren't getting a super bad one. sometimes the weird is even charming, and if it is, definitely hold on to that and laugh

school food? horrible. bring your own if you can but usually the breakfast isn't the worst. steal milk from your friends tho when they don't want it. always keep some snacks on you but don't let anyone know unless you're down with sharing. or ig if you don't know anyone then no one will likely ask lmao, except for Those kids. but yeah snacks are a life saver, school if boring and long.

dress comfortably. even with a dress code, you can still dress in ways that make you feel comfortable, which usually implies sweats and t-shirts or whatever. but really anything works. and if teachers give you shit about how in college it won't be accepted–they like to do that–tell them that unless a college has a specific standard they only care that you show up to class. because that's where the money comes from. not your outfit.

make friends, and make acquaintances. acquaintances are good when you just need a familiar face and casual conversation, and friends are friends and we love them. don't push yourself to over socialize. i see people do it all the time, and seriously, don't

you will be laughed at for something in your school career. teens laugh at other teens. it's fine, and everyone tends to forget everything because they're too tired and depressed and have other things to do. so seriously, don't be afraid of messing up or looking stupid cause usually no one will even notice in the first place

be nice to people! give compliments as much as you can and it'll hella improve both your day and someone else's and since public school is so boring and gross, everyone needs it

everyone is just as tired/stressed/nervous as you are at orientation. talk to people. ask for help. please, please, please don't hide and try to avoid talking. if you have a question ask it, talk to someone who looks as nervous as you feel. everyone doesn't want to be there. some people are just better at hiding it than others

people seem spooky but they're just as mortal as you are

if you have any specific questions as it gets closer to it, just ask and anyone here can probably answer!

@galaxyunicorn-is-in-love-with-starry

school food? horrible. bring your own if you can but usually the breakfast isn't the worst. steal milk from your friends tho when they don't want it. always keep some snacks on you but don't let anyone know unless you're down with sharing. or ig if you don't know anyone then no one will likely ask lmao, except for Those kids. but yeah snacks are a life saver, school if boring and long.

breakfast??? do you eat breakfast at school???

@Pickles group

school food? horrible. bring your own if you can but usually the breakfast isn't the worst. steal milk from your friends tho when they don't want it. always keep some snacks on you but don't let anyone know unless you're down with sharing. or ig if you don't know anyone then no one will likely ask lmao, except for Those kids. but yeah snacks are a life saver, school if boring and long.

breakfast??? do you eat breakfast at school???

Sometimes schools serve breakfast for lunch

@galaxyunicorn-is-in-love-with-starry

school food? horrible. bring your own if you can but usually the breakfast isn't the worst. steal milk from your friends tho when they don't want it. always keep some snacks on you but don't let anyone know unless you're down with sharing. or ig if you don't know anyone then no one will likely ask lmao, except for Those kids. but yeah snacks are a life saver, school if boring and long.

breakfast??? do you eat breakfast at school???

Sometimes schools serve breakfast for lunch

oh. yeah my old school did that sometimes

@croccin-champagne

no….the public schools i went to served breakfast. it helped low income students and students who had to be dropped off a bit earlier due to their parents' work schedules. gave them something to do and eat

@croccin-champagne

sucks that you're missing the golden age of public school lunches tho. when they served jello on holidays, special days had little cups of icecream, and breakfast had those blueberry muffins in packaging

but yeah i didnt realize some schools didn't have breakfast lmao my family was a lot harder pressed for money when i was in elementary school so we always got breakfast at school

@Becfromthedead group

Guess it depends where you live. I thought all public schools did, but then again, I live in a place with a lot of poverty. The schools offer reduced price and free lunches to students under certain income brackets as well.

@croccin-champagne

Guess it depends where you live. I thought all public schools did, but then again, I live in a place with a lot of poverty. The schools offer reduced price and free lunches to students under certain income brackets as well.

oh yeah, my family got the free or reduced lunches for years, until my mom started working and they made just over the limit for any reduction at all. like. barely over it. so i started packing my lunches, which usually meant grabbing snacks and forgetting that meals existed unless i had left over pasta

@GoodThingGoing group

Mine does free breakfast iirc, I never ate it since a) I rarely got to school on time and b) I felt like I shouldn't since I could afford to eat breakfast at home and didn't want to take away from people who couldn't.
Keep some cash on you or in your backpack, whether it's for something from a vending machine, to bail a friend out at lunch, or in case people invite you for a snack after school. Take AP classes, but only for subjects you enjoy/are willing to dedicate a lot of time to. Personally I'd recommend AP US History or, from what I've heard, AP Psychology.
The whole "pop quiz!!!" thing from all those teen movies doesn't seem to be a real thing, at least at my school.
TAKE A STUDY HALL!! Personally I'd see about taking it later in the day so you can get your homework done, but it's just good to have a class period where you can wind down a bit.

@Pickles group

If there are pop quizzes at your school, it's probably only for a class or two (my bio teacher loved them) and just during "pop quiz season!!!!1!1" which is the first quarter and maybe a little bit after. Usually they make it pretty clear at the beginning whether or not there are regular pop quizzes, but reading through your notes at the end of every day helps you when test time comes so do that anyway